Discover My Best-Kept Body Language Secrets — Will She Be Yours?
There’s a lot you can tell from a woman’s body language:
Whether or not she’s nervous…
Turned on…
Happy…
Excited…
And so on.
But did you know you can actually use a woman’s own body language to keep her interested in you?
It’s true — and today I’m going to show you how. But first, let me address one thing:
If you’re going to use a woman’s body language to keep her interested in you, chances are you aren’t 100% clear about how this woman feels about you just yet…right?
You might be hoping she’s interested…but you aren’t sure. And hope is a very dangerous thing.
Hope Vs. Expectations: When Optimism Goes Wrong
First let’s look at the reason why hope is so dangerous for you.
Hope is a very passive feeling — you can feel hope without doing anything at all. In fact, the idea of “hope” requires that you don’t take any action.
And because of this, hope can end up making you look like less of a “man.” If you accept your hope without taking action, you won’t accomplish anything.
Think about it:
If a guy spends all his time hoping a girl will make a move, not only is he relying on her to get what he wants…he’s ignoring all the other possibilities he might have.
While he’s waiting around for that one girl to make a move…he’s letting all sorts of other women pass him by. So he might turn down or ignore every other woman who wants him, all because his attention is focused on that one girl.
Ultimately, he stops himself from getting what he wants.
However, when action is added to hope, it’s no longer hope; it’s effort. Effort is good! Effort means you’re taking action.
So how do you get from “just hoping” to “taking action”?
There’s one missing link that will give you the courage to go from passive hope to active effort:
Your expectations.
How to Use My “Raft Analogy” to Turn Passive Hope Into Action
If you have expectations about where things are going with a woman, then taking action with her becomes much, much easier.
Here’s an analogy to help make sense of all this:
Imagine you’re on a deserted island, and you just found a raft.
You can’t quite tell if it’ll hold your weight — it looks sturdy, but you have no idea where it came from…it could fall apart, or it could hold you for your entire journey home.
Sure, you could spend hours testing its endurance…
Adding more and more weight to see how much it’ll hold…
Trouble-shooting every possible problem you might run into…
Brainstorming the best possible strategies to get on it…
Or…you could just DO it. You could expect the raft to hold your weight, choose to step on it and see where it takes you.
Yes, it might seem dangerous…but if it can hold your weight and last as long as you want, imagine how much time you would have wasted “testing” it out.
The stakes are even lower with a woman you like.
Yes, you could spend days (or weeks, or months) trying to figure out exactly how she feels about you…
Whether or not she’ll be interested in getting a drink with you…
If she wants to kiss you…
But if you never take any action, you’ll never know.
Imagine if she DOES want to kiss you? That’s months out of your life…lost.
And if she doesn’t? The worst that can happen is that she’ll say “No thanks.”
That’s it!
Plus, if you realize she’s not interested, this frees up all the energy you spent hoping so you can focus on other, more interested women.
Why Her Body Language Is the Key to Staying “Afloat”
Now that that’s out of the way, let’s get to the meat of the issue: Her body language.
A woman’s body language is your secret weapon, because you can use it to your own advantage in your relationship with her.
So once you have your expectations about where things are going, and you’re ready to take action, the next step is to take that action — but in very small increments.
Why?
Escalate too quickly with a woman, and you’ll scare her off — you wouldn’t walk up to a woman you don’t know and just start kissing her, right?
But move too slowly, and she’ll get bored. Women want to be touched, and felt, and cared for…not tiptoed around like porcelain dolls.
Here’s the thing: A woman will show you exactly how quickly she wants you to move with her body language. She’ll reveal just how comfortable she is with you…
And she’ll allow you to take small steps to gradually increase this level of comfort, all the way until it becomes full-on attraction.
How?
By mirroring her body language.
How to “Mirror” Her Body Language to Keep Her Interested in You
Mirroring a woman’s body language is exactly what it sounds like: Simply copy the things she does when you’re with her.
If she leans toward you, for example, lean toward her.
And if she leans away from you? Lean away too!
It might sound counterintuitive, but when you do the same things with your body that she’s doing, she’ll end up feeling closer to you — even if those things involve increasing the physical distance between you.
Think about it:
A woman needs to feel safe if she’s going to be comfortable with you.
If she doesn’t feel safe (for whatever reason, there are literally thousands), she’s going to naturally want to move away. By moving away like she does, you double that distance, and you show her that you are in no way a threat to her.
And usually, that will cause her to move back toward you!
As you mirror her body language more and more, you’re going to pick up on some subtle things that she’s doing. And while some of these subtle things don’t necessarily mean all that much…
A few of them can tell you with nearly 100% certainty whether or not she’s into you.
Here are the 3 most important:
The 3 Biggest Body Language Clues She Wants You…BAD
Wanna know whether or not she’s into you? Look for these 3 surprising body language clues:
1) She gives you her “Sex Eyes.” When she wants to take you into the bathroom, get on her knees and take you all in…she’s gonna look at you like this. 😉
2) Her feet are pointed at the “Romance Angle.” A woman’s feet will tell you a lot about how she feels about you…I didn’t understand why until I learned this.
3) She touches you here. This one’s a sure bet — if she touches you in this “innocent” spot, it’s her discreet way of telling you she wants to kiss you.
And for more advanced body language clues my inner circle uses to spot sex-crazed women, check this out — you’re gonna love it:
Show Me the Advanced Body Language Clues That Reveal the Sex-Crazed Women Who Want ME…
