Can a Drug Make Her Fall in Love With You? Here’s the Surprising Truth…
There’s a pill for everything.
High blood pressure? Here’s a pill.
Low sex drive? Here’s another pill.
Crippling anxiety? Here are three more pills!
Have a bad case of unrequited lust or love?
One new study reveals that there might soon be a “pill” for that too…
But is this “love drug” too good to be true? And if it’s legit, when can you actually use it to make her yours?
The Ugly Truth About “Love Drugs”
The idea behind these “love drugs” all boils down to one fundamental concept:
If you can replicate the physical symptoms of “falling in love,” the person experiencing those symptoms will actually begin to fall in love with you.
Basically, what this means is that if you can make her feel like she’s falling in love when you’re with her…
Then she’ll fall in love with you for real.
This Is Your Brain in Love…
When you fall in love, there’s a lot going on in your body, and specifically in your brain.
Your brain releases oxytocin, which is a hormone that creates the strong sensation of bonding and intimacy with your partner.
The oxytocin released in your brain interacts with a neurotransmitter called dopamine, which activates a sensation of “reward” and creates the “addiction” many people experience when they’re first falling in love.
All of this culminates in a sense of elation and euphoria when you’re with that other person. And this sensation is often compared to an “ecstasy high.”
Because of this, many people believe that MDMA — the purest form of ecstasy — is something of a “love drug” and can emotionally connect two people when they take it together.
More recently, scientists have been studying the effects of intranasal oxytocin spray as a more direct (and legal) “love drug,” which is exactly what it sounds like: liquid oxytocin that you spray up your nose.
And while the effects of the spray have been proven to be highly effective in lowering social anxiety, decreasing marijuana cravings, and even making people nicer…
Its power to make two people fall in love has yet to be scientifically proven.
“What’s Really Going on Here?”
It’s easy to understand all of the excitement over these alleged “love drugs.”
After all, if they really work, it means that you can make the girl of your dreams fall head over heels for you…
Just by using something that’s barely discernable from an allergy spray you can buy at your local convenience store.
So I did some of my own digging to figure out if anybody’s gotten this spray to make a woman fall in love with them.
I looked at all 81 reviews of OxyLuv Oxytocin Nasal Spray on Amazon, and here’s what I found…
The average rating is 3 stars out of 5.
Of all 81 reviews, 46% of them indicate a positive experience and noticeable difference.
Conversely, 36% noticed no difference or a negative difference, and 18% were uncertain or didn’t specify.
Of the indicated uses, most of the reviewers bought it for anxiety, stress, or depression, and only 3.7% indicated using it for their own marriage or relationship.
However, there were some promising reviews in that department:
One reviewer said, “[My partner and I] have a good relationship already, but it helps bonding us even more naturally. It would be good to use when we are fighting or arguing.”
And another said, “In terms of romantic connection it hasn’t made much of a difference, although the feeling of contentment and relaxation can help facilitate…adult relations.”
Now, let me be clear: What I’ve just presented to you is not the same as conducting a randomized trial to determine whether or not these nasal sprays really work.
This nasal spray is one of many currently on the market, and many of the reviewers indicated that they were given a discount in exchange for their honest review.
So even though they were asked to be honest, they might be more inclined to give a positive review out of guilt for receiving a discount.
But at the end of it all, I did uncover two interesting pieces of information that can potentially help you…
When “Love Drugs” Might Actually Work…
I’m not going to advise you to take MDMA to help the girl of your dreams fall in love with you. It’s illegal and has been proven to wreak havoc on your brain.
But there are two cases when using intranasal oxytocin spray might just work for your love and sex life.
1) You Want to Reignite the Spark
If you’re currently in a relationship and feel bored, unwanted, or just “blah,” it straight up sucks.
You’ve invested all of this time in your partner, and your lives are so intertwined that leaving her feels downright impossible.
Instead of spending thousands on couples therapy or stewing quietly until one of you explodes, try experimenting with intranasal oxytocin spray!
As the reviews above state, it’s been shown to help with feelings of “contentment and relaxation,” and it can work to dissipate feelings of tension between two people.
So no, it’s not going to make you “fall in love all over again,” but it can make your interactions more pleasant. And when your interactions are more pleasant, then it will be much easier for you to feel more in love with your partner.
2) You Want to Get Out of the Friend Zone
There are several unique and proven strategies to get out of the friend zone…
However, most of them take a lot of work on your end.
So can intranasal oxytocin spray do all of the work for you?
Yes and no.
When used for anxiety and depression, the oxytocin spray can make you feel happier, more focused, more relaxed, and more in tune with the world.
In fact, one reviewer mentioned using the spray to lower his stress…
But as an unexpected benefit, it improved his marriage because his lower stress levels made him a better partner!
It’s pretty clear why you can’t just give this spray to a girl you want to get out of the friend zone with.
The ethics of administering a spray to someone against her will are questionable — at best.
But if you take the spray yourself…
It might make you more open, and if she picks up on your open and relaxed vibe, she might just see you in a whole new light.
So if you want to use the spray to get out of the friend zone, here’s a 2-step plan to get there:
1) Do your research.
Find a spray that has been proven to contain oxytocin. Shop around, and maybe buy a few different ones.
Because these sprays are not FDA-regulated, it’s important to shop smart.
2) Follow this “recipe.”
It turns out there’s a “secret ingredient” missing from many friendships that’s proven to ignite a romantic spark.
So if you can follow a clear, specific “recipe” of instructions, then you can alter how your relationship with her develops — and that means you can get out of the friend zone!
I was kinda skeptical when I first heard about it (that’s just the scientist in me), so I had one of my guy friends, Evan, try it out.
Evan reads Gotham Club religiously, so he was stoked when I told him about my idea. And he had just the girl in mind…
They had been friends for years, and she was literally the “girl next door” growing up.
For the past couple years, she was in a relationship, but she’s newly single, and Evan really wanted to test the waters with her.
So I had him follow this “recipe.”
The “ingredients” are simple: They’re subtle actions you take to create a romantic, sexual vibe without overwhelming her or making her think you’re forcing anything.
And when he looked at her in this specific way…
Or initiated conversations like this…
It drove her crazy. In fact, I’m friends with her, and she was texting me the entire night saying things like,
“Don’t freak out, but I think I have a thing for Evan…”
And,
“Would it be bad if I invited him back to my place tonight?”
I was so shocked at how quickly it worked! In a matter of hours, Evan had her dying to get with him — the guy she’s never seen as more than “just a friend.”
So here’s what to do: Click here to learn this insanely effective “recipe,” and you’ll have the power to make her yours without any kind of “magic oxytocin spray”…
