How To Turn a Woman on With Touch & Get Her in Bed the Same Night You Meet Her–Without Ever Risking Rejection…
Touching a woman for the first time can feel a lot like walking on a tightrope.
You almost have to test out what kind of touches are OK and what touches she’s not ready for.
However, with the right tricks up your sleeve, it’s not as complicated as it sounds.
Hi, I’m David Dupree, and every week I’m answering one of the most difficult, burning questions guys have when it
comes to sex & dating.
And today, I’m answering this one:
“How can you touch a girl without being creepy?”
Catch The Full Video Transcript Below…
Today I’m going to talk about how to touch a woman without it being creepy. Creepy is a big thing to try to get over for men, especially masculine men.
In fact, the men that have fewer problems with taking action are actually at a bigger risk of coming off as “creepy.”
However, it’s something every guy should know how to avoid.
So with that in mind, here are my best tips to touch a woman without coming off as “creepy.”
1) Mirror Her Negative Body Language
The number thing you can do to hide and remove creepiness is to mirror negative body language.
If you come near, and she backs up, you back up. Match her actions.
When I say negative body language, though, I don’t mean her facial expression or her words.
Don’t mirror if she goes, “Ew.” If she makes grimaces, don’t grimace.
After that though, if she crosses her arms, you cross your arm. She backs up, you back up. If she turns away, you turn away more. Keep talking, but turn away even more.
Which brings me to my next tip…
2) Testing Touch
The easiest way to escalate with a woman without coming across as creepy is to not focus on how you’re touching her.
For example, if I turn away when I touch her, she doesn’t feel it the same.
If I stare at my hand while I touch her, on the other hand, she’s going to be aware of my awareness, and that could freak her out.
It’s how, for example, you accidentally touch the wrong place because you’re not looking, and she ignores when you accidentally touch the wrong place.
3) Pay Attention
As well, if you are paying attention, really paying attention, then what you do is, when you touch you don’t stay.
If you want to learn to pay attention better, then just put your hand on her knee and leave it there too long, because when you look at her face you should be able to see a change.
When you touch her, you should see something happen, something should register. If she looks where you’re touching, for example, she is telling you that’s weird, somethings wrong.
So, if you pay attention then you know when you’re doing wrong and then you can adjust your touch. She will teach you what is creepy and what is not.
She will also teach you how long you can stay before something is weird.
There’s an amount of touch that’s always OK. Obviously, again it depends on where, as well. Touching is entirely dependant on location.
Touching her also depends on how you do it–here’s what I mean:
4) Overt Vs. Covert Touching
Overt touch is basically a touch you do in a very clear and visual way.
Then there’s covert touch, where, for example, if I touch the small of a woman’s back while we’re walking to our dinner table.
The difference is, a woman will sometimes let “more” happen with covert touching, whereas you have to be a little more careful with overt touching.
Obviously, you don’t want to grab her a** in a fancy restaurant on your first date… but if your fingers accidentally slip, because you aren’t looking where you’re touching, then she’s more likely to allow it.
But beyond that, where should you even touch her?
There are 3 “secret” areas most guys don’t know about… here’s what they are:
Bonus: Her 3 Secret Erogenous Zones
A while back… before I knew about these 3 secret spots to touch a woman to turn her on, I’m not going to lie. I had no idea what I was doing.
When I was out, I’d see other guys take home women they had just met within minutes.
But whenever I would try to improvise with a girl I just met…
I’d get the worst possible reaction. She’d either squirm (like she was really uncomfortable) or worse, she’d just walk away.
It straight up sucked.
What was I doing wrong???
It wasn’t until I learned about these 3 secret erogenous zones from my old friend Magic…that things started looking up.
The next time I went out, I tried this touch technique on a sexy blonde. Almost immediately, she shot me a kinky smile and I could feel her fingers inch up my thigh.
After only touching 2 of the 3 secret zones, she was pulling me in a cab to go to her place. And from there… well… you can figure out what happened 😉
Check out how to trigger a woman’s secret erogenous zones here: