First Date Advice for Men Who Are Serious About Moving Forward…
A lot of guys ask me whether or not they should try to sleep with a girl on the first date. They have a lot of concerns:
- “Glenn, I’m worried she’ll get offended…”
- “What if she doesn’t want to?”
- “What if it ruins my chances of a second date?”
And so on.
So today, I’m putting my 2 cents in. Here’s the stripped down, real deal answer to the age-old question:
Should you sleep with a woman on the first date?
The “Secret” Type of Woman Most Men Have No Idea Exist…
There’s one type of woman most men never spot…
The “one night stand” woman. It’s true — there are women out there who only go on dates because they want to have sex!
They don’t want anything more at that stage in their life. No relationship, no drama…just sex.
Just because a woman goes out on a date with you doesn’t mean she’s looking for a boyfriend or husband.
She may even ask tons of questions about your life…
Your past relationships…
If you want kids…
None of this means she’s not looking for sex. All it means is that she’s trying to feel comfortable about sleeping with you — that’s it.
Or maybe she’s been alone for a while and is feeling ready to get back in the saddle — hello, one night stand!
Many women fall into this “one night stand” category, but most guys never realize it.
So how do you figure out if the woman you’re on a date with is a “one night stand” kind of woman?
There’s only one surefire way to do it:
So Should You Try and Sleep With Her on the First Date?
The answer is YES! If you want to spot a “one night stand” woman, you have to try and sleep with her on the first date.
Always try and sleep with a woman on the first date. Always, always, always, always!
First and foremost, if you don’t sleep with her on the first date there may not be a second date.
Why?
When you sleep with a woman, you form an emotional connection — it’s much harder to flake (AKA ditch out on a second date) when there’s an emotional connection involved.
Women are masters at hiding their true intentions, and so unless you’re a ninja with women…it’ll be next to impossible to read what she really wants.
Just take it from me — I even still have a hard time reading certain women…but you know what?
It doesn’t bother me, because whether she’s looking for a husband and kids or a one-night stand, I’m without a doubt gonna try and bring her home with me!
It Doesn’t End There…
Now, I’m not saying that every woman is going to fall into this “one night stand” category.
Are there women out there that won’t have sex on the first date no matter what? Yes….
Are there women out there who are only looking for a long-term relationship? Yes!
Are there women who need 3-5 dates before they sleep with a man? Yes!
But does that mean you shouldn’t try and have sex with her?
Hell no it doesn’t!
I have a little saying and it goes like this…
“You’ll never look bad for trying to sleep with a woman, but you may look bad for not trying!”
Women expect men to try and put the moves on them. It’s actually what they want — even if they have no intention of sleeping with you!
“WTF?” You might be thinking…and I can’t blame you.
But here’s the truth: Women validate themselves by the attention they receive. Trying to sleep with her is a form of attention she needs and feeds off of…
So by trying to sleep with a woman, you’re making her feel desired and valued. And if she has any attraction to you whatsoever, chances are you can sleep with her on the first date.
On top of that, you end up looking “weak” if you don’t try and sleep with her on the first date. Let me explain:
Women are attracted to strong, masculine and dominant men — men who know what they want. So by attempting to sleep with her, you’re:
a) Showing her that you’re a man, and…
b) Giving yourself the best possible chance that she’ll come home with you.
So how do you actually “try” to sleep with her on the first date?
The Best Way to Get Her Home With You on the First Date
Now, here’s what I want you to do:
Every date you ever go on again, I want you to embrace your sexual desires and try and sleep with her — no excuses.
Here’s what NOT to do:
- Be overly aggressive…
- Force her to do anything…
- Make a move when she looks visibly uncomfortable…
- Ignore her objections…
Sex is a mutual experience — she has to want it too. When you “try” to sleep with a woman, you aren’t forcing her into anything. You’re simply showing her that you’re interested and ready to have sex with her that night.
Always treat women with respect.
So try and kiss her…make a move…invite yourself back to her place…
And if she says no? Take it down a notch, and try again when you think she might be ready.
But if you’re with that kind of “one night stand” woman, chances are she’ll be up for it.
And if that’s the case, there’s only one thing left to do…
The “D–k Hardening Dish” I Eat Before EVERY First Date…
I’m on a first date with this yoga teacher…and I can’t wait to impress her with a night of marathon sex.
So when she says, “Hey Glenn, would you wanna have a drink back at my place?” I can feel my blood pumping…but then I realize I’ve made one crucial mistake…
I forgot to eat my “D–k Hardening Dish”!!!!
“What the hell is that???” You might be wondering…
Well, it’s this odd combination of foods…basic stuff you can find in any supermarket…
…and when they’re combined into my D–k Hardening Dish…man, it makes my boners rock hard. (Not to mention I can get hard at the drop of a hat after I eat it.)
And when I don’t eat my D–k Hardening Dish…well, I’m still “OK” I guess…but when I DO eat it…my orgasms are like f’in ecstasy.
Full disclosure…I did sleep with her that night…but only after we made a pit stop back at my place…I’m guessing you know what for…(the D–k Hardening Dish, obviously). 😉
This D–k Hardening Dish is a total game-changer. So check it out, you’re gonna love it:
Show me the ingredients to make the “D–k Hardening Dish” for rock hard boners in 2 weeks or less…
