How Having Girls as Friends Can Get You Laid a LOT More Often (And How to Still Turn Things Sexual With Her in The End)…
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So, you’ve arrived at the situation known as friends without benefits.
What can you do now?
Let me start by saying that there are two paths.
You can either push it–benefits or bust…
Or you can stand pat.
What!?
Some of you might be horrified to hear this, while others of you might be terrified.
Let me explain:
This is largely a matter of whether you’re a “calibrator” or an “escalator.”
Escalators are often willing to risk rejection, as long as they can get an answer now. They don’t want all of these other relationship benefits with a woman who’s not interested in sex.
Calibrators, on the other hand, are willing to risk celibacy, as long as they can keep this woman now. They’re not going to let something as trivial as sex outweigh all of these other relationship benefits with a woman who’s interested in them–at least as a friend, and who knows how much more?
Meanwhile, some of you might not fall into either of these categories. Maybe you’re just not sure which direction you want to go with her.
So that’s what I want to talk about today.
I’ll show you 3 surprising sexual benefits of staying “just friends” with a girl, and how having girls who are just friends can actually get you laid a lot more often.
Plus, I’ll also show you a counterintuitive method to turn things sexual with this girl if you simply have to have her, and can’t give up on her.
So let’s get started:
Why Being in the “Friend Zone” Isn’t ALWAYS a Bad Thing…
Some guys stay in the friend zone because they want to make the most of what they have.
To clarify this idea, a ballplayer who has spent a long time in the batter’s box alone is going to swing at pitches he’d do better to ignore. And then he’s probably going to strike out.
Sports metaphor no good?
If a salesman has been in a slump, it’s often difficult to let go of “a live one” even if they don’t seem like they’re going to buy.
Basically, here’s what I’m saying:
A guy who hasn’t had a lot of dates–or a lot of sex–is often not willing to let a girl who’s talking to him get away.
There’s also an undeniable logic in the feeling that it might be easier to seduce a woman you’re already talking to, than it would be to seduce a woman you’ve never met.
Other guys would rather go down swinging–they need to know if this woman is interested, and if she isn’t, it’s over.
One buddy of mine puts it in a slightly crass, but certainly easy-to-remember way:
“Make the ‘ho say no.”
Better, in other words, to destroy the relationship than to live on in hope–especially pointless hope.
So what’s the best way to go?
Is it better to “play the long game” or to “cut and run?”
It probably comes as no surprise that my recommendation is to play the hand you’re dealt.
By “play,” however, I don’t mean to keep the cards in your hand and do nothing. I also don’t mean to keep bluffing and betting.
What might be more of a surprise–or might not, depending on how familiar you are with my perspective–is that I want you to realize that there are advantages to both directions.
You can get the benefits of her friendship, while also keeping the sexual momentum moving forward.
Here’s what I mean–there are 3 of these benefits in all:
1) The “Abundance” Benefit
What’s the benefit of holding on to her?
Simply put, there is value in a female friend.
For example, I have a buddy who will seduce all the friends of his female friends.
It’s a lot easier to have an “in” with these girls because you already share a connection with them–your mutual female friend.
And as a result, not only will her friends trust you faster, but they’ll also be more interested in you just because you’re her friend too.
It’s a lot easier than going out and “cold approaching” with new women. And it’s also a great way to get a solid rotation of women for casual sex.
2) This Valuable Tool (Which Makes Escalating Sexually a LOT Easier)
Another giant benefit of staying friends with a girl is getting the opportunity to see things through a woman’s eyes.
It’s especially great if this woman is the type of woman you’re usually attracted to.
Why?
Well, think about it:
Because you’re friends with her, she feels really comfortable with you.
So as a result, you can pry inside her mind for all sorts of information:
Why she chooses certain guys over others…
Where she likes to go hang out to meet guys…
And the kinds of dates she likes to go on, for example.
And this information will help you smoothly escalate with new women, and understand them in a way that few other guys ever will.
Ultimately, it’s an easy way to get laid a lot faster.
3) The Unexpected Perk That Few Men Use to Their Advantage…
If you’ve ever gone out with a woman as a friend, you may have realized that a woman can be a very powerful wing-“man.”
Other women–especially women who are similar to the woman you’re friends with–feel safe and comfortable approaching you when you are with her.
Seeing a woman like themselves with you allows them to identify with you. And this is huge.
Plus, there can also be value in practicing conversations and interactions with a woman you find particularly attractive (and maybe even a little intimidating).
It can help calm your nerves for the next time you go out to meet new women. On top of that, it can help you come off as a lot smoother and more naturally charismatic too.
Is There a Way to Turn Things Sexual With Her in The End?
If you still think that “standing pat” or remaining friends with this woman is a bad thing, then think about this:
Pushing a woman to make a decision can both force her to say no–even when she IS interested in you–and can peg you as not having experience with women at her level.
Also, sometimes a woman says “yes” with her actions but says “no” with her mouth. Very often, giving her more time can be a lot more effective than pushing her for a verbal response or for explicit approval.
But of course, I know being patient isn’t easy. Especially if you REALLY like this girl, it can be painful to sit there and do nothing.
So if you’re dead set on getting sexual with her, I do have one more strategy to help you get sexual with her…
And here’s what it is:
The Only REAL Way to Go From Friends to F**kbuddies Fast…
My student, Ben, recently turned his cute co-worker (and longtime crush) into his steady girlfriend… and here’s how he did it:
The first time “Meredith” walked into the office, Ben knew he was in trouble. He wanted her BAD.
So as you might expect, he went out of his way to show her around… offered to keep her company during lunch breaks…
… and as he got to know her better & better, Ben realized that Meredith was absolutely perfect for him.
Trouble was… Meredith had this on-again off-again loser boyfriend.
She complained about him to Ben CONSTANTLY… how he never listened to her… and how he’d always get weird texts from other girls on his phone…
And even though Ben told her over and over to leave this guy… she always seemed to have some “excuse” to stay with him.
This cycle went on for months… and one day, Ben had enough. He came to me with fire in his eyes, and said:
“I’m a way better guy for her than her jerk boyfriend… but man, she just won’t leave him. How do I get her to dump this loser for me?”
I didn’t blink an eye… I just smirked, nodded, and showed him this video about Magic’s “Friend F**king Formula.”
It’s a set of simple phrases and “mind tricks” to subtly show a girl that you’re the right sexual option for her.
(And it works really well if the girl you want has a deadbeat boyfriend, or is otherwise attached.)
Now, less than 6 weeks later… not only is Meredith’s loser boyfriend out of the picture…
… but the day after she dumped the loser, she APOLOGIZED to Ben for not doing it sooner… and then asked Ben out on the spot. 🙂
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