How to Have the Best First Date–Do You Know This Foolproof Plan?
Discover how to jump on the physical fast track & get her in bed TONIGHT…
Trying to plan the perfect first date can feel like a complete shot in the dark.
If you barely know her, then how in the world are you supposed to plan a date that you think she’ll enjoy?
I get asked questions like this a lot–and so today, I want to give you all the answers.
Hi, I’m David Dupree, and every week I’m answering one of the most difficult, burning questions guys have when it comes to sex & dating.
And today, I’m answering this one:
“How can I plan the perfect first date?”
Catch the Full Video Transcript Below…
Today I’m going to give you a breakdown of a really kicka** first date.
The first step is to make sure you have a plan–above all, have a plan. Because if you don’t, then it’s a guaranteed miss.
If you’re doing dinner, for example, then you’re definitely going to want to make reservations.
Pick a place that’s usually busy–somewhere you’ve been before.
Make reservations the day before, or even sooner if possible.
But more on that in a second. First, let’s talk about when you’re going to have this date.
1) The Perfect Day for the First Day (Not What You Think)
Here’s another thing:
Don’t plan your date on a Friday. In fact, don’t do a Thursday evening or a Saturday either.
Never plan your first date on a weekend evening, because it’s going to be way too busy, and there’s too much pressure since you both will have the whole day off.
I personally think Tuesday is the best day for a first date?
Why?
Well, Monday isn’t better or worse for a particular reason, but a lot of people aren’t in the mood to go out at the very beginning of a work day. And Wednesdays are alright, but personally, I think Tuesdays are always best.
Now back to making reservations…
2) My Reservations Hack
So you have a place in mind, and you know you should make reservations.
What time should you make them for?
I think, depending on the place, the best time to make reservations are for when it’s really busy, because that’s the hardest time to get in.
You should make reservations at this time so that when you arrive, you get seated even though nobody else is.
This makes you look extremely “high-value” in her eyes.
Here’s another pro tip:
Don’t say, “We’re going to dinner.” Never tell her that.
She has to “earn” her dinner from you first. And here’s what I mean by that:
3) Where to Take Her if You Want to Stay Casual But Still Feel “Fancy”
Before you go to the restaurant where you made reservations, take her somewhere unessential–like a cafe.
My personal preference is for a place that sells both coffee and alcohol.
Why?
Because if there’s alcohol, then if your date wants to drink, she can. However, in this environment, she won’t feel like drinking is essential to the date–so she won’t feel like you’re suggesting she drink to “loosen up” or anything like that.
If your reservations are for 7:30 or 8:00 PM, then you want to take her to this cafe around 6:00 PM at the latest.
Now, you might say: “What if things are going really well after only an hour?”
In that case, you can take her to the restaurant ahead of time and have a drink at the bar. Don’t have dinner early just because you’re having a good time–that’s silly.
This also gives her the opportunity to “earn” her dinner. Of course, she doesn’t actually do anything specific to earn it–but you should know with a good amount of confidence that the two of you have chemistry before investing any serious amount of time (or money) into her.
And if dinner goes well?
Then, my friend… it’s time to do this ;-):
Pro Tip: Getting A Girl Back to Your Place
When it comes to sex on the first date, there’s one thing that’s been working really well for guys in our community lately:
It’s a very specific sequence of simple, seemingly “friendly” touches… in places you might not think of initially:
So you’ll be able to touch her right on her “heartbeat vein” on her wrist… or even the nape of her neck… without coming across as overtly “sexual.”
And over a short amount of time (minutes, not hours)… you’ll slowly silence her nagging “logical brain”… and tease out her “emotional brain”… which she uses to make snap sexual decisions like “Should I go home with this guy tonight?”
This short sequence is laid out right here… and once you know it, you can enjoy the kinds of “same-night sex” that other guys in the community are starting to get a taste of:
This Simple “Sex Sequence” of Touches Makes Her More Likely to Go Home With You…
