Does Sex Get Better With Age? Here’s the Surprising Truth…
Have you ever thought about your grandparents having sex?
Gross, right? So gross.
Most people don’t think about how (or how often) older people have sex… despite the fact that they know they’ll one day be that old too.
But what if older people are getting busy a lot more often than we realize? And taking it a step further, what if they’re having BETTER sex than the rest of us?
If you’re a middle-aged guy yourself, chances are you know the answer to those questions… and one study has finally confirmed it.
The Truth About Reaching Your Sexual “Peak” (Hint: It Doesn’t Happen in Your 20s)
Studies across the board show that men and women over 50 are getting it on and having a great time in bed (or in their car, park, hotel rooms…).
In fact, according to one recent study, sex in your 50s is even better than sex in your 20s and 30s.
Don’t believe me?
Just the other day, at a New Year’s Eve party, I was talking to my best friend’s mom — Mimi, age 72.
Mimi might be in her 70s, but she is having a BALL (literally) getting her needs met following two divorces.
She’s dating a younger man who’s up for the challenge. He’s 64. Mimi jokes that the only time she says “no” to sex is when her man asks her if she’s had enough!
As an older woman, for myself and most of my friends who are in their mid-40s, our libidos have majorly kicked into non-stop sexual desire.
It was kind of like a light bulb turned on that had somehow been dimmed for years. POW — we needed to be satisfied.
We wanted our partners to step up to the plate and take us all the way home.
Having good sex was now at the top of our list of priorities. Laundry can wait. Dinner can burn.
We want what we want, and we want it NOW.
Whether my friends were married, single, or divorced… we all wanted more sex, and we wanted it to be good.
We also found ourselves ready to try new things. Bring on the BDSM, baby!
Let the games begin!
The #1 Reason Middle-Aged Men Are Better at Sex
If you are heading toward 50 you should be feeling very optimistic right about now.
Chances are you have years of sexual experience… and you know what you like.
Whether it’s fast or slow…
Soft or hard…
Kinky or vanilla…
You know exactly what you like, and you’re not afraid to say it.
This is the reason that men over 50 are better at sex than younger guys: They aren’t afraid to tell women (like me) what they want, and often, they’re better at it.
They know where the G-spot is.
They know how hard is “too hard.”
And they’re prepared to keep at it until they get it just right.
Like Mimi says, sensuality and knowledge are two essential keys to giving a woman an orgasm (whether she’s 29 or 99) every single time.
Exactly like you strive to grow, get better, and be a leader at your workplace, with age and experience you can apply your newfound knowledge to the bedroom as well.
Even if you aren’t having sex as often as you once did… the sex you are having is better. Way better.
But what if you aren’t a middle-aged guy? Is there a replacement for that kind of confidence and experience?
Here are 3 of my best tips to achieve the top sexual quality every woman wants in a man:
1) Be Prepared (Physically AND Mentally)
One of the easiest ways to have better sex is to know what you’re getting into.
Ultimately, sex is a physical experience, so it’s good to keep your body strong and healthy.
This doesn’t mean spending 3 hours a day at the gym — it’s as simple as knowing your body, and understanding your limits. Accept yourself, and women will be much more willing to accept you as well.
On top of that, confidence is extremely sexy, no matter how old (or young) you are.
Just take it from me:
I used to think that having a tight ass and tight everything would mean I could relax into my nudity.
Well, as it turns out, the moments I felt my absolute sexiest weren’t in my 20s… it happened later, when I had embraced myself (flaws and all).
I was able to let everything go, even though I knew I wasn’t perfect — and that made sex SO much better for me.
So if the woman you’re with shows you that she wants you — believe her. Let your inhibitions go, and enjoy it.
2) Don’t Be Afraid to Ask Questions
Want to have better sex with literally ANY woman? Ask her questions.
It sounds pretty obvious, right? But most men never do it!
However, older men tend to be a little more open about it. It’s simple, really — try asking her questions like:
- What turns you on?…
- Where do you like being touched most?…
- What’s your wildest sexual fantasy?…
Any of these will get her to open up to you, and it could even make the sex hotter too.
If you’ve been with her for a while, you could even suggest going to a naughty store (like the Pleasure Chest) together!
I promise you’ll learn something new about her that you probably never expected. 😉
3) But First, Figure Out What YOU Want
If you know exactly what a woman wants in bed, that’s great! You’re already 10 steps ahead of most guys in their 20s and 30s.
But do you know what turns YOU on the most?
Get specific — I don’t just mean the act of penetration.
What gives you those sexual tingles? Is it light, feathery touches?
Or maybe you like a woman who takes control?
Take a few minutes, and really think about it. So after you figure out what she likes, you can communicate your desires as well.
You can even do this over text! She’ll never see it coming, and you might even get a sexy picture from her in return.
Or if you’re more old school, you could email her an erotic poem.
Don’t be shy…
Because here’s what can happen when a woman really opens up to you:
I’ll Admit I Was More Than a Little Attracted to Scott’s Salt-And-Pepper Hair…
Though I couldn’t flirt with him in front of my boss… we were at a business convention in Vegas, after all.
So when he slipped me his room key, and whispered “Room 407. 5 minutes.”….
Like a good girl, I did as I was told. I made sure no one was looking… and after 5 minutes had passed, I discreetly slipped out.
When Scott opened the door, I was shocked to see he was already rock hard! (Pretty impressive for a guy his age.)
He threw me down on the bed and unzipped my dress… “Oh God, Scott, take me NOW!”…
Afterward, my curiosity got the best of me… “Are you on Viagra or some ‘prescription’? Guys your age aren’t usually THAT hard…”
“Nope. I hate ‘prescriptions.’ I refuse to take them.” He said with a smirk…
And then he showed me the trick he used to get hard… check it out, you’ll love it:
Discover the Secret to Staying Rock Hard as Long as You Want (Better Than a Prescription)…
