When it Comes to Online Dating for Men, You Have One HUGE Advantage…
The other day, one of my clients came to me with a dilemma:
“Glenn, why am I having such a hard time getting dates and meeting women online?”
Every time someone asks me this question, I have the same answer. And you probably aren’t going to like it.
The only reason you aren’t meeting more women and getting more dates is because you’re not approaching enough women in person!
Today, in 2016, your best option to meet more women is to approach them in person. In fact, I’d argue that it’s your only option if you want a successful dating life.
Online dating might feel easier…
But statistically speaking, it’s a time waster and will only increase your rejection rate.
And there are a number of reasons for this.
Why Online Dating Is a Dead End…
First I’d like to explain online dating for women in a nutshell.
For women, online dating is the answer they’ve been waiting for. It’s the cure for all of their dating failures and dilemmas!
When a woman decides to date online, she now has a chance to craft the perfect vision of what her “ideal” man will be:
His financial status…
Physique…
Age…
Lifestyle choices…
And on and on.
Because she’s given the chance to fill out a form about who she’d like to date, it’s no wonder why women refuse to settle for anything less than their “perfect” man!
After all, she gets to look and screen for her perfect mate. Her expectations are through the roof in this scenario!
She can now just sit back and wait for her dream man to “pop” into her life. (Of course, you and I know this will never happen, but most women don’t.)
And even if you do manage to get a date with a beautiful women online, the odds are still stacked against you — and that’s because beautiful women have an abundance of choices.
So just how big is her selection pool?
The HUGE Advantage Women Have Over Men in Online Dating
This might sound surprising, but the average woman on Tinder and other online dating sites gets over 100 emails and matches a day!
And that’s just the average woman.
So over the course of the week, she’s given the opportunity to meet around 700 men who have displayed an interest in her.
And if 700 sounds high, then fine, let’s take it down to 200.
Even if she’s getting just 200 emails or matches per week…
That’s still just a 1 in 200 chance you’ll get her attention — 0.5%.
Clearly, the odds are against you. If you were going to Las Vegas to gamble, would you ever play these odds?
Probably not…and yet, those 200 matches she’s getting are all guys choosing to “play” the game!
Why?
Because most men are too scared to approach women in person!
Let’s face it — it’s much easier to handle rejection online than it is in real life.
It’s less embarrassing to have your perfectly crafted email ignored than it is to put yourself on the line when you walk up to a woman…
But in reality, walking up to a woman is your best option!
The HUGE Advantage You Have Over Women in Person
Earlier, I mentioned that when women date online, they have an unrealistic set of expectations for you.
Online is where she’s looking for her “dream” man and will refuse to settle for less.
But there is one thing women want more than the “perfect” man…
Real chemistry and attraction!
And that’s the advantage you have when you approach women in person.
Think about it:
Even if you have an AMAZING email exchange with a woman online, if she meets you in person and doesn’t feel a “spark,” you’re done. And you already invested hours of your time in her.
But if you have real chemistry from the moment you meet her, all of her unrealistic “expectations” go out the window.
Here’s an example:
Let’s say a woman is dating online and decides she only wants men between the ages of 25 and 35.
If you’re 37 and send her a message online, you can kiss your chances goodbye! She won’t even read your email or look at your profile because you fall outside her rigorous set of “standards.”
But if you were to approach that SAME exact woman in person…
And you create real chemistry with her…
Then you’ll be naked and in bed with her — possibly that same night!
Why? Because women have what I call an “Emotional Blind Spot.”
Why Her “Emotional Blind Spot” Makes All the Difference…
Attraction and chemistry are the keys to keeping any woman interested in you.
When a woman feels chemistry with you, she’ll drop all of her beliefs and focus only on that chemistry — and that’s what I call her “Emotional Blind Spot.”
So what’s the reason for this seemingly crazy behavior?
Women trust their emotions, and that means that the chemistry she has with you is far more important than your age or financial status. If she has chemistry with you, it’s like signaling to her that you might be the “right” guy.
When a woman meets the “right” man, she begins to rationalize all of the reasons why she SHOULD be with him…
Rather than disqualifying him immediately because of a single flaw (like she would online).
Basically, she looks past any “deal-breakers” and convinces herself that she should be with him because that “spark” is there.
This is great news for you!
Her “Emotional Blind Spot” doesn’t just apply to age differences, either.
It can also apply to your height…
Your physical appearance…
Your political beliefs…
All out the window if she feels that chemistry with you.
And that’s because true attraction and chemistry are rare these days — especially online, where it’s impossible to tell if you’ll have chemistry with a woman until you meet her.
So if you can learn how to generate attraction and chemistry with women, it will NEVER matter what your flaws are…
You will always be able to get her!
How to Generate the Rapid and Instant Chemistry She Craves
Women like to think that chemistry and attraction are things that are just “there” — you can’t make it happen on your own.
In reality, that couldn’t be further from the truth!
You can actually make her feel that “spark” almost as soon as you meet her…
Here are a couple ways to do just that:
1) Hold eye contact with her for an extended period of time. Most guys are afraid to do this, so just by holding her eye contact instead of looking away, you’ll show her that you’re confident, and “aren’t like other guys” (like the guys she’s meeting online!).
2) Use this simple “handshake trick” to build rapid attraction. I didn’t really believe this when I first heard about it, but once I tried it, it opened up a whole new world of women for me. I can use it in line at a store, on a cute sales girl, or even at work, and no one around me can tell what I’m really doing!
But don’t just take my word for it–you can see both of these techniques in action (and a lot more tips to cleverly create this “spark” with practically any woman) right here:
My Simple Formula to Generate Chemistry With ANY Woman You Want…
