The Best Dating Advice From Experts & Professionals–Will You Finally Get the Woman You Want This Year?
We’ve all been there:
You meet a woman… make plans for a date… and have a great time.
Then a day goes by… then a week… and you still haven’t heard from her.
Or maybe she never even showed up for the date in the first place.
Or hell, maybe she did show up, and then just sat there looking bored the whole time.
Dating can be such a drag!
However, these dating woes are more common than you may think.
But just because they’re common, does that mean you have to continue to put up with them?
No.
Thanks to some recent advice we got from a licensed psychologist, we now have some great tips to help ease the frustrations of modern-day dating.
These are tips that will help make dating feel fun again. And even better, they’ll help you meet more (and hotter!) women.
So if that sounds like something you’d like, here are 6 tips that will make your dating life a lot easier this year:
1) Don’t Take Dating Too Seriously
In most cases, you aren’t going to find the woman of your dreams on your first date.
And this is perfectly normal!
So to get around the frustration of trying to make things “perfect” from date one, don’t be so serious about it.
Have fun dating multiple women–remember, this is supposed to be fun!
Plus, the more women you date, the more you will come to understand what you’re looking for.
Pro Tip: Try going on dates with women you normally wouldn’t see as your “type.” You might be surprised by how much fun you have (both in and out of the bedroom). 😉
2) Does It Really Matter When You Text Her?
I’ll just get this one out of the way:
Stop worrying about when to text or call a woman.
If a woman likes you, then she wants to hear from you. And if she doesn’t, she may make excuses that are difficult to read.
These range from, “I’m just quiet because I’m tired…” to, “I didn’t have time to check my phone.”
All a bunch of B.S.
Trust me–if she’s into you, then she’s probably checking her phone every 30 seconds.
And if it’s a woman you met online, psychologists say it’s best to meet up in person ASAP.
This is because an in-person meetup is the fastest way to tell if you have “chemistry” or not (even if it’s just sexual).
So definitely text her and call her, yes… but you don’t have to worry so much about when to do it.
3) What To Do If Date #1 Is A Flop…
This is simple:
If you didn’t enjoy the first date, why would you enjoy the second?
However, if you had a good time, then don’t waste time thinking about it.
Call her and set up a second date!
Psychologists warn that worrying too much about whether a woman enjoyed the date will simply stress you out.
Seriously, sometimes, it’s OK to be selfish! Did you have a good time?
If so, set up a second date. If not, then don’t.
4) Plan The Date Around What YOU Like To Do
When you plan a date, whether it’s the first one, or a follow-up, go somewhere you enjoy.
This is another time when it’s perfectly fine to be selfish.
Think about it:
If you’re the kind of guy who likes low-key bars, you probably wouldn’t feel super comfortable in a stuffy, fine dining restaurant, right?
This is something that women can pick up on.
So choose a place where you know you’ll have fun, and chances are she’ll have fun with you too.
And if you’re worried that she won’t enjoy it, then she probably isn’t the right woman for you.
In fact, as a woman, I can vouch for the fact that most women love a guy who’s true to himself.
Because a guy who’s true to himself always seems more relaxed–and trust me, women rarely go home with guys who seem nervous or uncomfortable.
So there’s something to think about the next time you want a date to end back at your place. 😉
5) The #1 Thing You Can Learn About Yourself (Based On the Women You Date)
Dating is actually a big learning opportunity.
Surprised?
You shouldn’t be. Think about it:
If you date multiple women, you learn more about what you find attractive and what turns you on.
You also become very aware of what you don’t want in a woman.
This is important, because it helps you be more selective when you’re looking for a woman to settle down with.
You’ll learn to pick the best partner for you–and not a woman who may end up hurting you down the line.
It’s a win-win!
6) Let Her Know When You Want to Be Exclusive
This may sound obvious, but if you eventually want to make a woman your long-term, committed girlfriend… then she has to know that’s what you want.
Similarly, if you plan to “date around” and aren’t interested in commitment–she should know that too.
This helps to eliminate drama, and get you exactly what you want from her a lot faster.
Why?
Well, when you’re honest with a woman, she’s way less likely to think that you’re “going behind her back,” or hiding something from her.
And this makes her trust you much more, much sooner.
Plus, if you do eventually want to make her your girlfriend, being honest with her will show her that you’re the kind of guy she can see herself with in the long run.
Ultimately, these tips will help you navigate the modern dating world using a lot less effort.
Though if you want an even bigger dating advantage over other guys… then I highly recommend you check this out:
“It’s Like Having Your Own Personal Dating Coach, Who Gives You Custom Tailored Advice”…
That’s what a community member recently said about this “Attraction Manual.”
It was developed by a team of experts, who spent months analyzing online dating conversations… looking at texts between men and women… and observing hundreds of real-life dates… all with one goal in mind:
To figure out how to take a woman from “hello”… to, “let’s go back to my place”… in as little time as possible (and without any hiccups or road bumps along the way).
What’s amazing is that you can use the “Attraction Manual” for just about any situation:
If you want to get more matches online… or get more real-life dates…
If you want to sleep with more women… or just have more sex with the woman you’re with…
Or even if you want to make a woman fall in love with you…
The “Attraction Manual” has you covered.
This video will show you how to get your own “Attraction Manual”–I think you’re really gonna like this a lot:
