How to Start “Hacking” Online Dating and Get More Matches FAST
What if I told you that a few simple tweaks to your online dating profile would get you twice the number of matches you’re getting now?
That’s twice as many women…potentially twice as many dates…and maybe even twice as many women coming home with you at the end of the night…
Just by including a few “power words” in your profile.
Think it’s too good to be true?
Well, in a study of 12,000 online dating profiles, dating website eHarmony has uncovered the 10 words women search for most on men’s online dating profiles — and when used properly, these “power words” give you a huge leg up.
So today, I’m going to show you what these “power words” are, and how you can start using them right now to get more dates online.
What Exactly Are “Power Words”?
“Power words,” in this context, are simply the words and terms women are searching for most often online. So when a woman searches for these terms, she sees a list of profiles that match it…
And those are the profiles she looks through to find a date.
So if you can match her “power words” by including them on your profile…
You’ll be much more likely to a) be seen by more women and b) get more matches and dates.
The study uncovered these 10 “power words” women search for most often online — beginning with the most powerful (i.e. the one women search for most often), they are:
- “Physically Fit”…
Now, is that all you need? Can you just plug these words into your profile and watch as more women enter your life than you know what to do with?
Not so fast.
Theoretically, you could just make a list on your profile and include all of those words…And you’d probably see your profile views soar…
But lying on your profile is only going to get you so far.
Let’s take the first “power word”: “physically fit.” If you highlight how “physically fit” you are to get more matches, but then you show up to a date like you’ve never even been to a gym…
It’s safe to say you won’t be going home with her (let alone getting a second date).
If a woman notices huge discrepancies or inconsistencies between what you present on your profile and what you present in real life, you’re never going to get past the first date.
So here’s how to use these “power words” to your best advantage:
1) Select 3-5 Words You Identify With Most
Go down the list of “power words.” Choose 3-5 of them that you think describe you the most. (If there are more, that’s even better.)
If you’re not sure, think about what people have complimented you on in the past — for example, if someone’s ever called you “passionate,” use that.
And if you still can’t decide, ask a close friend or someone you trust what they think. You could say, “Would you say I’m more outgoing or introverted?”…
Or, “Do you think I’m an ambitious man?” Use the answer to choose your power words.
And once you have your list of 3-5 power words, it’s time for step 2…
2) Show the Quality, Don’t Tell
Women know how easy it is to lie online, and that you can say pretty much anything you want on your profile.
So if you simply list your power words, you’re almost guaranteed to get more profile views…but the women who visit your profile won’t be 100% sure you’re legit.
And because women have been trained to be skeptical about men online, it’s a safe bet to say her guard will be up (so she’ll have zero motivation to message you).
So how do you show her you’re the man she wants and break past her barriers?
The easiest way is to show her why you embody these “power words” with short stories about your life.
So instead of writing, “I’m pretty spontaneous” (basically making her take your word for it)…
Write, “I’m pretty spontaneous. This one time, I was at a hotel on vacation, and the pool was closed after dark. Well, my friends and I…”
When you give her an example of how you’re spontaneous, she’ll be way more likely to believe you really are spontaneous.
Here’s another example:
Instead of simply writing that you “value intelligence,” offer up some proof, like, “I went to so-and-so university and I have a degree in finance. I even got a scholarship.”
When you “show” her the kind of man you are, you’re giving her evidence that the “offline” you matches the “online” you — so she’ll be more motivated to message you first.
And when you do get her offline, there’s one final step to solidify your chances of success:
3) Use This “Power Move” to Boost Your Odds of Landing a Second Date By 300%
Just like there are “power words” women seek out online, there’s a specific “Power Move” every woman craves on a first date:
It’s a simple, 3-second touch that you can use to make her feel comfortable…and it builds a fast, deep connection.
You see, women on first dates respond to what you do more than what you say…
So by doing this “Power Move,” you’re showing her that you’re a “take charge” man who has guts — the kind of man nearly every woman wants to date (especially women using online dating).
I was skeptical at first…I can use this 3-second “Power Move” to boost my chances of landing a second date by that much? Huh???
But once I started using it, I was hooked…and now I get 3x more second dates than I used to (and I almost always get a kiss at the end of the night).
This “Power Move” is the s—. So check it out — you won’t be disappointed: