Discover The Best Anal Sex Advice for AMAZING Anal Experiences That She’ll Beg You for More Of…
So, you’re ready for some backdoor action?
Excellent.
Of course, as with any sexual experience, you want to make sure that things are as pleasurable as possible for your partner.
If you’re wondering about the best way to do that, you’ve come to the right place.
We’ve got the lowdown on how to make anal sex feel amazing for both you and the women you try it with–so every woman you try anal with will be eager to do it with you again.
Doctors have answered some of the most asked questions about anal.
Read on for tips that’ll have her coming back for more (really!).
1) Do I Have to Use Lube?
Absolutely. Yes. You must.
Seriously.
Lube is non-negotiable for anal sex. The reason being that while the vagina lubricates itself, the anus–not so much.
Without lube, there’s the possibility of pain and tearing for her and a less-than-comfortable experience for you.
The tearing can also make you both more vulnerable to sexually transmitted infections, which can put a damper on life in the bedroom.
Lube is handy to have around, anyway. It can make vaginal sex more pleasurable, it’s great with sex toys, and it makes alone time go a bit more smoothly.
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In terms of what lube to buy, doctors recommend water-based lube or silicone-based lube. Oil-based lubricants can break down condoms (unhelpful).
Keep in mind, though, that silicone-based lube and silicon-based toys don’t mix. Silicone-based lube actually breaks down silicone-based toys. If you’re using a toy, go with water-based lube.
If you’re not using toys, silicone-based lube has staying power and feels great. It’s perfect for going the distance with anal sex.
2) Should We Try a Numbing Cream?
No.
I know they’re out there and marketed for anal sex, but no.
Here’s why:
If your partner can’t feel what’s happening, you might push things too far without realizing.
She might experience pain or tearing, and if she’s numb, she can’t tell you to slow down or use more lube. She wouldn’t be able to tell.
Besides, if you’re doing things right (lots of foreplay, good communication, tons of lube, and taking things slowly) there’s absolutely no reason to use numbing cream.
3) How Do I Get Her Ready for Anal?
Anal sex isn’t something you can jump right into.
You need to get her relaxed and ready.
First, start with foreplay.
Whatever gets her turned on and ready to go–kissing, fondling, playing with her clit, giving her oral.
You could even start with giving her an orgasm, then working your back to anal.
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Once she’s turned on, use some lube and play with her backdoor. Use your fingers or tongue and explore. Start gently and slowly, working your way around the outside, then insert a finger.
If you have a smaller toy, start with that. Insert it (slowly and with lube).
Give her some time to relax into it and focus on other things for a moment. Kiss her neck, play with her breasts, then come back to the toy and take it out.
Whether you’ve used a toy or not, take it slow from there.
Start with inserting the tip of your penis, then slowly work your way into her. Start with gentle thrusts, then ramp things up slowly.
From time to time, add more lube, and enjoy! 😉
4) Is Oral-Anal Play Safe
Actually, yes. And it feels great, so there’s that.
Of course, if your partner has had any sort of digestive issues, doctors recommend avoiding it.
If you’re concerned about STIs, you may want to use a barrier like a dental dam.
Beyond that, though, it’s totally safe. If you’re concerned about cleanliness, suggest taking a shower or bath together before you play.
Then dive in. You actually have a ton of nerve endings “back there,” so it can be quite a turn on.
5) What Position Is Best for Anal?
Several positions work well for anal. It’s more a matter of what kind of vibe you want and how often you’ve had anal with your partner.
If this is your first time trying anal with your partner, then you may want to be on top.
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Hold her legs up and slide in slowly. Being on top give you the chance to stimulate her clit while you do the deed.
It also lets you see her face, which can be super hot. It’s hard to beat intense eye contact during sex.
Doggy style, of course, is a classic anal sex position. It gives you more access so you can go a bit more deeply.
Alternatively, you could have her on top. In that position, she controls the pace, which can feel amazing and empowering for her. 😉
Once things are going with anal sex, it can actually feel really good for your partner.
Depending on her anatomy, she may even be able to orgasm from it. During anal sex, you may be able to hit her G-spot, which (as you probably already know) is a cluster of nerves along her vaginal wall.
If this doesn’t work for your partner, though, don’t despair. Some women need or prefer clitoral stimulation to orgasm. Use your fingers, her fingers, or a vibrator to provide her with the stimulation she needs.
Attend to her needs, take things slow, and use lube liberally and you’ll both have a great time.
But there is one very important question I haven’t addressed it…
How Do You Get Her to Keep “Coming” Back for More Anal Adventures?
Once a woman is willing to have anal with you once… then you might be wondering:
“How can I get her to do it again?”
Well… the answer is pretty simple:
You’ve gotta show her a damn good time in the sack!
And in fact there’s a technique you can use to make anal sex MUCH more pleasurable, and even give her powerful anal orgasms… it’s called “5 Finger Tantra.”
Using only your 5 fingers, this works to stimulate ALL of a woman’s pleasure centers *down there* (her clit, her G-spot, etc.)…
… and in fact some women have even described the experience like “rolling” on the drug ecstasy only better!
(I can personally vouch for this haha) 😉
This technique will give your woman such intense orgasms that she’ll NEVER forget who you are, and will constantly want to sleep with you more…
Which means a whole lot more anal for you, so it’s a win-win :-):
