How To Get Her in Bed Using My 5 Steps of Sexual Escalation…
You’re making out with her on your couch…
It’s been 10 minutes, and you’re really getting into it…
But you’re ready to rip her clothes off.
Like, right now.
So you go to try it…
But she stops you with, “Let’s wait…” or “I’m really tired.”
WTF? This girl decided to make out with you but she’s rejecting you in the middle of it?
Today, I’m going to show you why this happens, how to stop it, and how to escalate with her physically so there is a zero percent chance of rejection (and a 100% chance of getting her in bed with you).
I’m Going to Make an Assumption…
I’m guessing that if you’re reading this, there’s a specific girl in mind you want to go home with.
Maybe you’ve kissed a few times…
And you know she’s at least kind of interested in you…
But things have never gone any further.
I’m going to show you how to take that leap in just a second, but in order for these powerful steps to work, a few things need to happen first:
1) She needs to be interested in you.
If you’ve kissed her a few times or she continues to hang out with you, you know she is.
2) There needs to be a physical precedent.
If you try and feel her up right away, your chances of rejection skyrocket. You should have kissed or made out with her on at least one other occasion.
If that’s a step you still need to take, drop everything and check out this article about how to kiss any girl (even if you just met her!).
3) You need to get her in a secluded place.
As I’ve written about before, no woman will have sex with you if she doesn’t feel comfortable. So take her to your place, or anywhere where you’re alone and she can open up.
Once you’ve got her there, now you’re ready for what’s coming next:
My 5 Steps of Sexual Escalation to Turn Her On FAST!
1) Think about what you want
What’s the best way to solve any problem? Visualize the outcome.
When you visualize the outcome, you’re more focused, and that means you can achieve your goal as fast as possible without anything distracting you.
So before you lay a finger on her, think about your end game.
If you want to have sex with her, visualize yourself taking off her clothes and throwing her onto your bed. Keep this picture in the back of your head every step of the way.
If you’re interested in simply getting her pants off, visualize yourself doing that. Think about everything that needs to happen, and that’ll make moving forward a lot easier (not to mention way less confusing and stressful for you).
2) Test her
Like I mentioned earlier, this should be a girl you’ve at least kissed before, so you’ve already established some familiarity.
But when you’re entering new territory, you have to go as slowly as possible…
Or else you risk making her uncomfortable. Make a woman uncomfortable, and she’ll shut down like that.
So before you start kissing her again, prime her for what’s about to happen.
Rub your arm against hers…
Brush her hair out of her face and graze her neck with your fingers…
Pay attention to how she reacts. If she leans in closer to you or starts looking flushed, she’s into it.
If she backs away, now is not the time to take things to the next level.
So when the two of you are alone and you’re sure she’s comfortable, then you should start kissing her.
This gives you the best odds that she won’t shut you down when you try and take things further.
3) Be unpredictable
This woman has had a handful (possibly a large handful) of men try and get into her pants…
Many of them have failed, and some have succeeded.
What you’re trying to do is stand out from the 90% of men she’s turned down. And to do that, you need to do something different.
When you can tease and surprise a woman, she won’t even have time to think about saying “Let’s slow down…” or “We should wait.”
And how do you “tease and surprise” her?
Think about the last time you kissed her — was it on your couch? Try kissing her in your kitchen instead!
If you initiated by pulling the back of her head toward yours last time, instead, grab her chin and pull it toward yours.
And once things start getting hot and heavy, you’re ready for the next step.
4) Move up the ladder
When you start exploring new territory with a woman, you want to take things slowly, and do them in a specific order.
There’s a certain order of physical escalation that maximizes your chances of success with any woman:
While you’re kissing her, begin touching her hands, then move up to her arms and her neck…
Gradually slide your hands down her back — leave them on the small of her back, then move toward her butt and legs…
And slowly inch your way up her inner thighs.
If at any time she resists you, stop climbing the ladder and go back to step two.
She might not let you up to the next step, so you have to test the waters.
Otherwise, if you do take that next step, you’ll fall off the ladder and you might not ever be able to climb back up.
But if, when you start inching up her inner thigh, her breathing gets heavier and she opens her legs…
Keep on climbing.
Eventually, she’ll want you to take her clothes off. And then there’s a little more climbing to do:
Start with her shirt…
Then take off her bra…
Move down to her pants…
And finally, her underwear.
5) Touch These 8 “Hot Spots” to Turn Her On FAST…
So when you’re kissing her, and the clothes start to come off… this is a critical moment.
Because this is when a woman’s “fight or flight” tendency might start to kick in, and she starts to question herself.
She might think, “Oh my god, I don’t know this guy THAT well, so maybe I shouldn’t have sex with him yet…”
Or, “I wonder if he’ll think I’m a ‘slut’ for sleeping with him so soon…?”
And so if you don’t get her turned on fast enough, and eager to have sex with you… chances are she’ll give you last-minute resistance (LMR), and won’t sleep with you.
It’s a real problem that I’ve personally faced many times… and I know how frustrating it can be.
It shows you 8 secret “hot spots” you can touch to turn a girl on really fast (in minutes), so she enthusiastically jumps into bed with you for a night of hot, wild sex.
What’s great about these “hot spots” is that they’re not obvious. You’re not “grabbing her by the p***y” or anything crazy like that… it’s a lot more under-the-radar than that.
Which means that you can just casually touch them while you’re kissing her… and after a few minutes, she’ll probably either unzip your jeans and start touching you, or suggest you go “somewhere more private.”
My good friend & Playboy Radio Host Jessica J. filmed a video to show you what they are–it’s pretty hot, so maybe don’t watch it at work haha: