Everything You Need to Know About Getting Girls With Boyfriends (And Why It’s Way Easier Than You Probably Think)…
Hey it’s Magic, one of Gotham Club’s experts.
So last week I was with one of my clients, and he told me he was attracted to a woman who was standing next to her boyfriend.
And he ended up asking me:
“How should I flirt with a woman who has a boyfriend?”
And this is something that actually comes up quite often.
The common sense or the traditional sense is that if a woman has a boyfriend… you should not flirt with her. She already has someone–she’s not interested in you.
However, speaking from experience… I can tell you one thing for sure:
The word “boyfriend” means absolutely nothing.
Catch The Full Video Transcript Below…
The majority of women are dating a guy just because he is there, and just because it’s convenient–not because he’s the right guy.
A lot of the time, women just want to be with someone.
So they meet a guy and they start dating him, and they’re still waiting for Mr. Right to come in.
But just because she’s with someone doesn’t mean that’s her Mr. Right.
And that’s why your job is to flirt with her.
If this guy that she’s with, if that is her Mr. Right, she’s not going to flirt back with you.
But that is not your problem.
So you should flirt with the woman and then let her decide if you’re the right person or the guy she’s with is her Mr. Right.
1) Build Yourself Up Like THIS (Very Counterintuitive)
However, the flirting in this situation works a little bit differently because now she has a guy with her.
You don’t want to be very obvious because you don’t want to have a confrontation with the guy.
So when I meet a woman who is standing next to her boyfriend, what I do is, the first thing I do is I build myself up.
I let her know that I am a better option.
And I do this in a very funny way that actually makes no sense, very counterintuitive.
What I do is I actually make fun of myself.
So I’ll just go there and say, “Oh, your guy’s such a great guy. I’m an idiot. I never even finished the school.”
This message comes across in a funny manner. To the guys, it comes across like I’m beating myself down.
But to women, it actually comes across as:
“This guy doesn’t care for me, he’s not trying to impress me. He’s different. What’s going on here?”
And that really gets their attention.
So instead of trying to impress her, I’m saying, “I’m not as good of a guy as your guy. He’s a great guy. I’m sure.”
And so I can just play with it. So the guy feels good.
He knows that, okay, I’m not going to compete with him because I’m actually building him up.
At the same time, he’s thinking, “Huh? He’s putting himself down. He’s no competition.”
But the woman is thinking, “Oh, this guy is not even trying to impress me. What’s going on?”
And that gets her in.
2) Talk To Everyone Around Her–But Not Her
And then, as we are standing there, I’m going to make extended eye contact with her that, again, gets attention.
And then, if you want to trigger something more…
If you’re in a bar for example, or in a club, or even at a friend’s party or whatever, if you see a person next to her–start talking to them, engage them, give them a compliment.
And now what happens is she sees, “Oh, he’s a social guy. He’s talking to everybody else. I’m the only person that he was not flirting with.”
And that really triggers her and that really actually makes her want to make an effort.
3) Don’t Walk Away When She “Accidentally” Bumps Into You
And most of the time you will see that this woman will come and stand next to you. She will accidentally bump into you.
She will gradually start to brush her arms or something on you. And this is something, again, again it’s not common sense. Most guys don’t get it.
Our first reaction is, “Oh, sorry,” and we give her space and we walk away.
The minute you do that, your game’s over. See, women a lot of the times test you.
They want to find out if you are the sexually confident guy. So if a woman comes to you, accidentally bumps into you, stands next to you, sits right next to you and is leaning on you, is touching you, let her do that.
It’s not your job to walk away. You’re not the one touching her. She’s the one touching you so she can pull back.
But what she’s trying to do is she’s trying to test you. She’s trying to see if you will be okay with her making the move, if you’re receptive of her.
That’s what’s she’s testing. So if she’s touching you, let her touch.
And this happens to me so many times, I can’t even tell you.
I’ve had women sitting, like I’m sitting here, she’s sitting there, and then her boyfriend there… and she’s literally resting her thighs on me.
I’ve had women who were literally resting on me, their shoulders on me. There are times where they will just gently brush onto you.
And these are all signs.
And when you are comfortable with that, when you’re comfortable with letting her touch you gently, that can raise to her that you’re a sexually confident guy, that you’re used to women.
And that actually really triggers arousal in them.
So next time a woman actually bumps into you, don’t walk away from that.
Just stay calm, let her do whatever she’s doing.
And she’s going to make more effort. And then once she reaches this place, that’s the most that can happen in front of her guy. She’s not going to flirt with you very openly.
4) Exchange Numbers Or Social Media With EVERYONE (Here’s Why)
So when this happens your job is to just exchange numbers with everyone or exchange social media with everyone.
Not just with her, with everyone. And then, later on, you can contact her.
Or you can even just get her boyfriend’s social media or something.
This is maybe not the best thing to do, but whatever.
Everything is fair in love and war, right?
You like her, you’ve got to go after her. So you just exchange the information, and then later on, you set up a date. And that’s really how it works.
And I tell you, when women have boyfriends, it’s one of the easiest things.
The reason being, she’s already dating this guy, and chances are they’ve been seeing each other for a while.
Things are probably stale, things are getting boring… and now you’re the fresh bread.
You’re the one who stands apart–you’re different from the guy. And she instantly sees the difference and she’s attracted to you. So never back off.
And when you’ve got her on her own… here’s the fastest (and easiest) way to get her in bed:
5) Turn Her On Using My 3 “Temptation Touches”
This last step is pretty controversial…
Because in order to sleep with a woman, you have to turn her on first…
… and if she’s taken, you MUST be stealthy about it.
(This is true even if her boyfriend or husband isn’t around… if she’s going to sleep with you, she has to know you can keep a secret… until she breaks up with him)
So when you want to get a taken woman “in the mood”… here’s what to do:
These touches are subtle enough that anyone around you will think you’re two friends having a regular conversation…
Yet what most people don’t realize, is that this type of skin-to-skin contact can turn a woman on VERY fast…
… and make her desperate to sleep with you…
… often to the point that she’ll lean in and kiss you, or suggest you go somewhere more private (hell yeah):
P.S. If you really want to turn her on fast… touch her HERE.