How My Journey to Become More Masculine Can Help You Do Better With Women
The night after my first girlfriend dumped me, I found out she slept with my best friend.
She was my sweetheart…the princess I had lost my virginity to…and I was apparently clueless.
“What a bitch!” I remember screaming…but deep down, I knew she was a really nice girl.
So why would she do that to me?
My best friend couldn’t have been more different from me if he tried — looking back, it’s crazy to think that we were even friends…
I considered myself intelligent and ambitious…I was planning on going to university and pursuing a successful graphic design career…
Whereas he was the type of guy who gave no thought to the future at all, and just lived moment to moment, dollar to dollar. I don’t remember him ever having a steady job.
It would be 14 years before I finally learned why women do this — why nice girls do things that make seemingly no sense, and why my best friend was, at the time, so damn appealing to her.
The #1 Thing That Years of Experience and Coaching Taught Me About Women
After I lost my princess, I became obsessed with learning what women really want. So obsessed that:
I put my career pursuits on hold…
I read everything I could find on attraction…
I approached thousands of women on the streets of London…
I got rejected more times than you can imagine…but I learned from every approach.
I begun seeing patterns.
And these patterns explain everything:
- Why a wife can be turned on by her husband in one moment, then starting an argument the next…
- Why a seemingly nice girl would be drawn to that bad boy…
- Why my sweetheart broke my heart…
So, what are women attracted to?
Jerks? A–holes? Rudeness?
It seems crazy, right? Like we’re living in a backwards universe where vice is rewarded and virtue is punished…
At least that’s how I felt until I learned the truth:
Women are attracted to…
Masculinity.
The Feminine Vs. the Masculine (And What it Means for You)
To be more specific, the “feminine” is attracted to the “masculine.”
You see, the masculine and feminine are like two opposite energies.
Everything is divided into the masculine and the feminine–the ancient Chinese culture visualized this essential truth in their Yin and Yang symbol.
In men and women, this is expressed through “sexual polarity.”
Sexual polarity is when you have an extreme expression and union of the masculine and feminine.
For example, a feminine woman is going to get very turned on by a man who’s expressing the extreme masculine.
But what is the “masculine,” anyway?
Well, it actually means nothing like what you probably think…
You don’t need to grow huge muscles…
You don’t need to grow a beard…
You don’t need to become a fireman, policeman or join the military…
You just need to learn the psychology of the masculine.
And that’s because once you understand the masculine psychology that exists within you, right now, you will understand why you are naturally attractive to women.
Recognizing the ways in which you do and do not express the “masculine” is the key to understanding your strengths and weaknesses in her eyes.
And here’s how to do that:
The 6 Classic “Models of Masculinity” You Can Use to Develop Your Strengths and Attract More Women
My Red Knight Attraction Model is based on the work of psychotherapist and psychologist Carl Jung. If you’re interested in becoming an expert with this stuff, then head over to Amazon and grab yourself a copy.
But if you don’t have the time to read the book, here’s a quick quiz to determine what your masculine strengths and weaknesses are:
Carl Jung coined the term “masculine archetypes” to describe the psychic structures that all men carry within them.
There are 6 of these archetypes Jung discovered, and they come with different pros and cons. Below are brief descriptions of them. Read them over and select the one whose strengths and weaknesses best match your own:
1) The Magician
Strengths: Women love The Magician because of his intelligence and ambition.
Weaknesses: The Magician has difficulty expressing sexuality and primal freedom.
2) The Peacemaker
Strengths: Women love The Peacemaker because of his empathy and communication skills.
Weaknesses: The Peacemaker has difficulty teasing women and being playful with them.
3) The Warrior
Strengths: Women love The Warrior because of his strength and incorruptibility.
Weaknesses: The Warrior has difficulty expressing his emotions.
4) The Wildman
Strengths: Women love The Wildman because of his sexual freedom and spontaneity.
Weaknesses: The Wildman has difficulty planning for the future and thinking ahead.
5) The Trickster
Strengths: Women love The Trickster because of his playfulness and ability to adapt to any situation.
Weaknesses: The Trickster has difficulty connecting with women on a deeper level.
6) The Lover
Strengths: Women love The Lover because of his emotional expressiveness and “joie de vivre.”
Weaknesses: The Lover has difficulty moving forward and overcoming challenges.
Each archetype represents a different way for you to express your masculinity — and therefore, a different way to attract women.
And because there are 6 of these archetypes, it can get a little confusing trying to figure out what women really want…
But the truth is that they want the strengths from each archetype, and none of the weaknesses.
She wants a Magician, a Peacemaker, a Warrior, a Wildman, a Trickster, and a Lover…all in one man.
We men respond by accusing women of wanting the impossible.
After all, these archetypes are all contradictory…right?
Well, in most men, yes, they are. But by understanding which archetype fits you best, you can play up your strengths…
And by developing your weaker archetypes, you can hide your weaknesses with ease. And a man who can do that is exactly the kind of man women fantasize about.
But there’s one “bonus” archetype I haven’t shown you yet..and that’s because it’s a product of today’s society. It’s an archetype that, when used properly, can effortlessly attract women within minutes:
Bonus Archetype: The “Modern Man”
Imagine this…
You’re going stag on a Friday night. From across the bar, her velvet voice grabs your attention — “Hey bartender, where’s my jalapeno margarita? Extra spicy!”
Alright, she’s a little feisty. Nice.
But how can you get her attention without being obvious?
A while back, you might have watched as she went home with some other guy…another lost opportunity…
But not tonight…not when you know how to channel your inner “Modern Man.”
And that’s because the “Modern Man” uses his stance, eye contact, and body language to send a powerful “message” to the woman of his choosing — but in a way that only she can see…
So you give her the “Modern Man” eye contact…she bites her lip with a hungry look in her eyes…OK. But she’s still out of earshot. Keep it going…
When you use your “Modern Man” stance, she leans closer to you…her tantalizing cleavage tempting your dirtiest fantasies. Almost there…
The scent of her perfume wafts into your nose as she inches down the bar…vanilla and lavender. Her velvet voice rings in your ear:
“Hey, come here often?” Alright, she’s not the most original girl you’ve ever met….
But after you “seal the deal” with your “Modern Man” handshake, you discover that she is “original” in bed…and she reminds you just how “original” she is again the next morning.
Harnessing your inner “Modern Man” is easy on a night out. Just choose the strength you want to know more about below:
“Modern Man” Strength #1: Extended Eye Contact…
“Modern Man” Strength #2: The “Sexual Stance”…
“Modern Man” Strength #3: The Extended Handshake…
And for even more advanced “Modern Man” techniques, just go here:
Advanced “Modern Man” Strengths That Experts Channel to Effortlessly Attract Women…
