Look Around You – There Are Plenty of Places to Meet Women!
Whether you live in a small town or a major city like myself there will always be certain places that you know will just have tons of attractive women.
Many of my students from small towns are always asking where they “should” go to meet women. I have a huge problem with the word “should!”
Theoretically there is no “should” or “should not” place. Anywhere is a good place to meet women! No questions asked.
My advice is to frequent the places and or establishments that you know will typically have quite a few women in them. I don’t care where you live on this planet or what town you live in, there will always be somewhere you can go.
Sure, maybe if the population is very low you may have to use some imagination. But if you were to take me to any of these towns or cities and give me a few hours there, I will always find the women! Like a bloodhound, I’ll sniff them out. 100% guaranteed.
Here’s what I mean by “imagination:” think of the most crowded places nearby. This could be:
1) A mall, or
2) Walmart, Costco, etc. Big stores attract a lot of people, especially in rural areas.
But you can go beyond that.
3) A farmer’s market?
6) Fund-raising events?
You get the idea. Believe it or not, your local newspaper is a great source of these events each and every week.
This may mean having to visit a neighboring city or town that has more people than yours.
Is that a less-than-ideal situation? Maybe. But think of the rewards! You’ll always want to visit the places that will give you the best chances for success.
Since we’re on the topic of small towns and cities and don’t worry, I’ll discuss major cities and such in just a bit. For now I’d like to talk about what I call “Small Town Syndrome.”
The Cure For “Small Town Syndrome”
Small Town Syndrome is where you live in small town with a tiny community where it is perceived that everybody knows one another. In these towns everybody knows everybody else’s business!
When I speak with people from these small towns, their number one complaint is that they fear approaching women because everyone will hear about it. If they get rejected, it will be an embarrassment to them because word will start spreading around town.
To me, this is just another manifestation of fear! Any time you have or give yourself an excuse to not approach a woman that you are attracted to, it is a manifestation of fear! Don’t try to kid yourself… you’re scared and that’s why you won’t approach the women you see.
Although some of your concerns may seem valid, in truth they’re nothing but excuses that are holding you back from success.
I’d rather be the guy who goes after his dreams and pursuits than the man that sits back quietly and lets life pass him by.
I’d rather risk embarrassment for going after my dreams than let them slip away while I’m at home watching Netflix and wasting my life.
In a small town, it’s much more powerful to be the man who hits on women than the quiet guy who doesn’t make any noise. Don’t worry about what your friends, family or neighbors will think. Just be that guy who hits on women.
Think of it this way: you’re always going to be more attractive to women if you’re known as “the guy who goes for what he wants.” Men even admire this quality in other men.
Sooner or later, if you keep at it, and just go for what you want without apology, you’ll start to give off more confidence. This is part of what people are getting at when they tell guys to “be more confident,” but they usually don’t explain it nearly as well.
What they’re really saying is “go for whatever you want, and don’t apologize for it.”
What Kind of Guy Do You Want to Be?
Also, if you’re worried about your reputation, do you want to be known as the “shy nice guy?” Is that going to equal success with a lot of women? Or even a few high-quality ones in your area?
No, it’s far better to be known as “a guy who’s good with women” than “the shy nice guy.” The outgoing guy who’s good with women” has some chance at success with any given women.
The shy nice guy? Not so much.
None other than “The Great One,” hockey legend Wayne Gretzky once said, “You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.” If you aren’t talking to women (so if you’re a “shy nice guy”), you’re guaranteed to have no success with them.
If you live in a town where there are seriously only 50 people in it, my suggestion would be to drive to the closest town that has more women in it, or move to a better town until you’ve accomplished your dating goals.
There is just no excuse. I’m am certain that in your town or close by towns there will be a Walmart, Costco, Target, shopping mall, flea markets, churches (YES…Churches are wonderful places to meet women), amusement parks, etc…
(That reminds me: place #8 is church!)
Get up off your couch, get in your car and drive there. Stop being lazy and making excuses!
The Best “Hidden Gem” Places To Meet Women In Big Cities
Now that we covered small towns we should talk about bigger towns and cities.
I personally live in NYC where there are women every few inches. You literally can’t walk 20 feet without seeing a cute girl. It’s actually quite overwhelming.
Hot chicks everywhere! It’s the ultimate playground for a single man.
But, even though I prefer meeting women on the street who are just walking around, there are still certain places that I love to go that I know will always have beautiful women in them.
You don’t have to live in NYC to have access to these types of places either. Every major city will have the same stores or something very similar.
Some of my personal favorites are:
9) Whole Foods
10) Victoria’s Secret (A women’s lingerie store)
11) Women’s shoe stores
12) Yoga Studios (I will usually just go in and sit around. Most Yoga studios have a store or juice bar), and
13) Women’s clothing stores.
You may be saying to yourself, “That’s great Glenn, but there’s no way a man can walk into a women’s clothing store, shoe store or Victoria’s Secret!”
I’m here to tell you that you’re 100% wrong! I’ve done this 100’s of times and I’ve never once been kicked out by an employee, looked at like I was creepy or anything of the like.
I don’t let fear hold me back, ever! I know where women hang out and if I want to meet women, I go to where they are, unapologetically!
If you’re a man on the hunt for women you should know where your best chances for success are.
You should know where women hang-out, shop, and congregate, and go there for yourself. If you’re not seeing women, you will certainly not meet women, either!
Most women fantasize about meeting a cool guy in one these locations. Just watch any romantic movie or read a romance novel. They are littered with scenarios where the woman will meet a random man in an unlikely place.
Ask any women if she would love to meet a guy in a Whole Foods grocery store and she would say yes.
Ask any women if she would love to meet a great guy in a coffee shop and she will say yes.
And ask any woman in they’ve fantasized about a random chance encounter with a man and they will say yes!
Stop making excuses and go meet some women!
Your Next Steps
I’m working on some more advice in this area, but for now, you should check out Magic’s Guide on the 27 Places to Meet More Women Now.
What I’ve given you in this article is a good start, but it’s just that–a start. By going through Magic’s guide, you’ll start to get some new ideas that you’ve probably never thought of before.
And that’s part of that “imagination” process I was talking about earlier.
So here’s what you do next: click here now to get immediate access to this free guide, and start finding a lot more great women in your area today.