How To Handle Mixed Signals From A Girl So You “Turn The Tables” & Get Her Chasing YOU…
Hey it’s Magic, one of Gotham Club’s experts.
So in this video today, I'm going to talk about what to do when you get mixed signals from a girl.
I’m going to tell you how to identify mixed signals from a girl, and then understand why she's playing hard to get.
We’ll then explore what your choices are and how you can handle the situation.
So with that, let's get started.
Catch The Full Video Transcript Below…
In my experience, there are three types of women who play hard to get.
There are many different situations in which a woman plays hard to get, so sometimes it can be difficult to tell what they really desire.
Here are the three types:
1) Attention Magnets
The first type of woman is just a woman who wants attention.
She wants a man she cannot have.
So she might flirt with you… but the minute you start to show her attention, she will back off.
And then once you back off, she will come back.
This type of woman does not want to take it to the next level.
The second type of woman who likes to play hard to get is someone who is genuinely interested in you.
She is genuinely attracted to you and wants to talk to you.
However, maybe you came on a little too strong… and that scared her and so she backed off.
So it's not that she wanted to play games, but she just got scared off for some reaso. And so she decided to pull back.
Sometimes this may come across like she's playing hard to get, but in reality, she just wants to slow things down.
And that's why she has taken a step back.
3) The Timid Ones
The third type of woman that plays hard to get is a woman who has had a bad experience in the past.
So when you flirt with her, ask her out on a date, send her a text message, whatever… she's always trying to be very slow with the responses.
She's very careful.
She's just not willing to commit but hasn’t quite completely backed off.
But she's also not taking a step forward.
These are the three situations where you might be met with a woman who is playing hard to get.
The first one is very obviously just wanting attention.
The other two are purely mixed signals. You can usually get these women in bed.
What Not To Do When She’s Playing Hard To Get (ESPECIALLY If She's Just Shy)…
One thing that's very important, is this woman should never feel like you're a player.
She should just know that you're cool…
You're not going to push her or pressure her… and syou're not going to chase her, but you're also not running away.
And what I mean by that is, if you're talking to her and then you start talking to your friend to give her some space, this should not come across like you're hitting on your friend now.
She should not see you flirting with someone else, because then she will think you're not serious about her.
This is because she is serious about you and she likes you.
It's just that she got scared.
How To Maintain Her Comfort Level So She Lets Her Guard Down…
Basically, you have to maintain her comfort level.
Someone who is already playing hard to get will also be very careful on an actual date.
So if you go on the date and you try to kiss her, she might give you a quick pat to not to be rude.
But then she might back off.
She might tell you, “Hey, I don't do this on the first date, I take things slowly.”
All those things are not playing hard to get.
It's just that she needs more time to relax around you.
One of the things I find works best in that situation is to show her some vulnerability.
If I see a woman is having a hard time trusting me, I try to share something from my life.
I share something that might be embarrassing for me, something that I normally wouldn’t share with the average person.
They then will immediately think that if I'm bringing them into my zone and I'm sharing these very personal, intimate, embarrassing, wonderful stories… that I must trust them and I must like them or I wouldn't do that.
With a woman that is a little skittish, all you have to do is build that comfort zone where she feels okay and she no longer thinks you are a player.
Then it's no longer awkward between the two of you.
That's Not All…
So a crucial element of this is not to get emotional if you're getting mixed signals from a girl.
Don't get reactive.
Just let her do her thing.
Be cool, be calm, and make her realize that it's all okay.
Everything is going to be okay.
Worst case scenario, things don't work out and everything will be okay the minute she feels comfortable around you.
She will relax. She will open up and things will start moving forward.
So once again, you have to make her relax, you have to make her feel comfortable, and make her realize that she can continue to do this and everything will be okay.
It’s also important to remember that you chose to continue with this person.
So if you continue with this person, you have to recognize the state she's in.
And if you want to continue your relationship with her, you have to work from where she is and not where you want them to be.
So you will gradually lead ther to where you want her to be, all the while being patient and aware of her needs.
Here's the fastest technique I know to do that:
How To Blow Past Her Tests With Ease (And Get Her In Bed)…
Once you’ve decided you’re gonna push through her tests… congratulations man!
I’ve found that this is often the most “fun” part of getting a hot girl in bed for one reason:
It feels REALLY good to do this.. especially if she’s been really “distant” or “cold”…
Knowing that within a couple hours, she’ll be in your bed… naked… and screaming your name so loud it wakes up the neighbors.
And I made a video showing you EVERYTHING about it (how to do it, when to use it, and why it works so well) right here: