A lot of guys think that attraction is driven by what you say to a girl: is it funny? Is it intriguing? Does it get her interested in you?
In reality, 99% of attraction can be summed up in 2 words:
Eye contact.
If you can master eye contact, you can attract women from a distance. It really is one of the most powerful feelings in the world: being able to walk in a room and being confident that you’ll gain the attention of any woman you want.
Of course, if you make poor eye contact, you can also lose attraction with women very easily. Poor eye contact can label you as “weak,” “timid,” and even “creepy” before you’ve ever said a word to the girl.
Basically, if your eye contact is off, you’re starting at a disadvantage. You’re playing from behind.
So today I have two videos to help drive this point home:
How to Generate Attraction Before Talking to Women
I like to end all of my courses by asking the women I work with for some feedback: which of my techniques work, which don’t, what they’d like to know or are curious about, etc.
Almost all of the time they say I’m spot-on, but they have their own questions for me. This time around, the lovely Mary hits on a great point:
What do women think when you make eye contact with them, but don’t go talk to them?
By watching her answer, you’ll learn exactly why eye contact can have such a huge role in getting inside women’s heads and building attraction before you’ve even said a word.
Also, I’ll show you why exactly strong, multiple instances of eye contact can effectively “rejection-proof” a conversation before it even starts.
Once you’ve watched all of the eye contact videos in this series (in order, others are here and here), you’ll be well ahead of 95% of other men who can’t help but make eye contact with their shoelaces when an attractive woman is present.
Now it’s up to you to go out there and try these tips for yourself. If you have any feedback on these videos or questions for me about specific techniques, I would love to hear them on my Facebook page–if you give me specific enough questions, I can address them in future videos if you have a little patience.
Until then, go out and start building attraction with the girl of your dreams without even saying a word!
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