How Do Women Masturbate? Here’s Every Move You Need to Make Sure She Chooses You Over Her Vibrator Every Time…
How do you know what a woman really wants in bed?
Find out what gets her hot and bothered when she’s alone. 😉
That might be an awkward conversation to have, especially with a new partner.
Fortunately, though, a recent survey has revealed exactly what turns women on when they masturbate.
Here’s an inside peek at what turns women on when they fly solo, along with tips on how you can use this info to maximize her pleasure when you’re together.
1) It Doesn’t Have to Be A Marathon
I’m sure you’ve seen the advice out there on how to last longer.
And it’s true, to a point. Sometimes, though, longer is just… longer.
When women masturbate, their sessions typically last 13 minutes, according to the survey.
That’s just one minute less than men, who take 14 minutes on average.
In other words, you don’t need to last forever.
Get her turned on with foreplay before you dive in. Start with things like kissing her lips and her neck. Licking her nipples. Playing with her clit.
Pay attention to what makes her moan, arch her back, or dig her fingers into you. Then do more of that.
Once she’s wet and ready, start doing the deed–but don’t forget to keep doing what turned her on in the first place.
Use your fingers (or a toy) to stimulate her clit while you’re doing it, and you’ll take things over the top.
2) Play With Toys
You are irreplaceable. Your hands, your mouth, and… other parts are perfect for driving a woman wild.
But why stop there?
40% of women surveyed like to masturbate with toys. To bring your partner’s pleasure to new heights, consider introducing a toy.
There are two basic kinds of sex toys:
Dildos, which are penis-shaped, and vibrators, which are designed to stimulate her clit. Many toys are a combination of the two.
For enhancing her pleasure while you’re doing it, look for a vibrator. Use the vibrator on her clit while you’re having sex or while you’re giving her oral pleasure. Many have variable speeds–start low and slowly turn things up as she gets more turned on.
Vibrators are either battery-powered or have a power cord. Vibrators with power cords are more powerful, but toys with batteries tend to be more portable and discreet.
If you’re not sure what kind of toy she might enjoy, consider going shopping together. Plan an adventure at a brick and mortar sex store (a nice, brightly lit one that she’ll feel comfortable in), or go online.
Once you’ve purchased your toy, clean it with soap and water.
Don’t submerge it in water if it’s motorized. Be sure to clean your toy regularly, and if it uses batteries, make sure to purchase extra ones. Trust me, you don’t want the vibrator to die at the wrong moment.
3) Indulge Her Fantasies
It’s true, not surprisingly, that more men watch porn while masturbating than women. Almost 70% of men watch porn, as opposed to 38% of women.
That’s still a lot of women enjoying porn. It doesn’t stop there, though. 14% of women enjoy reading erotic literature while enjoying some “me” time.
So, how can you incorporate that into the bedroom?
One of the simplest ways is to watch some porn or read some erotica together. Let her pick what appeals to her. Enjoy the video or take turns reading aloud.
Pay attention to what she chooses. Does she prefer porn or erotica with a certain theme? Is it romantic, kinky, or down and dirty?
Once you know what she’s into, it might be time for a little roleplay. Does she enjoy erotica where the man takes control and dominates her? Pull out your best suit, a blindfold, and something to tie her up with, and make her fantasies come true.
Does she enjoy men in uniform? Take a quick trip to the costume store, and you can be the firefighter or police officer of her dreams.
Maybe she enjoys porn where the woman is dominant. Try stepping out of your comfort zone and letting her take control.
Let her blindfold you and take the lead. You may just discover new erotic pleasures of your own.
4) Let Her Fingers Do The Talking
A significant portion of women (24%) said they prefer masturbation to sex.
Don’t let this discourage you. Women who prefer masturbation said they enjoy it more because it’s more satisfying and they have better orgasms.
Use this to your advantage. Encourage your partner to show you exactly what she does to get herself off.
Pay attention to how she fingers herself or what toys she likes to use. Does she use a gentle touch? Or is her vibrator on full blast?
Once you’ve seen what she likes, do the same thing. Touch her the way she likes to be touched.
Give her exactly what she needs, and she’ll come back for more. And more.
I Have a Confession to Make…
To be honest most men have no idea how to make me come.
As a matter of fact, I’m one of the 24% of girls who prefer masturbation over sex most of the time…
… though there has been ONE exception…
… and this man gave me the most powerful & intense orgasm I’ve EVER experienced…
… and it only took him a few minutes to pull it off.
He undressed me, laid me on my back and worked his magic while still being fully clothed…
It was nice and slow at first… but soon I felt waves of ecstasy pulsing throughout my entire body…
… from the top of my head, to the tips of my toes.
My entire body was paralyzed with pleasure, as I came over and over again… unable to control how hard my body shook and quivered with every orgasm.
And then something I’ve never experienced happened too…
At first I was embarrassed because I thought I ruined this poor guy’s sheets…
… but I couldn’t help it, it just happened… and luckily he was more than OK with it (he was actually happy about it).
Here’s the kicker…it only took 3 or 4 minutes to do this to me, and he only used his fingers!!!