New Research Has the Definitive Answer To: Do Women Like Being Spanked?
Spanking. We’ve all heard of it, but many men are still afraid to try it.
I totally get it.
You don’t want to just start spanking your girl in the middle of sex and see how it plays out. That could be a recipe for disaster, right?
While many men are into fetishes or fantasize about spicing up their sex lives…
Most guys don’t realize that many women are also on board with these fantasies.
And one new study has finally proven it.
Are More Women Secretly Into Kinky Sex Than You Realize?
In fact, many women have their own fetishes they wish you were acting out, and like you, they’re probably too afraid to speak up.
A recent study has actually concluded that one in three women has a fetish.
The study also goes on to say that women are just as into kink and fetishes as men – and may even be more into kink than men are.
This article surveyed over 1,500 women from all over the world to find out more about what they liked in bed.
What was really interesting was that a whopping 95% of the women surveyed said that they enjoyed being spanked in bed.
That means, chances are, the next woman you take home may at least be curious or interested in spanking during sex.
However, as the study also mentioned, many women don’t speak up about their fetishes, and so they often go unfulfilled.
So, if you want to incorporate spanking into sex, you’ll probably have to take the lead.
Not sure how to introduce this new move into sex? Don’t worry, we’ve got you covered.
Here are 3 failsafe ways to comfortably add spanking to your sex life.
1) Engage Her Fantasies
While you probably don’t want to bring up the idea of spanking out of nowhere, there are a few things you can do to introduce spanking into your bedroom.
It’s best to introduce the topic slowly. Have you two ever talked about minor fetishes or sexual fantasies?
If so, then she’ll almost certainly be open to a conversation about spanking during sex.
And if you’ve never discussed it, then try asking her if there’s anything that turns her on that you haven’t explored yet.
This will open her up to an entire selection of sexual possibilities, and also in a non-threatening way.
Why?
Because you’re turning the question over to her to see if you can do something to please her in bed — and, as you may have guessed, most women are interested in that.
This also gives her the control over the conversation and allows her to feel safe.
Which brings me to step two…
2) Do Your Research
At the end of the day, you know your woman best.
So if she’s the kind of girl who loves understanding the facts or psychology behind certain fads or trends, then she’ll love hearing the stats on spanking.
Bring up the topic by letting her know you were reading an interesting article about how many women secretly enjoy being spanked.
Then impress her with your knowledge of spanking by saying you didn’t realize it could actually heighten the sexual experience by stimulating her in all of the right places.
You can gauge her reaction from there, but if she seems game, ask her if spanking is something she’s interested in.
If you frame the question as a way of trying to please her, she’ll be much more open about the discussion than if you make her feel like this is something you really want or need from her.
Keeping her in control of the answer is the best way to get an honest response and may lead to her revealing more sexual fantasies…
3) Experiment Slowly
Depending on your comfort level with your woman, how you approach this step will vary from person to person.
An easy way to try out spanking without completely shocking or scaring her is by slowly introducing other elements to your bedroom sessions.
For instance, try adding light levels of dirty talk here and there, such as the simple, “Do you like that?” when you nibble her ear or kiss her neck.
Creating an open stream of conversation during sex is important to get her to open up and trust you.
Once you’re both comfortable with dirty talk, you can then move on to introduce spanking to see if it works for the two of you.
To try this, you can lightly massage her lower back and compliment her on how sexy she is.
Ask her if she likes it when you massage her, and if the answer is yes, you can try lightly spanking her.
Ask her again if she likes it when you spank her — pay special attention to her body language.
By now, you should be able to read her pretty well. If she seems into spanking, you can begin experimenting a bit more, always focusing on how she responds.
One of the best ways to introduce spanking and other kinky sex moves in your bedroom is during foreplay.
So here’s how to do that:
8 “Foreplay Secrets” That Ease Her Into Kinky Sex…
While she probably secretly craves kinky sex… sometimes she needs to be introduced to it kinda slowly.
So to ease her into the idea of kinky sex… put a little bit of kink into your foreplay with these 8 “Foreplay Secrets.”
Each one is a different way to touch her when things are getting “hot and heavy”… to tease out her secret desire to get naughty with you… and in ways you probably never thought possible…
Since there are 8 of them… I thought they deserved their own article. You can check them out here:
