Blindfold Games Can Be a Lot of Fun When Done Properly–Here’s How to Tie, Twist & Tease Her for MAXIMUM Sexual Pleasure…
Experimenting with kink can be a lot of fun. However, if you've never tried it before, it can feel scary or intimidating too.
These days, thanks to the explosive popularity of erotic romance novels (like Fifty Shades of Grey) and other sex acts that were previously deemed as “taboo,” more and more women are opening up about their secret kinky fantasies.
In fact, one recent study found that a lot of women are interested in a variety of sex acts — including being blindfolded during sex.
While blindfolding is on the “light” side of BDSM, it can still feel incredibly novel if you've never tried it before.
So today, I'm going to show you why some women love being blindfolded during sex…
And exactly how to do it for maximum pleasure.
Why Do Some Women Like Being Blindfolded During Sex?
Blindfolding is not terribly erotic on its own.
Nothing’s really too sexy about just covering someone’s eyes.
However, when put in an erotic context, blindfolding can add an interesting, thrilling element to your sexual escapades.
Blindfolding relies on blocking out one of your senses — in this case, your sight.
This is the main reason why some women like to be blindfolded during sex:
It creates excitement and surprise, not to mention the sensory deprivation can make her feel everything else that much more intensely.
Even better, blindfolding is a pretty low-commitment introduction to kink.
But how exactly do you go about introducing blindfolding in the bedroom? After all, it might not be the best idea to just break one out mid-session and try to put it on her without explaining what you're doing.
With the right atmosphere, though, blindfolding can be a great way to make sex way hotter — for both of you.
So if this sounds like something you'd be interested in trying, just follow these 4 steps:
1) Find a Blindfold (Or Get Creative)
Getting started with blindfolding is pretty easy! All you really need is a blindfold and a willing partner.
The first step is to find a blindfold — and keep in mind that it doesn't literally have to be a blindfold.
Sure, you could spend money on a specialty blindfold from a sex store, but you could also use a scarf…
Or really anything that you can comfortably tie around someone's head that will prevent them from seeing.
Beyond that, setting the atmosphere might not hurt. I'd personally recommend some candles and maybe some comfy blankets and pillows to make sure she feels safe and self-assured about the experience.
Which brings me to step two…
2) Make Sure She’s Cool With It
It’s true that wearing a blindfold isn’t dangerous on its own, but you need to keep in mind the trust element of this act.
So before you decide to start experimenting with blindfolds in bed, ask her if she's into it.
It doesn't have to be a whole drawn-out conversation or anything like that — in fact, you could even ask her during foreplay.
Something like, “Hey baby, have you ever thought about using blindfolds in bed? Is that something you would want to try?” Would be a great place to start.
Just listen to her, and don't feel rejected if she says no — the truth is, most women are willing to try new things in bed as long as the line of communication is open. 🙂
3) Keep Her Comfortable
This step seems pretty obvious, but it's also extremely important.
Especially with blindfolding, it's important to make sure she's not in pain when you tie it on her (or else, giving her pleasure is going to be pretty difficult).
So as you're tying it on her, don't be too forceful. You can ask her as you're doing it how it feels to make sure.
It's true that yes, you want it to be tied snugly around her head; however, a blindfold that's tied too tightly can actually damage your eyes and mark up the bridge of your nose.
Beyond that, make sure that you tie it on the side of her head, so when she leans back, the knot won't dig into her skull.
Remember, her senses other than eyesight will feel more intense, and that includes her sense of feeling. So don't add any unnecessary pain (unless she's into that, of course).
4) Go With The Flow
Once she's all tied up and ready to go, it's now or never.
You could keep it simple at first and just have sex like you normally do…
But if you really want to get creative, then focus on touching her in places that might surprise her.
For example, tickle her inner thighs with your tongue, or spend a lot of time teasing her around her breasts before you actually start having sex.
You could even incorporate other materials, like a feather or some other soft material (like silk) to make things super hot.
Remember, blindfolding builds anticipation by surprising the person who’s blindfolded. So what happens during the experience is truly up to you.
The Secret to Keeping Things Sexy…
Ultimately, just experiment in a way that makes you feel comfortable, and don't forget to observe her reactions — that's the most important part.
And it's not super difficult to tell when she's really into something you're doing.
Is she just lying there with a blank face? Then chances are she's not feeling it.
But if she's wiggling…
Or arching her back…
Then she's probably really enjoying what you're doing. 😉
One of the best parts of using blindfolds during sex is that it can make her orgasms that much more powerful. And we all know that if you can give a woman a powerful orgasm, then chances are she'll be dying to sleep with you again.
So here's how to do that:
He Covered My Eyes & Tied Me to The Bed…
“Time to try a little something new,” he said, climbing on top of me…
My pulse quickened & I felt shivers go down my spine… did he buy some special lube?
Or maybe he got a vibrator… (I did mention to him once that I was a fan of the Hitachi)…
But oh. My. god. What he did was SO much better than that.
When he entered me, I felt him do this “pulsing” move every few seconds… the pressure sent wave after wave of pleasure throughout my entire body… which built into an EXPLOSIVE orgasm after only like 5 minutes (lol).
Obviously, I couldn’t see what he was doing with the blindfold on… so afterward, I had to know:
“That orgasm was AMAZING… where’d you learn how to do that thing?”
Without saying one word, he reached for his laptop and opened it up… I honestly thought he was about to show me some crazy porno… but nope. He showed me this: