5 Flirting Tips For Introverts & Shy Guys That Will Get You Laid Fast–No Cold Approaching Required…
Hey it’s Magic, one of Gotham Club’s experts.
So in this video today, I’m going to teach you how to go and start talking to women.
I’ll show you both how to engage them and how to flirt with them–particularly if you’re an introvert, shy, or if you’re someone who works a lot.
Because I know how it can get–I used to be cripplingly shy myself.
Every evening after you leave your workplace, you get stuck in your head… and you just can’t get out of it.
So then when you see a woman you really want to talk to, you just can’t. It’s too heavy.
I’m going to teach you how to:
Break out of your state…
Start engaging women…
And flirt with women that you find attractive (in a way that gets you laid).
So let’s get started!
Catch The Full Video Transcript Below (Including 5 Proven Flirting Tips For Introverts)…
So there are a few things that you can do to get out of this “paralyzed state.”
I used to be at the same stage, you know, when I started almost 20 years back.
Anytime I would go out and I would see a woman that I wanted to talk to, I just wouldn’t know what to do.
I would get scared, freeze up and feel paralyzed.
And these are the things that I used to do at that time to step out of my discomfort to relax and engage women.
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I’m going to give these tips to you because they’ve worked for me.
They’ve worked for many clients that I’ve helped.
And so I’m telling you man… these are definitely going to work for you.
1) Practice This Powerful Yet Highly Underrated Breathing Exercise
The very first thing is this:
Whe you walk into any venue, even before you get into it, you should take 8 or 10 deep breaths.
I know this is something that everybody talks about, and maybe you don’t see the value in it.
But what deep breathing does is it instantly relaxes you.
Your brain starts to slow down, and that’s the first thing we need.
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You need to relax.
You don’t want to drink to reach this state, because you don’t want to become an alcoholic.
A lot of flirting tips for introverts will suggest drinking, but I really don’t encourage it.
You also don’t want to feel that the only way you can engage women is if you’re drinking.
So breathing will definitely help you with that.
2) Pay Attention to Your Surroundings…
The next thing is when you go to the venue–whether you’re by yourself or with a friend–pay attention to the music, and then just start moving.
This is one of the best flirting tips for introverts that I know.
It really changes your state.
It transitions you from being stuck in your head to starting to have fun.
So when the music is playing, usually I just go and start moving.
I don’t care if I like the song or not.
I just listen to it, and I move.
And it starts to change my state physically.
3) Smile (It Counts For WAY More Than You Realize)
This next thing is something that really changed my interactions:
Smile.
Because when I first started doing this, when I had a smiel on my face all the time… I would just walk on the street and go to a venue and a woman would be smiling back at me.
And I’m like, “why is she doing that?”
And then gradually it dawned on me… I realized that my smile is contagious.
It also increased my comfort level.
(Another one of the best flirting tips for introverts? Stop clenching your jaw!)
Because all of a sudden, I went from thinking that women don’t like me…
… to seeing women smiling back at me all the time.
It changed my state a lot.
So a really good thing to do is have a smile on your face at all time.
Another great tip?
Pay attention to your ambiance.
Okay, so if you’re in a bar, at a friend’s party, or your workplace or whatever… just look around at things.
Once you start paying attention to your ambiance, you step out of those negative thoughts.
You don’t get stuck in your head anymore and your thinking changes.
So now instead of having a bunch of negative thoughts, you start noticing interesting things.
Which brings me to my next point:
4) Talk to Her Like THIS to Show Off Your Spontaneous & Sexy Side…
You know, there’s a very good exercise you can do.
So when you’re paying attention to your ambiance, just start mentioning those things to any woman you talk to.
This can come across as you being spontaneous.
You could be talking to a woman and say, “I love this place. How nice is that light?…”
“Those curtains are ugly…”
Whatever.
So now, it’s not something you have rehearsed because you’re talking about the environment.
So it actually also makes you come across as spontaneous, which is a good thing to do.
You can also prepare in advance 3 questions you can ask.
And I would recommend also coming up with 3 responses or comments in response to those questions.
So now you’re pretty prepared, okay?
Here’s what to do next:
5) Approach “Safe” People First
If you’re still feeling hesitant, approach the “safe” people first.
And by “safe” I mean people who don’t intimidate you.
So maybe there’s an older couple or a married couple there.
Maybe there’s a bartender or a bouncer…
A group of guys…
I don’t care who it is.
Just start talking to them, use the questions I mentioned earlier, and you can just use the same questions on multiple people.
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The reason I recommend this is because if I tell you to go and start talking to a very attractive woman, it feels more like you’re forcing yourself to do something.
(And especially in terms of flirting tips for introverts, if you’re going to try something more than once, it shouldn’t feel forced at all.)
You will come up with excuses for why you shouldn’t do it.
But if you start talking to people, your state of mind will change.
You will go from feeling insecure and afraid…
To transitioning into that stage where you don’t feel comfortable opening up…
And then once yous tart talking and relaxing, your state of mind has changed.
Now you can start approaching girls that you really like.
So here’s what to do next:
My No-Words “Magic Bullet” That Gets Really Hot Girls In Bed…
Ok I saved the best tip for last here… it’s what I do when I find myself in front of a REALLY hot girl… and my mind goes blank.
(I know… f**king sucks when it happens right?)
Instead of talking about what I do… or TV shows… or sports… I actually don’t say anything… instead, I pull out this “Magic Bullet” I always have in my back pocket:
It’s a quick sequence of 3 seemingly “friendly” or “innocent” touches…
But they ALSO work to turn a girl on in some pretty sneaky, under-the-radar ways.
(Which means they’re perfect to use in coffee shops… bookstores… or anywhere else you hang out during the day)
And when you do these 3 touches in the right order…
… you’ll notice even the hottest, most intimidating girl will start smiling at you… she’ll get really flirty with you and will touch you back…
Next thing you know you two are making out, and you’re squeezing her butt, while trying to order an Uber back to your place. 🙂
The best part?
9 times out of 10 she’ll be the one who turns things sexual, so it’ll seem and feel like she’s chasing YOU:
