You might be wondering who, first of all, would walk up to a woman:
In a grocery store…
At a crowded public park…
In a Duane Reade, CVS or another convenience store…
And try and talk to her?
There are two key skills that provide men who approach women during the day with the confidence to go for it:
1) High levels of social freedom
Social freedom describes your ability to depart from the social norms.
Men who have high levels of social freedom aren’t inhibited by any social norms (AKA only meeting women at night or on the weekends). These men operate independently and act when they feel it’s right.
Just like these men aren’t afraid to act when they feel it’s right, they’re also excellent at recognizing exactly when “right” is. They see a woman out during the day and instantly know she’ll be receptive to their approach.
And because they have high levels of social freedom, they go for it right away.
These aren’t skills you can develop overnight, but if you work on them little by little, my approach technique I’m about to show you will work like straight up voodoo.
And here’s the second important thing to understand:
I’ve been meeting women at night and during the day for the past 10 years, and I can tell you with 100% certainty that you will never meet the quality of women at night that you can during the day.
A Taste of the Women Daytime Has to Offer…
The women you meet during the day will absolutely blow awaythe types of women you typically meet at night.
Now, I’m not saying meeting women at bars isn’t fun…
After all, I love the energy of nighttime, and I love that I can meet a woman and potentially take her home almost immediately…
But at night, it’s a bit of a crapshoot. And you can’t be sure that the women you meet will actually add any value to your life if things get serious.
During the day, on the other hand, I’ve met some of the most intriguing and motivated women NYC has to offer.
Sarah was dressed like every other motivated woman during the day — in a business suit. I approached her in Madison Square Park using this technique and instantly got her talking to me.
Her fresh-faced makeup revealed her naturally gorgeous complexion (something women at night can easily hide in a dark club…) and a figure that even the boxiest suit couldn’t hide.
She was only in town for two weeks and was so motivated to move her career forward that she never went out at night.
You see, I never would have met Sarah if I had gone out at night!
Instead, because I approached her during the day, I had a hot-as-f— weeklong fling that ended with a promise to get in touch if either of us was in the other’s town again.
The entire interaction was clean, simple and easy.
Megan
I was instantly drawn to Megan as soon as I saw her shopping in Whole Foods.
She had a natural energy about her that I probably would have missed if it was night and we were in a bar or club. Plus, she was looking pretty hot in those yoga pants.
I walked up to her, used my technique, and within 5 minutes flat I got her number and a date for that same night.
She was so caught off guard that she decided to be open-minded and take a chance with me. And honestly, she was one of the most sexually open women I’ve ever met.
The women you meet during the day might not be entirely prepared for your approach…
But that doesn’t mean they don’t want it to happen.
Why Starbucks Is Your Secret Weapon…
What I’m about to show you is a very easy and safe way you can startmeeting women during the day, and this method is pretty much rejection-proof!
Now, when I say “rejection-proof,” what I mean is that it will 100% get you into a conversation with any woman.
I’m not saying that you can sleep with her or get her phone number right away as a result…
But it will open up the door to let you start having conversations with women whenever and wherever you want!
In fact, when I first began testing this method, I met 13 women as intriguing as Megan and Sarah in the span of just a few hours! It really is that simple.
So what the hell does Starbucks have to do with it?
Next time you see a pretty woman you’d like to meet, simply walk up to her and say:
You: Excuse me. Do you know where I can find a good cup of coffee?
Her: Starbucks (They almost always say Starbucks)
You: Starbucks??? I said a good cup of coffee (Challenging her in a flirtatious way)
Her: Laughs and thinks about where she can send you (Maybe she says a place, but it doesn’t really matter because she’s just continuing the flirtatious interaction)
You: Great, thanks!
You: Sorry, one more quick question… My little niece is coming next week to visit me, and I know she’s going to want me to take her to the movies. Can you recommend a chick flick? (You’re making her feel useful by introducing a topic she’s probably knowledgeable about.)
Her: Laughs and says a few movies (This always works.)
You: Ask her a few questions about the movie she mentions or make fun of her for not knowing what movies are playing…
Basically, this is your chance to keep the conversation going. And to do that, you should try and read her so you can bring up one of her interests as the next topic of conversation.
So how exactly do you do that?
Look at what she’s wearing…
Pay attention to the energy she gives off…
Notice if she’s carrying a briefcase, books, or another kind of bag…
And use this information to find something that is likely true about her. If you can’t find anything, make something general up that appeals to women universally.
Here’s an Example…
When your conversation about movies peters out, you could say:
You: Why do I get the impression that you do yoga? (If she’s wearing yoga pants.)
You: You seem like the type of person that really takes care of herself, are you a vegan? (If she’s wearing workout clothes, is clearly fit or carrying a salad.)
You: You have great style. I have the feeling that you’re in fashion?! (If she looks extra polished.)
You: Are you new in town? (If you can’t come up with anything else.)
Basically, this is your excuse to keep the conversation going… and if you can read her in exactly the right way, you’ll have no problem at all eventually getting her number (or even more).
How this Innocent Opener Translated Into a Night of Unbelievable Sex!
So I was in my neighborhood the other day, walking down the street, checking girls out…
…when I came across this one girl who absolutely stole my attention from anything else going on.
She was just my type: long black hair…
Tight, washed out t-shirt hiding her awesome curves…
Really short, leather skirt that showed off her long, perfect legs…
And even though she was wearing a face mask, I could see she had beautiful eyes.
I was about 30 feet away, but I knew I had to approach her, since I may never see her again (especially here in New York).
The only problem? Even though I’ve been with hundreds of women…
I still don’t like being rejected any more than you do.
So now before I approach any woman I see on the street, I do something I should’ve started doing a long time ago:
And since I don’t have to worry about her brushing me off, I can focus on being in the moment, noticing things about her, and just having fun with her!
So I looked at her…
And noticed she was making “long eye contact” with me…
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