Discover The Best Positions for Deeper & More Pleasurable Sex–And How to Get as Deep as Possible (Regardless of Your Size)…
Sex is great–there's no denying that.
And one thing that makes sex great is that there are so many different positions you can experiment with.
However, while most men tend to go for the standard missionary and doggie style during sex… what if you really want to go deep inside her, and give her more intense pleasure?
The truth is, many women love this kind of deep penetration… though few guys know how to do it correctly.
So that's what I want to talk about today.
I'll show you 5 “deep penetration” positions for beginners, 5 “deep penetration” positions for more advanced guys… plus: my favorite “deep penetration” positions if you're really looking to experiment between the sheets. 😉
It's time to go deep, baby!
5 “Deep Penetration” Positions for Beginners…
When experimenting with anything new in bed, it's always best to start basic, and then move on to more advanced techniques when you've mastered the simple stuff.
Well, it helps to ensure that you're doing everything right… and not hurting her, or causing her any pain.
So with that in mind, these 5 basic positions will help you gain deeper access inside her without involving anything too “crazy”:
1) Over The Desk
If you’ve ever had a dirty secretary fantasy, you’ll love this position.
To do it, have your girl stand in front of a table, desk, or some other flat surface.
She’ll bend at the waist so her upper body is flat against the table, and then you enter, standing from behind.
Why it’s hot:
This position puts you in charge of the level of penetration, and even allows for some light bondage (pulling her up by her hair or ropes, etc).
This position is similar to missionary, but with a fun twist.
Start by having her lay flat on her back. You’ll enter between her legs, and then have her raise her legs up by wrapping her ankles around your back.
Why it’s hot:
This position allows for really deep penetration and an intense closeness that can’t be beat.
3) Deck Chair
Similar to the Drill, this position also calls for the girl to lay flat on her back while you enter between her legs.
The difference is, she’ll raise her legs up in the air, bending them at a 90-degree angle–not hooking them around your body.
Why it’s hot:
This position allows for easy G-spot stimulation and much deeper penetration than regular missionary.
4) Ben Dover
If you like doing it doggie style, you’ll love this position.
Have her stand in front of you, bent over so that her hands are touching the floor. If you’re taller than her, then you may need to spread your legs a bit for entry.
Why it’s hot:
This position is easy to do almost anywhere (even the shower if you’re careful) and is a fantastic way to get deep inside of her.
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This one may sound difficult, but it’s really quite simple.
You'll sit in a chair in a normal position and have your girl climb on top of you so that you’re facing one another.
Have her lean back slightly and raise her legs over your shoulders. Be sure to hook your hands around her back to steady her.
Why it’s hot:
You get eye contact and the feeling that you’re trying something really complicated. It’s perfect for a quickie at home or even at work. 😉
5 More Advanced “Deep Penetration” Positions…
Once you’ve mastered the basic moves, you can try any of these more complicated positions for a real treat in bed.
6) Viennese Oyster
This move requires a bit of flexibility from the woman, so make sure your partner feels comfortable trying it out.
To try it, have her lay flat on her back and wrap her feet behind her head (or as far back as they will go).
You’ll enter between her legs (but be sure not to put too much weight on her body).
Why it’s hot:
She’s literally spread out and waiting for you–what more could a guy ask for?
This position is really difficult but insanely rewarding.
To achieve it, you’ll stand with your back to a couch or bed.
Lift her up onto your penis and have her lower her feet onto the couch or surface behind you to help keep rhythm as you thrust.
Why it’s hot:
If you can pull it off, this position is fun for both parties and offers a ton of clitoral stimulation, as well as deep penetration.
This exotic position is another one requiring some flexibility.
You’ll kneel on the floor or a soft surface so that your butt touches your feet. She’ll then straddle you and arch backward, with her arms behind her, resting on the bed for support.
Why it’s hot:
The exotic feel of this position adds intensity, and the view you’ll get is pretty incredible.
Similar to the Cradle, the female will lie on her back and then push her hands and feet up to form a bridge position.
You’ll kneel and use her hips as leverage as you thrust. This position can be hard to maintain but is fun while it lasts.
Why it’s hot:
The view and exotic feel of this sex position will have you revved up and ready to go in no time.
10) Shoulder Holder
This one looks simple but requires quite a bit of flexibility.
She’ll lay flat on her back and stick her legs straight up in the air. You’ll kneel on your knees (one leg on each side of her), holding her legs as you enter her.
Why it’s hot:
You’ll be delighted by how deep this position lets you go. Plus, you'll both have higher chances of orgasming like this.
The next time you want deep action, try a variety of these foolproof moves and make adjustments as needed until you find your perfect fit.
Introducing: The “Deep Spot” Position for Ultra-Intense Orgasms & Pleasure…
Now, what I’m about to show you is a little bit on the “advanced” side… though when done right, it can lead to multiple, mega-powerful orgasms.
It’s called the “Deep Spot” Position… and it goes a little like this:
When you’re on top of her, you slide upward at an angle until you hit this fleshy patch deep inside her… which is her “Deep Spot.”
(Side note: the “Deep Spot” is NOT the same as her “G Spot.” It’s much more sensitive and a little further up inside her.)
So when you feel yourself hit that fleshy patch, you do this kind of “pulsing” move… which should feel SUPER intense for her… so she may moan louder… or pant harder…
…and after a few minutes, it often builds into wave after wave of white-hot ecstasy… which is commonly known as a “Deep Spot” Orgasm *mmmm*…
(You’ll know it’s happening when you start to feel her contract around you… and she’ll likely be very vocal about it too.)
Of all the positions on this list, the “Deep Spot” is probably my fav… I guess because I’ve had amaaaazing orgasms every time I’ve tried it lol.
This cool video will show you how it’s done. A quick warning: only try this if you want her to come back for “repeat” sex:
Bigger Isn't Always Better–Discover The Surprising Benefits of Having a Smaller Penis (& Why Some Women PREFER Them) Below…
I bet if you asked just about anyone, they would tell you that the bigger a guy’s d!ck, the better.
Well, I’m going to step outside of everyone’s expectations right now and challenge that.
I think that not only can a small penis can be a huge plus when it comes to sex, it can EVEN be preferable.
Are you surprised?
Perhaps that’s because we’ve all been conditioned to believe that “bigger is better.” I used to believe this too.
I once walked into a sex shop and bought the biggest dildo they had. Today, I actually regret it. In retrospect, I should have sized down.
And I’ll tell you why.
3 Surprising Reasons a Smaller Penis Will Give Hot Girls a Bigger Smile…
Don’t get me wrong–any d!ck size will have its perks.
But there can be some issues for the magnum wearers.
The first one is obvious: pain.
For women, a big penis, especially a long one, can cause excruciating pain.
I don’t mean the fun BDSM pain that startles and excites. I mean the pain that causes the body to lock up and shut down.
This is not sexy–this is uncomfortable in the way period cramps are uncomfortable.
It can be frustrating for women and men when the male partner can’t just unleash and thrust as hard and far as he can, since if he does he could seriously hurt the woman.
In this sense, guys with bigger d!cks may not be able to experience the same passion guys with smaller d!cks can.
To not have to hold back is seriously fun and sexy. Every woman wants to experience that side of her man.
Here’s Another Issue With “Monster D!cks”…
Another issue with big penises is that they have a lot of surface area.
What’s the problem with that? Well, as a woman, that means I have to produce MORE juices to lubricate that thing.
And we only have so much fluid at a given time.
So bigger penises have a tendency of drying out the woman faster, requiring more added lubrication, which can be an interruption at times.
Some women may even believe that they are inadequate for their partner because they are not wet enough, when really, it’s just natural physiology.
Next, let’s talk hardness.
If you have a huge d!ck, I hope you have a LOT of blood to fill it with.
Smaller penises require less blood to fill to maximum hardness.
There is a noticeable difference with smaller guys–it’s just rock hard at all times! This is super sexy.
Often, bigger guys need to put in more effort to stay harder longer, or may ask more of their partner to help manage blood flow.
Now I’m not opposed to giving pleasure to my partner, but sometimes the effort required can become tiring.
With a small penis, it’s easier to stay hard for a long time, regardless of position.
Your Size Is Way Less Important Than Your Blood Flow (Here’s Why)…
And this is the key.
If you want AMAZING hot sex, think hardness.
Not size, but blood flow. See, our culture has conditioned us to pay attention to the wrong things.
And not EVERY culture believes that bigger is better.
I once read about a culture in which small penises were the norm, and these guys would do fun things to give more pleasure to their partners, including piercing their d!cks and even surgically inserting hard materials into the tip of their penis.
See-they KNOW that it’s hardness that matters. Of course, I’m not saying you have to insert a needle into your manhood to satisfy women sexually–definitely not!
But it’s the principle that counts. Hardness matters.
As a woman, I’m happy to have sex with a man with a small penis if he’s going to be rock hard all night!
So many men are hung (no pun intended) up on size when they should really be focusing on getting hard and staying hard.
There are SO many ways to enhance a woman’s pleasure, and if we just assume that a big d!ck is all you need, then there are going to be a lot of underwhelmed women out there.
What a woman craves is a d!ck that can get hard fast–and STAY that way until she’s satisfied. If you can give that to her, she will NOT be concerned about your size.
Now that we have a different way to think about what makes sex great, maybe we can shift away from the “bigger is better” cliche.
I for one am tired of it. I want men to pay attention to the right things so that more women can receive the pleasure they’re aching for.
Here's exactly what I mean:
The #1 Key to F**king Her Deep (Even If You’re on the Smaller Side)…
I’ve got two words for you…
Because yes, women generally DO love when you f**k them deep… but it’s not because of how far in her you can go.
It’s because of how FULL you make her feel when you’re inside her.
Like… are you penetrating her with a soggy noodle, or a stiff rod?
Even if you don’t have much girth… the harder you can get, the more pleasure you’ll give women during sex…
… because more hardness means more sensation in her vagina, plain and simple.
(It's kind of hard to describe, but as a woman I really CAN feel a guy's hardness inside me… it's always the most intense right before he's about to come… I LOVE it!!)
Not to mention as a woman, when a guy can get rock-hard for me it’s a HUGE turn-on…
It makes me feel suuuuuper sexy and wanted… and I also just love the way it looks to be honest. 😉
All my hot girlfriends and I agree… we’d MUCH rather have sex with a rock-hard smaller penis, than a half-hard bigger one… it just feels kinda “blah” when a guy can’t get it up all the way.
So if you really want to f**k her deep, get as hard as humanly possible, and make the most of what you’ve got *down there*…
[Note: This post was Updated by Gotham Club on September 4, 2019.]