This NBA All-Star's Sexual Attraction "Secret" Will Blow Your Mind

What Do Attracting Beautiful Women And Chandler Parsons’ Instagram Have in Common? More Than You Might Think…

It’s no doubt that the dating world is a different game if you’re a well-known face.

Celebrities are often put under the spotlight, and their personal sex and dating lives are no exception to that.

With an A-list status, it’s easy to assume that single male celebrities don’t have to try very hard to attract women. In fact, you might even think that women chase them, and they never have to do any work.

That’s what I used to think, too… until I read this story about NBA All-Star Chandler Parsons.

He’s taken to the internet — more specifically, Instagram — to cast out his line with the ladies. His rather controversial approach has been caught on camera, and now it’s been exposed for the entire world to see.

So today, I’m going to show you a) how single male celebrities use social media to attract women, and b) why it may or may not work for you.

Is Instagram the New Tinder?

Chandler Parsons has decided to treat Instagram like a dating app, with mixed results from the women he chooses.

His “strategy” has been to send direct messages to women while they’re live-streaming videos on Instagram.

The messages he sends stream alongside the video of the woman, so literally every single person who’s watching the video can see what he has to say.

The first time Parsons was caught doing this, he was messaging model Felicia Sanders. “Show me your t*ts” read the message… and people freaked out:

Was this some sort of “dare” by his teammates?…
Was it an “inside joke” between Sanders and him?…
Maybe it was a ploy to get his name in the news?…
Or was he genuinely interested in Sanders, and thought that line would be some sort of “funny” way to make an introduction?…

We still don’t have a concrete answer, but the fact of the matter is that it got him a lot of attention.

Parsons then repeated this strategy with the graceful golfer, Paige Spiranac. While less forward with his message, he made himself known to not only Spiranac, but the whole stream with a simple “Hi.”

It’s clear that Parsons isn’t just a forward on the court.

This kind of strategy shows a lot of confidence, which makes sense — he’s a star athlete who’s probably used to a certain level of attention from women.

And even though his motives aren’t clear… it still begs two questions:

1) Are there other single male celebrities using this kind of social media strategy? And…

2) Is this a strategy that can work for “regular” guys?

It Doesn’t End There…

While this may be news to you, this is a time-tested strategy for quite a few other A-list celebrities.

In 2015, pornstar Mia Khalifa let it slip that Drake had been sliding into her Instagram DMs to discuss a possible meetup. (DMs = direct messages.)

And one year earlier, professional basketball player Carlos Boozer reached out to Instagram model Abigail Ratchford by commenting on one of her posts. He asked her to “check her DMs.”

These are but a few of many public interactions celebrities have with women on social media. It happens more often than most guys realize, and there are a few reasons why.

First, it’s convenient as hell. Type a few words, hit “Send,” and know with nearly 100% certainty that you’ll get a response? Who wouldn’t want to try that?

While some guys might find this too direct or even a little off-putting, the bottom line is that it’s a strategy that’s working for many male celebrities.

But what about “regular” guys like you and I? Is this something we can use to attract more women, faster?

Here’s what I think:

Here’s the truth: Nothing is foolproof, no matter what status you carry.

Even for a celebrity, using social media to hit on women won’t work 100% of the time.

But if you want to try it out, instead of commenting on a woman’s Instagram picture to say “Check your DMs,” just message her directly.

The reason celebrities comment and say “Check your DMs” is for social proof — they do this so other people who follow that woman on Instagram will notice, and possibly provoke her to respond to his message.

But for regular guys like you and me, a direct message mentioning one of her interests and asking a question is enough.

Saying something like “Hey, I noticed you cook a lot. I cook a lot too — what’s your favorite recipe?” Is going to be your best bet. It’s all about seeing what sticks and rolling with it.

But something about this whole story is really troubling… and it’s not good.

If celebrities are desperate enough to use social media to chase women (rather than the other way around) in 2017… what is the future going to be like 10 years from now?