Asking for a Phone Number Has Never Been Easier…
I was walking down the street one day, and out of the corner of my eye I see a guy run up to woman.
As I see him running to catch up to her I can’t help myself but to follow. The hunt is on!
He starts talking to her, and it seems to be going well. She’s laughing and having a great time…
It doesn’t hurt that she’s also super sexy — long blonde hair…
Hazel eyes…
Beautiful smile…
And a tight little yoga body. I was actually jealous I didn’t get to her first.
Anyway, every few minutes I take another step toward them so I can hear what they’re saying, and after about 15 minutes I’m pretty much right next to them.
That’s when I hear her say, “Who taught you how to ask for a woman’s number? You’re crazy!”
As she’s saying this, she walks off in a storm, visibly shocked and angered by whatever he said.
Now, I didn’t hear the exact words he said (although I would pay good money to know what they are), but what was said doesn’t matter. The exact words are of no consequence.
What’s important here is that he had her all the way up to getting her number…
And that’s when he blew it.
The #1 Reason Guys Get Rejected When Asking for a Woman’s Phone Number
Now, I can positively say that this guy has studied dating advice and was out there doing what he has learned…
And for that I commend him!
I know this because he was doing everything right:
- He had the right approach…
- He was making excellent conversation…
- Touching her in exactly the right ways to build her attraction…
Only men who study dating advice know how to do some of things he was doing.
So this guy clearly knew what he was doing, but…I also knew he had been told what to do by a dating coach or instructor because he f–ked up getting her number so badly.
How do I know that?
Well, if you were to see this guy on the street before asking for this woman’s number, you’d think to yourself, “This guy really knows what he’s doing. He’s got all the tricks up his sleeve.”
But if this was just some random guy who knew what to do, and he wasn’t following blind advice from a dating instructor…do you think he would have messed up getting her number so badly?
Hell no he wouldn’t have!
So some dating instructor — a really bad one at that — told him how to get her number. And so this is the biggest mistake guys make when asking for a woman’s phone number:
They trust blind advice and not themselves.
So What Can You Do About It?
Here’s the truth: Dating advice can be really great…
But it can also be total crap. So what happened to this guy (more likely than not) is that he read some B.S. on a popular men’s dating website or hired a really cheap dating coach…and took 100% of the advice they gave him.
This is the wrong approach to dating!
Here at Gotham Club, I strive to give you the most advice that I possibly can for free. And that’s because I want you to succeed — I want to see you meet the woman you’re meant to be with.
There are only a handful of really great dating instructors and coaches out there, and let me tell you — you’re only getting premium quality dating advice here at Gotham Club.
No crap. No B.S.
That’s why what I’m about to show you is such a big deal — I usually only share this with my clients…because this is a trick that works so damn well…87% of the time, in fact…
But after seeing this guy stumble over himself so badly, I decided I couldn’t keep it to myself any longer.
Are you ready to see the absolute quickest and easiest way to get a girl’s phone number?
Just check this out:
My Go-To “Facebook Trick” That Works Nearly Every Time…
This is the trick I use almost every day when I approach women and ask for their numbers:
When your conversation is coming to an end (but not at the very end), say:
“Hey, are you on Facebook?”
Then before she has a chance to answer, start looking at your phone and say:
“Actually, I’m never even on Facebook anymore…give me your number instead, and I’ll shoot you a text right now so you’ll have my number!”
Then send her a text right then and there. You could make it a simple “Hey,” or what I love to do is go the clever route with something like, “Awesome hot guy from the park.” It always gets a laugh!
And this accomplishes 2 things:
1) She’ll take out her phone to check the text, so you know she gave you the right phone number and not a fake one.
2) She’ll laugh (if you go the clever route). Which is perfect if you want to stand out in her memory!
This method has been tested by myself and 1000’s of men that I’ve coached.
It works, and it works well. Never again will you have to figure out the best way to get a woman’s number, because now you have it!
Spot the Women Who Want YOU: Look for Her 7 “Subtle Sex Signals”
We all know that a woman can say one thing…and mean the total opposite. And so the key to knowing what she wants? It’s is in her body language, baby!
In my experience, guys who can read a woman’s body language have a huuuuuge leg up over other guys…because they can read her “sex signals.”
So if you can spot them, there’s no more “guessing” — you’ll know within seconds whether or not she’s into you (even if she’s all the way across the room)…
And that means you’ll be able to get her number without EVER risking rejection.
After approaching more than 15,000 women, I’ve learned there are exactly 7 of these signals…no more, no less.
I call them her 7 “Subtle Sex Signals”…just go here to see them (you’re gonna love this):
Show Me the 7 “Subtle Sex Signals” She Uses to Tell Me She’s Interested in Me...
