Have You Ever Asked Yourself: Does She Like Me More Than a Friend? Here’s an Easy Way to Find Out…
Shy girls can be pretty tricky to figure out.
It's often hard to tell if she wants you, but she's too afraid to approach you…
Or if she simply isn't interested.
So is there an easy way to tell if a woman wants you, even if she's really shy or quiet?
In my experience, the answer is “Yes” — and today, I'm going to show you how… including some “signs a shy girl likes you” body language.
It all began with a time I helped film a reality show in a bar:
How a Reality Show Helped Me Discover the Easiest Way to Get a Shy Girl to Approach You…
A while back, I was in a bar with two other relationship experts, and we were helping film a reality show.
We had hidden cameras and a full setup in the bar, and we invited a whole host of women to the event.
The plan was to have them each sign a release form after a videotaped interview.
At the beginning of the event, I was warming people up and talking to the women like I was just another guy in the bar.
As I was talking to two of the most beautiful women in the bar… in walks something, or rather someone, else.
I remember distinctly hearing Jack Nicholson's voice in my mind, from Batman:
“Stop the press. Who is that?”
I had to get to know this girl, but I was still talking to those two other women.
One of them goes, “I'm not afraid of people at all. I can talk to anyone.”
I said, “Really? Get her to come over here,” pointing over at the beautiful woman who had just walked in.
She looked around for a moment — “She's busy with something,” she said.
So instead, I just waved her over (but very discreetly).
Basically, I waved her over, but I held my hand in such a way that no one looking would know what had happened.
I was hoping she would see me and think, “What was that? Did he want me to come over?”
And here's what happened next:
2 Keys to a Great First Interaction With the Next Woman You Want
When you meet a new woman, there are three important things to remember if you want to escalate the situation:
1) Demonstrate your personality.
Who you are as a person comes across through what you say and how you respond to the people around you.
For example, when another person's insults roll off of your back, or your jokes make people laugh, the woman you're with will get a convincing picture of who you are.
2) Keep your wits about you.
It's important to always be aware and in control — women love a cool, level-headed guy.
Even if you're feeling angry or anxious on the inside, try and stay as calm as possible. This shows her that you're in the position of power.
So when this gorgeous girl walked over to me, she didn't say anything. I started the conversation like this:
Me: “What?” (I feigned surprise at something.) “What is your sign?”
Me: “Oh no, that's my ex-wife's sign.”
This went on for a while… but things weren't really escalating.
She was giving me some attitude, and being a little icy — but I really liked her and wanted to spend more time with her. She was the only girl I wanted to be around.
At first, I thought she simply wasn't interested in me… but then things changed.
The Time a Shy Girl Told Me She Wanted Me Without Any Words…
To be honest, I was about ready to give up on this girl after a few minutes — I'm generally not a fan of annoying (or annoyed) women…
But then I remembered something that happened three weeks prior in Nice, France.
A woman I met seemed to be not into me at all…
Yet a few minutes later, her friend slipped me her number.
No, not her own number — her friend actually slipped me the number of the girl I was talking to that seemed to hate and/or fear me.
As it turned out, the way I interpreted her actions as hateful or fearful was actually just her way of being shy.
I was failing Mind-Reading 101, and she was actually very into me.
Back to the present moment in this bar — I suddenly realized one pertinent and consistent truth.
Despite how much attitude this heavenly creature was throwing at me, every time I looked around she was close enough to touch with my elbow.
Hmmm…. maybe this girl is shy!
It Doesn’t End There…
We ordered some snacks, and she went for her interview (interviews were our excuse to collect info and releases from each of the girls in our hidden camera set.)
I moved on to chat with some other people and show them some techniques.
However, when I went back to look for the shy girl, I was afraid she had left. No one knew…
Until, someone said, “Wait… she ordered food. I think she'll be back.”
There was my chance — she was back, and I was able to make plans with her for the next night.
I walked her downstairs and out the door (if you can, always walk a woman out when you get her information unless you're continuing the night with her).
The next night, I took her home.
How did I know she wanted me so bad? How did I pick up on her signs?
It's simple–here's what I did:
7 Subtle Signs She’s Ready to Go Home With You…
In my experience, when a woman wants to go home with you… she’s not going to flat-out say, “Let’s go back to my place.”
Because 82% of women are too shy to make the first move… she’s going to give you some subtle body language clues instead.
These signs are easy to miss… but once you know what they are, you’ll start seeing them everywhere you go:
In the grocery store…
At happy hour…
Hell, I’ve even seen a woman give them to me at work (and I thought she secretly hated me!).
For myself and my students, these signs have been a major game-changer… so I thought they were deserving of their own article: