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What do you think of when you hear the word “therapist”?

Probably a patient lying on a couch, talking through their troubles…

While the therapist sits patiently by, notebook in hand, nodding and making sympathetic noises—right??

But what about a sex therapist?

Sex therapists use similar methods as regular therapists—mostly talk—to help you improve your sex life.

They say things like, “make time for romance”…

“Pay attention to the needs of your partner”…

And so on.

Sure, there are plenty of basics a therapist could tell you that might iron out the kinks in your love life.

But did you know that there are sex therapists whose prescriptions are a little more… wild?

Some sex therapists focus solely on helping people experiment with kinky sex & BDSM.

As in, they want to teach you to have better, hotter, kinkier sex right now.

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And we got our hands on some exclusive tips from one such BDSM-friendly sex therapist.

There are tips that ANY guy can use to start spicing things up between the sheets, and have hotter sex right away.

So what are you waiting for?

Let’s dive in!

1) The “Obvious” First Step…

This might not sound super sexy…

But it’s important to talk to your partner before experimenting with BDSM.

Why?

Well… if you talk with your partner first, you’ll have more fun and will be more likely to get out of your comfort zone and try something extra wild.

If you both know where the other one is at, you won’t keep wondering, is she OK with this? Or this?

You’ll KNOW exactly what she’s OK with, so you can proceed with confidence.

A pre-play conversation lets you set limits, too, so you know everything will stay safe and fun.

As you get more experienced with BDSM, the professionals told us, you can have another conversation, and change things up or get more advanced.

2) This Might Sound Crazy But…

Have another conversation.

Um, what???

YES, keep talking! But this time, make it dirty.

Dirty talk is a real skill. That’s why they pay people to do it over the phone!

But you can do it with your partner, for free, with just a little practice.

Dirty talk is a great way to begin your BDSM adventure. Because you’re just using words, you can start slowly, and build up.

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You don’t have to figure out how to tie a special knot or navigate your bedroom in a blindfold.

Just talking about what you’re going to do to each other can be just as fun and a huge turn-on.

Maybe you’re a submissive who likes to be tied up. Or maybe you’re a dominant who likes to do the tying.

Your partner can tell you how she’s been naughty, and you can tell her about the discipline she’s about to get!

Sometimes, the anticipation of an act can be as great as the act itself.

Add a whole new level to your sex life with dirty talk. No magic skills required!

3) Pretend It’s Halloween

Well, sort of.

I really don’t recommend you go trick-or-treating as part of your BDSM play… unless you’re certain the neighbors are into that!

But you CAN bring costumes into your sex life.

Maybe you dress up as a customer and she dresses up as a waitress. Characters from a favorite film. The possibilities are endless!

This lets you play around with the power dynamics that make BDSM so fun.

Using costumes is also a great way for people who are new to BDSM to feel less awkward.

As soon as you put on your costume, you’re someone else!

Maybe the old you doesn’t do this kind of thing—but in costume, you and your partner can both take on a new personality, and really push your limits.

Who knows what you’ll discover about each other? 😉

4) Get “Tied Up”

BDSM is about power dynamics.

It’s about experimenting with dominance and submission.

A great way to do this is by restraining the other person.

(First, make sure the person getting tied up is cool with that—otherwise, this could be freaky in a bad way!)

You can get a book that teaches you to tie special knots, if you want to learn a new skill at the same time. One option is The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage, by Midori.

You don’t need a Ph.D. In knot tying, though, to start having fun.

Just make sure you can actually get out of the bond you make. Keep some safety scissors handy to carefully cut yourself free in case you can’t undo the knot.

Use a scarf or a bathrobe, and try tying one of you—whoever’s feeling submissive in the moment—to the bedpost, bed leg, or even doorknob.

Even your standard sex routine gets a lot more interesting with one of you tied up!

5) Do It “Bat-Style”

What??

I’m guessing you’ve heard of doggy-style. But what the heck is bat-style?

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Good question! You’ll be glad you asked.

For bat-style, try your bedroom adventures blindfolded!

OK, bats aren’t actually blind, but bear with me.

Bats find their food in the dark using echolocation. They send sound waves bouncing through the night. Those sound waves return and let them “see” in the dark.

When you blindfold yourself for sex, you have to use senses that you otherwise don’t use—like sound, smell, and, most importantly, touch.

When you’re blindfolded—or when your partner is blindfolded—you can surprise each other. You won’t know which body part will be caressed next!

You will also be more aware of your sensation of touch. Which will make everything feel more intense, including your orgasm (and hers!).

At the end of the day, BDSM is for everyone–not just for people who have a dungeon in their basement and wear spiked collars.

You can try BDSM techniques, like tying each other’s wrists or tying yourselves to the bedpost, without investing in an expensive set of handcuffs.

Got some rope in the garage? You’re good to go.

Use a bandana as a blindfold.

Use coconut oil (yes, the same kind you can use for cooking!) in place of expensive massage oils.

Use your imagination, and the possibilities are endless.

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Want To REALLY Unleash Her Inner Nympho?

Then I’ve got good news:

Almost every single girl out there is at least a LITTLE bit into rough sex… myself included. 😉

And there are some “middle-of-the-road” rough sex moves, that almost all women universally crave… yet few men ever try.

These moves are just enough to truly surprise her, while also tipping her over the edge of pure sexual ecstasy…

… and because few men know how to use them, when you show her that you know these moves… then she will likely want to sleep with you a LOT more often.

Especially if you’re into kinkier stuff like spanking… hair pulling… or even choking, and roleplay… these moves will get her to try all that (and love it!).

Just click the move you wanna know more about below:

1) The Dominant Hand-Hold
2) The S&M Spank
3) The Goldilocks Choke

P.S. Last time a guy used THIS move on me, I nearly squirted lol… would you try it? 😉

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