How To Have A Threesome From Start To Finish–Follow These Pornstar-Approved Tips For MAX Orgasms & Pleasure…
What’s hotter than wild sex with one girl?
…How about two?
That’s right. Today, we’re talking threesomes, specifically how to have a threesome.
You’ve probably always been curious about them, but might not know how to set one up.
I’m Jillian Janson, an adult film star you might recognize from Just Jillian or Eye Contact, and I’m here to spill all of my best secrets on threesomes.
First, A Little Bit About Me 🙂
You might be surprised to hear this…but I got into the industry at the end of high school.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m all about being educated. I didn’t hate school or anything like that… but I always knew there was something “different” about me.
In class, I could never focus, because I was always thinking about sex… and when I told my friends, they all looked at me like I was crazy. I knew I had to get out.
So once I turned 18, I entered the industry and landed my first 2 starring roles in adult films. And I freaking LOVED it!
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After that, I knew that porn was my calling.
I love how open the industry is…meeting all sorts of new people…and trying new things on camera, just for you. 😉
Take threesomes, for example. On camera, threesomes can get pretty steamy…but they’re also pretty technical.
Getting the angles right with 2 people is hard enough…with 3 people, it’s even crazier! That’s not to say it isn’t fun…but in my personal life, threesomes are much different.
3 Tips for Setting Up A Threesome–In Any Situation
Honestly, the most frustrating part of how to have a threesome is getting everything set up. If you’re in a relationship, you have to find a third party, and if you’re single, the work is twice as hard.
Here are my favorite tips for scheduling a threesome, no matter your situation.
1) How To Have a Threesome When You’re Single
Trying to find two people who are down for a threesome can be tricky, but it’s definitely not impossible.
So, if you have a friend with benefits who seems open minded, casually bring up the idea of a threesome to get their take on it. If they seems interested, between the two of you, it shouldn’t be too be hard to find a third.
If you’re looking to hook up with strangers for your first threesome, you’ll definitely want to check out dating apps. There are lots of couples looking to hook up with a stranger to fulfill their own threesome fantasy.
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2) How To Have a Threesome When You’re In a Relationship
If you and your girl are both ready to explore adding another person to the mix, you’ll need to decide if you want to add another guy or girl to the mix.
Then, you’ll need to decide if you want the third person to be someone you both know or a stranger.
Some people feel more comfortable knowing the person they’re adding to the mix, but be careful! Having sex with a good friend can lead to weird feelings down the line, like insecurity and jealousy.
3) The Easiest Way to Find Another Person Who’s DTF (Without Making Anything Too Awkward Or Weird)
Like I mentioned already, the easiest way to find a stranger who’s willing to join your threesome is with dating apps. Be sure to post a couples picture though, so your third party knows exactly what they’re getting into.
How To Discuss a Threesome With Your Partner: 4 Topics That Need to Be Addressed
Once you’ve decided to go through with a couples threesome, you’ll want to work out some details with your girlfriend beforehand.
1) Safe Word
When you add another person to your bedroom for threesome sex, things can get pretty intense. Sure, it’s usually hot and fun, but sometimes it can get awkward or out of control. The best way to handle this is to come up with a safe word beforehand.
Decide on a word you’ll both remember and be sure to share it with your third person and explain that everything stops if someone calls out the safe word.
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2) Boundaries
You probably already have some boundaries in the bedroom, so you’ll want to discuss exactly what you’re open to trying and what is off limits during your threesome sex session. Be sure to find out what your third person isn’t comfortable with as well, so everyone has a great time.
3) Bi-Sexual Threesome Or Straight
Deciding on who will be joining you and your girlfriend for your first threesome is important, but deciding on the gender might be a harder decision than you expect.
If your girlfriend is bi-sexual or curious, having a threesome that is Male-Female-Female might be an easy decision.
But if she’s not, and really interested in having a threesome with another guy, this decision might be really tough.
If you’re both set on adding someone of a different gender, I always recommend compromising. Maybe you can agree to two couples threesomes, the first with a girl and the second with a guy.
After all, fair’s fair!
4) How To Avoid Crossing Swords in a Threesome
If you’re having a MMF threesome, you might be wondering how to have a threesome without accidentally “crossing swords”. If you’re not bi-curious, then this might really freak you out.
To make sure things don’t get awkward, talk to the guy beforehand to decide where each of you will be during the threesome. For example, if you’re playing down there, have him play with your girlfriends mouth, breasts…basically anything above the waist.
Letting him know you’re not okay with any guy-on-guy action is important, too, so he knows this is a boundary not to cross.
3 Ways To Take Your Threesomes to the Next Level (For More Pleasure, Orgasms & All-Around FUN!)
Threesomes aren’t always awesome on their own, especially if it’s your first threesome or if anyone is nervous. Luckily, I have a few tips for how to make threesomes more fun.
1) Spice Up Your Couples Threesome
To beat nerves, make sure everyone has a glass or two of alcohol beforehand, so they’re nice and relaxed. This can make a huge difference in making everyone feel more comfortable.
You can also add toys to the mix, so someone always has a job and feels included, no matter what’s going on.
Roleplay is another great option for threesome sex. Pretending to be someone else can take the pressure off of the situation and allow everyone to really make the most of the experience.
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2) How To Last Longer
No one wants to finish quickly during a threesome (you know, unless you’re a girl and can finish over and over again).
To keep your erection lasting longer, slow down or stop right before finishing, to slow down your blood flow so you can go again.
3) How To Go Multiple Rounds
A threesome is a special occasion for most people, so of course you’re going to want to be able to finish multiple times.
While you’re recovering, there are plenty of fun things you can do to her to help keep the magic alive. After finishing go down on your girlfriend or play with the second girl. The constant stimulation will quickly get you going again.
If you’re having a MFF threesome, you can even watch the girls explore one another while you recover and get worked up again.
If you’re in a MMF threesome, the guys can take turns. You might even enjoy watching someone else with your girlfriend. If not, you can sit behind her head and tease her while you get warmed up again.
4 Amazing Positions for A Threesome (Plus The ONE Key to Making Sure She’s Down to Have a Threesome Again)
Not sure what goes where during a threesome? Adding extra bodies to your bed can make for an interesting jumble of limbs. Here are some of my favorite positions for having a threesome that keeps everyone involved.
1) The Double Cowgirl – MFF
For this hot position, you’ll lay on your back, while one girl climbs on top of you, stradling your penis. The second girl will kneel over your face (facing girl #1) giving you easy access for oral. This position also makes it easy for both girls to make out and explore each other, if they want to.
This is one of the easiest threesome positions for beginners to master.
2) Doggy Train – MFF
If your girl is a little nervous about you having sex with another girl, this position could work out well, if she’s open to exploring. It’s similar to doggy style, since you’ll enter her from behind. The second girl will also go down on all fours, giving your girlfriend the opportunity to perform oral on her or maybe just explore her body using her fingers.
This is one of the best threesome positions for those more up for exploration.
3) High Five – MMF
A great position for two guys who want very little interaction with one another is the high five. Have the girl kneel on all fours while one guy enters her from behind. The second guy kneels in front and faces her, letting her give him a blowjob.
This is a hot threesome position that’s great for breaking the ice in an MMF threesome.
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4) Double Stuff – MMF
If she’s open to exploring anal, this position is a great way for everyone to have fun. One guy will lay flat on his back, while the girl climbs on top of him. The second guy will kneel on the bed, positioning himself behind the girl, for easy anal access.
This is one of the kinkiest threesome positions to try once everyone is warmed up.
How To Have a Threesome Safely
I get it – talking about safe sex can be a bit of a drag, but it’s so important.
And when you’re adding a new partner, you’ll definitely want to make sure everyone is as safe as possible.
Start off by making sure everyone has gotten tested recently. Remember, even though you and your partner might know you’re clean, the third person might want some reassurance, just like you do!
Next, discuss condoms and birth control so everyone feels comfortable with the game plan.
Even if a girl’s on birth control, she might feel better if both guys use condoms.
Just make sure you discuss all possibilities (including guy-on-guy action) so you know exactly what everyone wants to feel safe while you’re having a threesome.
And ultimately, one of the best parts of having a threesome?
More orgasms, baby!
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How To Give Any Woman (Or Women!) An “Addictive” Orgasm…
There’s one type of orgasm that makes me almost “addicted” to you… us girls in the industry call it the “Addictive Orgasm.” (Not the most original name, I know…)
Let me tell you about the first “Addictive Orgasm” I ever had:
I was riding him cowgirl-style (my fav position)… the sweat dripping down my forehead stung my eyes, but the building pleasure kept pulling me forward…
My eyes met his, and he said: “Let me try something….”
He pushed me down on the bed (Mmmm)… and then a sensation washed over my body…what was he doing to me? Something new…weird…And I wanted MORE of it.
F—! I couldn’t take it any more…the pleasure shut down my mind…OMG, I was there. It was happening.
Why had I never felt like this before? Was every other guy I’d been with missing something?
The answer is sadly, “Yes.”
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