How To Pick Up Girls in Movie Theaters–Will You Get Lucky After the Credits Roll?
Meeting women in “the wild” seems to be a constant predicament.
When you’re in public, so are they… however, it’s often more difficult than it should be to get a conversation going with a beautiful stranger.
First, you have to get over any anxiety you might have about approaching her. And if you can get past that, it’s a matter of where to even meet her.
Of course, the easy answer is “everywhere,” because wherever you go, women are probably going to be around too.
Take the movies, for example — tons of women go to the movies every day.
But how do you expect to approach, or have an engaging conversation, with a woman when you’re sitting in a dark room?
The truth is, if you’re aware of your surroundings, opportunities are everywhere in movie theaters.
So today, with the help of some advice from an expert, I’m going to show you exactly how to pick up girls in movie theaters.
Why The Movies Are the Most Underrated Place to Meet Women
Gotham Club expert David Dupree offers up movie theaters as one of the best possible places to meet women.
And that’s because there are all sorts of women there, with all kinds of different looks and personalities.
But once you see a woman you’re interested in, what should you do?
Like David says, don’t overthink it — remember, people are people. This includes women.
For instance, say there’s a woman alone in the theater — where she is doesn’t matter. Whether she’s sitting in the lobby or in her seat is just a matter of circumstance.
If the two of you make eye contact, what will you do?
If you answered anything that can be summed up by not talking to her, that’s your first mistake.
Is she on a date? Waiting for friends? You don’t know, right?
That’s OK. Whatever she’s doing, here are 4 different ways to approach & start talking to a woman at the movie theater.
1) The “Line” to Show Her Ultimate Confidence
First, smile at her — don’t be afraid to be a little forward.
Then say, “If he’s 10 minutes late, you can always come on a date with me.”
Sure, it’s a little presumptuous; however, it shows a lot of initiative.
Plus, it shows that you’re a really confident guy who isn’t afraid of taking the reins. And if you’re right, she could also see you as intuitive and sensitive.
And if she doesn’t respond?
Just play if off as a joke by saying that you don’t take women to see whatever movie you’ve got a ticket for.
2) The “Line” to Show Her Your Playful Side
You can also take it to a playful extreme.
When you make eye contact with her, regardless of where you are, take account of her facial expression.
Is she smiling? Perfect.
Ask her, “Can you do me a favor? Can you stop smiling at me?”
Yeah, it might seem hokey… but don’t worry about that.
To a woman, it’s harmless, sweet, and gives her exactly the kind of moment she might be in a movie theater to experience — the “meet cute.”
3) What To Do if She Doesn’t Respond
Of course, there’s always a chance she won’t respond to what you say to her.
If that’s the case, immediately follow your line up with something like:
“I’m trying to psych myself up for the movie, but your smile just derails me. Every time I see it, I have to start all over.”
Then laugh, walk away and head back to wherever you were.
If, on the other hand, she’s inviting and responsive… then continue to engage.
Change your seat…
Compare tickets…
Do something to keep that connection strong.
Ultimately, if she keeps looking at or engaging with you, then you can be pretty sure she’s interested. Otherwise, move on.
4) My Genre Trick to Get the Conversation Going
Don’t forget: it’s the movies!
Don’t be afraid to grab hold of the thrills and genre conventions and use them to your advantage.
A fun game to play is one where you try to guess what movie a woman you’ve got your eye on is seeing (and it’s super easy if you’re waiting outside a particular theater).
Take horror movies, for example. You could even phrase it as a question:
“Why do women like horror so much?”
After some engagement and conversation, you can throw in, “It’s because you know you’re safe. I get it–you want to feel that anxiety.”
If you’re with a woman who’s more keen on drama, on the other hand, comment on her complexity.
Be expressive when you introduce yourself — gesture a lot with your hands, and smile a lot.
It Doesn’t End There…
And finally, how do you follow up after the movie is over?
Once everybody’s tucked away nice and safe in their respective theaters and the lights go down, you’re certain never to see her again, right?
Wrong. If you’re in the same theater, she should be easy to find.
Other theaters are trickier, but if you know which movie she saw, then it becomes a lot easier.
The easiest thing to do after the movie ends is to ask her what she thought of the movie. Something like, “Are you still trembling and jumpy?” works for a horror movie…
Or, “Is your heart still pounding for the star-crossed lovers?”
Or even, “What did you think of that twist at the end?” could be enough to strike up a compelling conversation.
The important thing is that you ask your questions rhetorically — that way, if you don’t get an answer, you can keep going after a small pause.
And once she’s talking to you, it’s time to figure out if she’s really into you or not.
Here’s how:
Have You Heard of a Woman’s “Sexual Subtitles”?
I know that us girls aren’t always easy to figure out… (especially because we’re so easily distracted LOL)…
…which can make talking to us feel a lot like watching a foreign film with no subtitles.
However, just like every foreign film has subtitles to help you understand it better… every woman has “Sexual Subtitles” to help you understand her true level of sexual interest in you.
They’re these subtle body language clues, that we give off when we’re sexually attracted to you… and once you can spot them, you’ll know pretty much right away:
“Is she really into me… or not?”
Because most girls have been taught by society & the media to “hide” their sexual desire… we don’t really like to flat-out say when we’re interested in you… which is where these “sexual subtitles” come in:
They allow you to skip over the small talk… stop wondering if she’s just “being nice”… and find out, once & for all, if she’s secretly hoping you’d ask her out (or more). 😉
There are 7 of these “sexual subtitles” in all… from her hair to her feet (seriously!), here’s what to look for on your next night out:
