86% of Women Say First Date Sex Is More Likely When You Do THIS

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How to Plan a First Date That Will Make Her Chase You All the Way Back to Your Place…

“Should I try to have sex with her on a first date?”

A lot of men shy away from trying to take a woman home on the first date…

And this happens for a number of reasons.

You might think she’ll question your opinion of her or her “virtuousness”…

Or you feel like you’ll be putting too much pressure on her…

Or she’ll be so offended by the implications that she’ll run for the hills…

But the truth is that she might want to go home with you!

As GC dating expert Glenn Pearce has showed you before, you increase your odds of landing a second date with her exponentially if you take her home on the first date.

But how do you know if she wants to go home with you? And if she does want that, how can you maximize your chances of taking her home?

One recent study might have the answer…and it’s way simpler than you might think.

What it all comes down to is where you take her.

The “Secret Spot” You Should Take Her on a First Date…

The study, conducted by IllicitEncounters.com, surveyed 1,000 people about their drinking, dating, and sexual habits.

What they found is that 86% of women are more likely to engage in sexual behavior after drinking alcohol.

That means that if you want to maximize your chances of taking her home (and landing a second date)…

You should take her to a bar!

The survey also revealed that 75% of women will like you more after they’ve been drinking.

Now, there’s a lot of controversy surrounding alcohol and consensual sex, so before we go any further, let’s address that.

As a woman, I can tell you that nothing is more repulsive than when a man is obviously trying to get me drunk and take advantage of me.

Women know when you try and do this. I never, under any circumstances, advocate you trying to get a woman blackout drunk so you can take her home.

However…

From a physiological standpoint, an appropriate amount of alcohol can lower both you and your date’s inhibitions, making you feel better about yourselves and each other.

You don’t need “beer goggles” to desire a consensual sexual experience. But, as this survey shows, a little bit of booze certainly doesn’t hurt.

There are clear, specific steps you can take to make sure she feels comfortable on your date without getting her drunk and getting yourself into trouble — here’s what they are:

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3 Things You Can Do to Maximize Your Odds of Taking Her Home on the First Date

1) Mirror her drinking habits.

It’s true that, on average, men are capable of holding their alcohol better than women. However, now is not your time to show off your ability to chug four Jagerbombs in a span of 10 minutes.

When you mirror a woman’s body language, she will naturally feel closer to you. Similarly, when you mirror your date’s pace of drinking, she will feel more connected to you.

She also won’t feel “left behind” by your high alcohol tolerance — after all, no woman wants to throw her sloppy first date in a cab.

So if she orders a glass of wine and you get a beer, try and monitor her pace and match it.

If you finish your beer before she finishes her wine, get a water!

She’ll be doubly impressed by your maturity, and she might even encourage you to go ahead and order another beer. Only then is it OK for you to get ahead of her on drinks.

2) Set a drink limit of 3-5 drinks.

Another recent poll by Glow revealed that almost half of women require four to six drinks to feel “drunk.”

Now, every woman you go on dates with is going to have a slightly different tolerance. But remember that you are NOT trying to get her drunk.

You want to use alcohol as a social lubricant — as a way for her to feel closer and more open to you, and as an outlet for both of you to have a fun time together.

Here is what you do not want to do:

  • Go shot for shot with her at a dive bar…
  • Visit 10 different bars in a single date…
  • Drink all night without eating anything…
  • Ignore the fact that she might be getting drunk…

It’s possible that your date will drink too much if you take her out.

In this case, you do not want to take her home.

Remember, your goal is to maximize your chances of having a consensual sexual experience. Not to give her an experience you’ll both regret the next morning.

Drunk sex is rarely better than sober sex, so remember that there’s a balance you have to observe and maintain. If things get out of control, own up to it.

For both of you to open up and lower your inhibitions, a good number of drinks to stick by is somewhere between three and five. If you notice she starts slurring her words after two drinks, encourage her to have some water or order some appetizers for you to share.

Similarly, if she’s fine after four drinks, have a fifth one and call it a night. Observe her behavior to make sure you’re both on the same page.

3) Have the date on a Saturday.

That same poll I mentioned above also showed that the most common day for women to drink is Saturday. So if you want her to say “Yes” to a first date at a bar, your best bet is to plan the date on a Saturday.

And here’s a bonus benefit: If your date goes badly, you can just drop her off and go check out another bar! Chances are you’ll find more single women drinking there.

What This Study Is Actually Saying…

While all of the tips I mentioned will maximize your odds of taking a woman home on the first date…

There’s no guaranteeing she’ll be down for it.

The survey indicated that 86% of women said sex is more likely — not that it will definitely happen — after drinking.

Additionally, the survey was conducted by IllicitEncounters.com, a dating site for married people (like Ashley Madison).

The people surveyed are most likely in unsatisfying marriages and are likely to be experiencing frustration in their sex lives.

That means that they may be more open to sexual encounters on a date than the average person.

While the Glow survey supports the data found in the IllicitEncounters survey, it’s important to keep this in mind on your date.

Don’t automatically expect your date to go home with you if you take her out to a bar and follow all of my tips.

But if you are lucky enough to take her home, I have one more piece of advice for you…

What to Do When You Take Her Home…

Getting her to go home with you is a huge accomplishment on a first date.

This will strengthen her emotional attachment to you, which means she’ll be much more likely to ask you out for a second date…

But only if you satisfy her in bed.

If you can’t touch her in the clear, specific ways she’s dying to be touched, then it doesn’t matter how good the first date went — she’ll ditch you.

More and more women today are embracing their sexuality — one way they do this is by getting “happy ending” massages.

Rather than risk going home with a man and having a less-than-great experience, they’d rather shell out hundreds — and sometimes thousands — of dollars to guarantee that they’ll be given pleasure.

Well, what if I told you there’s something that these masseuses do that you can do to guarantee her pleasure every time?

The truth is that many women often go months without being touched…

So if you know exactly the right places to touch her at the right times, then you’ll have power over her like you can’t even imagine.

If you want to fully understand how, when, and why to touch a woman to ignite her desire for you, then you need to check this out.

Just click here now to find out the secrets to why touching a woman in all the right ways will keep her coming back to you for more and more…

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