Are Pheromones Real? And If So, Can You Use Them to Sniff Out “The One”?
There are dozens of books, hundreds of YouTube videos, and millions of blog posts all focused on tips to help you find (and keep) “The One.”
But what if the only thing you’ve needed to figure it out…to discover once and for all if she’s right for you…has been in front of you all along?
What if your own body could tell you when you’re a match?
That’s what this new study is saying.
In fact, according to the study, your own nose can help you “sniff out” The One…it all boils down to your body’s chemistry.
What’s Chemistry Got to Do With Anything?
Ever heard someone talk about “body chemistry” before? The truth is there are a lot of things going on in your body…and they’re going on all the time.
Like when you meet a woman — your two bodies interact with each other in a way that neither of you are even aware of.
For example, have you ever met a woman that on paper, looks perfect for you…but in reality, something feels “off”? Turns out it’s more than just a “hunch”…it’s your body’s way of telling you she’s wrong for you!
Same goes for her — if you’re interested in a woman and feel like you’re doing everything “right”…and yet she doesn’t respond to your texts or calls…her body might be subconsciously telling her it’s not a good match (even if you think it is).
Dating expert Simone Paget has experienced this firsthand with a guy she used to date.
Meet the Woman Who Experienced This Phenomenon Firsthand
Simone Paget is a sex columnist for the Toronto Sun and the mastermind behind the popular sex and relationship blog Skinnydip. You may have read her pieces on porn and the phenomenon of “benching” before…but body chemistry? That’s new.
Simone’s latest column in the Toronto Sun details her relationship with “Greg,” a guy who seemed completely perfect for her on paper. And yet, she just wasn’t interested in him like she felt she should have been.
According to Simone, it was his “smell” that was off.
His scent reminded her of mildew or damp, musty laundry. It drove her crazy — and not in a good way!
But in reality, Simone wasn’t crazy — her body was just telling her that this guy definitely was not “The One.”
It’s a difficult concept to believe…your body will “tell” you when someone isn’t a match? What if they just smell bad?
Turns out it’s true though — and a new study explains why. It all boils down to something called your “HLA Complex.”
“HLA Complex”? HUH???
Your HLA Complex, or Human Leukocyte Antogen, is your body’s way of telling the difference between your cells, and “outsider” cells. And as it turns out, your HLA Complex will also tell you when someone is…or isn’t…a match.
The study that discovered this examined 254 couples and their respective HLA Complexes. And what they found is that having a partner with a highly different HLA Complex from yours will lead to increased sexual desire and an increased desire to procreate.
And our bodies signal when someone has a very different HLA Complex through the sense of smell.
Your “natural musk” can be a huge turn-on for a woman who has a different HLA Complex from yours…though it can also be a big turn-off for a woman who has a similar HLA Complex.
But why would you want to date someone with a different HLA Complex in the first place? Does it really matter?
Yes! Because a woman who has a different HLA Complex from yours is most likely to have different genes — so you’re less likely to be related.
Making sure you’re not dating a woman who’s related to you isn’t really a problem now, with Facebook and the internet…but it used to be.
So this is your body’s way of giving you some help. If you’re with a woman and you just can’t get over her “natural” scent…maybe it’s a sweet muskiness…or she smells “off”…chances are her HLA Complex is too similar to yours for it to be a true match.
So how can you use this information to your advantage? There are a few ways to do it:
1) Embrace Your Natural Smell
Now, I’m not saying you should stop showering. (Don’t do that.)
But don’t spray yourself down with a bunch of Axe, either. Embrace your natural “musk” — it’s the best way to attract a woman who’s going to be a good match for you.
Some girls will go wild for your scent, and some won’t…but the ones that do are best suited for you. Of that you can be sure.
You might not even be able to smell your natural musk — most people can’t — but you know how some girls like to sleep in their boyfriend’s t-shirts? Because it smells like them?
That’s why. So the sooner you embrace your natural muskc, the sooner you can find the woman who’s right for you.
Whihc brings me to my next piece of advice…
2) Remember: You Can’t Fake It
At the end of the day, you can’t beat biology. There’s not a single deodorant or body spray out there that will make her see you as a match if your HLA complexes are too alike.
And that’s fine! This is a good thing…the truth is it’s good not to match up with every single woman. Then you’d never be able to pick out “The One” from a pool of thousands.
So how do you know if your scent is telling you she’s a match?
If her smell isn’t unpleasant…
Or if you find it memorable, even…
Or want to smell her more than you think might be “normal”…
Then she could be a match!
In fact, if you frequently find yourself craving her scent (sniffing her clothes, rolling onto her side of the bed, etc.), it’s a great sign you may have found your soulmate.
Though if you’re single, it’s hard to know whether or not you crave a particular woman’s “scent.”
You could pay more attention to the way her skin smells…but there’s an even easier thing to look at to determine whether or not the 2 of you are a match:
Her body language.
3) The #1 Sign She’s a Match: She Gives You Her 3 “Seductive Signals”
“I don’t get it…why didn’t he make a move? I gave him all 3 of the Seductive Signals…” My friend Maddie said, frowning.
“Hmm…you even gave him the Sex Eyes?” I asked her…
“Yeah! I looked at him exactly like this…I was hoping he’d notice when I did the second signal with my feet…and then the third with my neck…I’m so freaking horny it hurts!”
She blushed…”But obviously I couldn’t just blurt that out…God…How do so many guys miss our signals?”
That got me thinking…are there more guys out there missing these signals? I guess if you aren’t sure what to look for, they can slip right under your radar…
Though they reveal her naughty sexual fantasies…about how she wants you to pull her into the bathroom and ravish her…
Check them out and decide for yourself–you’re gonna love them:
Discover the 3 Seductive Signals That Reveal Her Sexual Desire for YOU…
