Discover The Best One Night Stand Tips to Get Her Back to Your Place & In Bed With You (Even If You’re Complete Strangers Right Now)…
It’s high time I introduced you to the easy game.
It’s easy because once you get the hang of it, it will be enjoyable and also a breeze.
It doesn’t take a tremendous amount of effort, and it’s extremely effective.
In fact, the reason I want to share it with you is not because it’s easy… but because it’s good.
Nothing better is easier, and nothing easier better.
It’s also the right game, and hopefully before our discussion is over you will not only understand, you will agree–and you’ll be committed to getting better and better at it.
I’m talking, of course about the “buddy” game.
What Exactly IS The “Buddy” Game? (And No, It’s Not Gaming Your Buddy)…
Let’s clarify, first off, that I’m not talking about trying to seduce your best friend.
I’m not talking about gaming your buddy–even if she is a girl.
In fact, sorry to be repetitive, but here’s the short answer to how to game your friend who’s a girl:
Your best friend may be the most amazing girl in the world (although she’s possibly not, you may really believe she is, due to a lack of comparison opportunities and experience)… but the clumsiness of this new development of confidence and charisma is too fake to throw at her, don’t you agree?
As you develop your skill and your personal power, she will start to recognize your value also and the time will come–if that’s what you want–when you will make a move on her.
But don’t “game” her.
Don’t “tell her how you feel” either. Trust me, she knows.
She is much better at reading you than you are at expressing yourself, controlling what you express, or knowing what she’s ready to hear.
I hope that little reminder will be heeded, but let’s continue on.
My Quick 5-Step Summary & How This Gets Almost Any Girl Interested In You Fast…
First a quick summary–the bullet points–and then a more detailed step-by-step instructional.
Basically, “buddy” game is where you:
1) Pretend you are her friend.
2) Talk to her like you guys have known each other for a long time.
3) Feel inside like this is a good friend and you guys get along very well.
4) Respond as though you know that no matter what you say, you know one another well enough that she will still like you no matter what you say, and…
5) You are not wearing rose-colored glasses when it comes to her.
I introduced this in a way earlier article when I discussed the opening line of, “Hey, old friend.”
That’s the mindset you are going for.
At first, it will be clumsy and difficult to convince yourself or get her to play along and so it will feel at once fraudulent and awkward.
The magic of this approach, however, is that no pretense or dishonesty is necessary. Nor is any recommended.
All you are doing is USING previous experience of talking to a female friend or family member (some people are not friendly with their family, so I default to “friend”) to encourage behavior in BOTH of you that is conducive to this meet-cute (which is woman-speak for first meeting).
There’s the theory. Now let’s put it into practice.
Here’s What That Looks Like In Action…
The way we normally start is based on the OPPOSITE of “Hello, old friend” isn’t it?
And isn’t that what makes it so, if not inneffective, then uncomfortable?
You’ll notice that when you talk to a good friend, the quality of the conversation is not even important to you. You are not nervous about saying the right thing or, more importantly for most of you, not saying the wrong thing.
Instead of a formal opening statement, like “Hi–I noticed you blah blah blah…”
Or,“Hi, I’m David…” Or, “Excuse me…” Or even fake questions, like “Are you French?” “Are you Saggitarius?”…
… you can start in media res like a good movie does–in the middle of things.
“That coat is great on you! In all the time I’ve known you, you’ve always had a gift for choosing outerwear.”
Now, I should mention that with any first words you say, the game begins AFTER your first pause. In this case, that pause is “…you!”
How does she respond? You are going to keep talking to make her awkwardness (“What am I supposed to do now!?”) dissipate.
Your smile and behavior should lead her to the responses that go along with “I know you.”
Since I gave you that verbatim line (it’s nothing canned, it’s just the first thing that came to my head) I’m going to show you how to read and manage her responses.
If she says, “Huh? Do I know you?” This means your tone or presentation or other non-verbals did not make her immediately join the game.
My suggestion would be to avoid the argument of whether or not you know each other.
“Of course! We have first period history together. Or we ride the bus together. Or we’ve known each other since we were three and you think I want more, but I’m determined to stop hitting on you because it’s putting a strain on our relationship.”
The point is NOT to memorize a bunch of lines but to act like you ALREADY make jokes with this person, you ALREADY know her inside out and she’s used to your antics as well.
You ALSO, however, need to continuously read to know if she’s getting pissed off or impatient with the game.
Not because you can’t sleep with her if she’s pissed off–quite the contrary…
But if you do want to sleep with her, then you have to follow different steps depending on how much she’s playing into the game.
Here’s what I mean:
How To Seal The Deal & Sleep With Her (Even If She’s Not Interested At First)…
Just because a woman likes you, does not mean she’s going to sleep with you.
And vice versa… just because a woman hates your guts, doesn’t mean sex is completely out of the question.
What I’m saying is whether a woman is into you or not… you can still sleep with her either way!
The key is to follow the right steps.
So if she’s into you, here’s what to do (and if she’s not into you, skip down to step 2):
1) Do NOT make any sudden moves or invite her back to your place out of nowhere…
… instead, use these 3 under-the-radar touches while you’re talking to her.
They work to quickly turn her on, so she’ll be eager to hookup with you and may even invite you back to her place… often in half an hour or less.
2) If she’s not into you… then try my mentor Magic’s 3-step “Change Her Mind Formula.”
It’s really simple and easy to use in any situation… and it works to turn the tables, and get her interested in you again sexually.
(This is true even if you totally f**ked up the game, or you think she hates your guts. I’ve seen this formula work on girls in both cases.)
And while I’ll admit it doesn’t work EVERY single time… it’s the most effective way I know to sleep with mega-hot girls who most guys assume are “out of their league.”