Discover How To Tell If She’s REALLY Enjoying Sex With You–Plus Exactly How Long You Should Last For Ultimate Satisfaction…
Ask just about any lady, and she’ll tell you she prefers a man who can last in bed.
Popular media praises men who can last a long time and mocks those who finish in minutes.
(By the way, that’s totally unfair. There are so many reasons this can happen and nobody should be making fun of anyone for it).
With so many people fixated on building stamina, there is little discussion about the opposite problem–lasting TOO long.
But this is a real issue that many men face today.
The stress of not being able to finish takes a real toll on men and their partners. And it can even be a sign of a deeper issue.
Before I jump into the potential causes, I want to explain what makes lasting too long so problematic.
If You’re Lasting Too Long She Might Be Getting Bored–But How Long Is “Too Long”?
Being unable to climax can cause feelings of inadequacy–for both the man and his partner.
While the man feels sexually incomplete, his partner wonders if she is not sexy or skilled enough to bring her partner to climax.
Plus, after a certain amount of time passes, it’s harder for a woman’s body to provide lubrication.
Muscles get stiff from repeating the same positions, and the process can start to get boring.
Both partners start to wonder if something is wrong with them, and as stress builds, pleasure dwindles away.
So what’s going on? Why is it that despite arousal, some guys are unable to finish in a normal amount of time?
This condition is called “delayed ejaculation.” It is totally normal for it to happen once in a while.
But if it is a persistent issue, then something might be up.
There are several different possible causes. I’ll walk you through the worst and most benign of them.
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The most challenging cause of delayed ejaculation to addressed is trauma to the penis.
If there was a previous surgery or injury, it is possible that sensitivity and nerve connections are compromised. If this applies to you, you should definitely consult your doctor right away.
Another possibility is that medications are interfering with your ability to climax.
Antidepressants are known to disrupt sexual functioning. Antidepressants increase serotonin and cause a decrease in desire and libido.
If you are taking antidepressants or any other medication that you suspect may be impacting your sexual function, check in with your doctor ASAP.
They may have recommendations for you and may even opt to adjust your dosage.
Substances of any kind can also cause delayed ejaculation.
You’ve probably heard of “whiskey d*ck,” a common issue in which a drunk man is unable to get or hold an erection.
Alcohol, marijuana, tobacco, and other drugs can ALSO interfere with the signals in your brain that tell your body when to climax.
If you are using any of these substances, you may want to consider decreasing or eliminating your intake and see if that helps.
If decreasing your intake feels impossible, consider reaching out to support services–there are a lot out there.
Here’s A More Common Cause (That Most Men Overlook)…
Low testosterone is another big one.
This is an issue that a lot of men struggle with today, and it contributes to a variety of issues, including weight gain, lowered mood, and decreased sex drive.
If you’re concerned that low testosterone could be the cause of delayed ejaculation, you might consider exercising more, improving your sleep environment, and eating high quality protein.
Your doctor can also do a blood test to see where your hormone levels are at.
Finally, it might be psychological.
I’ll let you in on a secret–a LOT of guys don’t feel comfortable climaxing the first time they sleep with a girl. If she’s cool, she’ll be understanding.
If she gives you a hard time about it, that’s a different problem. And if you’re just starting out with a partner and are concerned about delayed ejaculation, wait a little longer to see if the issue persists. It can take time to become comfortable enough with a person to finish.
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But if it really isn’t improving, then your partner is going to start to feel inadequate and frustrated, and you need to see what else you can do.
If you’re generally feeling anxious about sex or your partner, this could easily kink the hose.
It may help to have a conversation with your partner about this to become more comfortable in bed.
If you’re lasting too long in bed, know that you’re not alone.
Consider the possible causes of your delayed ejaculation and see what steps you can take to set things back on course.
Like this one, for example, which I have to say is a HUGE turn-on regardless of how long you last:
How To Make Sure She NEVER Gets Bored In Bed Again (Whether You Last 2 Minutes Or 2 Hours)…
It all comes down to one thing… sensitivity.
I’m talking about how sensitive is your d!ck?
Does she have to tug it, suck it and give your soldier the 5-star treatment… just for you to get it up?
Or is it like when you were in high school… and the sight of a cute girl running around in booty shorts is enough to get you to full mast?
Well… I’ll tell you what, if you aren’t sensitive down there it’s going to be hard to come… and this will probably make your woman feel unattractive and insecure.
(Plus even though a lot of girls do secretly LOVE worshiping d!ck… if she has to do it every time you have s*x it’s repetitive… and yeah, she’s gonna get bored…)
BUT… and this is one big ol’ Brazilian butt… you can easily increase your sensitivity *down there* by improving your blood flow.
Better blood flow means you’ll not only feel MORE during sex… but you may be able to get harder… like throbbing-out-of-your-pants-hard… a lot faster.
Not to mention with better circulation, you’ll probably bust bigger loads too…
… which as a woman I have to admit is SUPER hot!!
This of course will make your lady feel sexy and wanted… and will lead to you getting laid a lot more: