My “MMA Secret” to Fearlessly Approach & Attract the Woman You Want

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How to Meet Women Without Facing Rejection Or Anxiety–Will You Come Out a Winner Tonight?

Talking to women is like getting in a fight.

I know it sounds crazy — but when you think about it, it’s actually true.

It has nothing to do with violence…

Or confrontation…

And it doesn’t even have to do with “going up against her” or whatever…

But today, I’m going to explain why getting into one kind of mindset will help you fearlessly approach & meet more women.

The Strange Connection Between MMA Fighters & Meeting Beautiful Women…

A lot of guys — well, mainly young guys and kung-fu fans — seem to think that the key to doing well in a fight has to do with technique.

Bruce Lee, or Jet Li, or Chow Yun Fat or whoever have some seriously swift moves.

Their skills are amazing, and their reflexes are incredible.

Strength, they also think, is a big part of success in a battle. Big strong hands and tight steely muscles will mean that his moves will have more power than his opponent…

Right?

It’s true that all of these things matter. I can’t deny that.

But meeting women is not about experts facing off.

In this care, the real “expert” is the attractive woman. She’s spent more than 10,000 hours reading guys for weaknesses. She weeds out the wimps.

So in a real life scenario, like when you’re not facing a skilled or professional fighter, but just defending yourself in a bar…

Or intimidating some guy hitting on your girlfriend…

Then your skillset takes a backseat to something way more important and almost 80% more pivotal.

What is it?

The willingness to get hurt.

The #1 Thing Expert Fighters Have in Common With Dating Experts…

I actually know guys who are professional fighters and fight trainers.

So if I ask them what’s the key — what’s the first thing a guy should learn when it comes to fighting? — I’ll be honest: They probably wouldn’t say, “The willingness to get hurt.”

But if I compare them and look at:

a) What they do have in common with other regular guys, and…

b) What they do not have in common with regular guys…

It’s this one main thing: They don’t mind getting hurt.

You might assume that as a professional fighter, they get hurt less because they’re skilled, or tough, or competent.

However, the truth is that they are comfortable with getting hurt. It’s their number one advantage.

I listen to non-fighters talk about what they would do in a fight and how it would go down… and then I realize I’m listening to a client.

It’s sort of like when my clients talk about meeting and approaching a girl.

Can you see the parallel?

The key skill in meeting women — in finding that ideal woman for you — is the willingness to be rejected.

It’s not as important as the willingness to get hurt — in fact, it’s probably more important.

Why Willing to Be Rejected Will Help You Get the Girl in the End

Similar to skilled fighters, you’d think that an expert is going to face less rejection.

Women just open up easier to experts, right?

The truth, though, is that without that willingness to be rejected, women would never open up to me like they do.

Here’s why facing the rejection is the reason that women find men attractive:

If women are good at anything — and I’m talking about women who have tons of experience being approached — it’s reading the kind of man they are dealing with.

In fact, women are notoriously useless at understanding what a man wants, or what they want themselves…

But they are exceptional at recognizing when a man is afraid of them.

And if they sense that fear, then it’s a huge turn-off.

It Doesn’t End There…

If you’re scared of rejection, then you probably try to please her when you approach her — and to her, that only feels like cowardice.

She doesn’t want to necessarily reject you, but she’ll think less of you because of your inherent fear.

If, on the other hand, you are willing to be rejected (not trying to be rejected, just accepting of it), then you will think less before speaking — which comes across as more spontaneous to her.

Because the truth is, much more important than the quality of what you say to a woman is the impression that you just thought of it. This makes her think that you’re not trying to impress her.

For a woman, since she is not reading your technique so much as your personality, your willingness to be rejected is the attractive feature you can bring to her. She sees it and is drawn to it.

If you take, in fact, a willingness to be rejected into a room, you won’t have to talk to the woman in question for her to recognize it and notice you.

It all boils down to having balls.

The Difference Between Having “Balls” & Being a Jerk (And How to Avoid Scaring Her Away)

A good friend once told me, “Women are looking for Balls – the reason they end up with A**holes or D**ks is because they’re so close.”

This is kind of funny, but it gets right to the point.

One of the big demonstrations that your willingness to be rejected is the key “skillset” you need is that you probably are often confused about the man a woman chooses to beg for attention.

“Why does she try so hard with him when I’m right here — and I know I could treat her better…. than he can??”

The answer is almost always tied up with the fact that he doesn’t seem to care as much as other guys that she likes him.

Am I telling you to try to overnight become a jerk? No.

So how do you show her your strong and masculine “ballsiness”?

Here’s something that’s been working well for me lately:

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My Simple “Instant Balls” Solution

When I need “instant balls”… I do one simple thing that practically rejection-proofs conversations I have with women:

I avoid the girls who are going to reject me… and focus on the ones who are already into me.

How do I tell the difference? I look for these 7 subtle “Attraction Indicators.”

These indicators let me know right away if a woman’s into me or not… and then I can usually just move closer to her…

And most of the time, she’ll strike up a conversation with me.

No wondering what to say… no sweat-inducing anxiety… and no worrying about rejection…

Just a lot more women who say “yes”… all the way through, “wanna go back to my place?”

You can check them out here:

Discover the 7 “Attraction Indicators” That Reveal the Women Who Want You…

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