And while it’s true that hardcore sex can include these things… it can also be as simple as you and a woman enjoying each other in a new and exciting way.
Personally, I know I love having hardcore sex both on-screen and off.
However, I’ve definitely learned some pointers along the way. So I want to show you the best ways to go about initiating these super-intense sex sessions.
Here are my 3 best pointers to start experimenting with hardcore sex in the bedroom. 😉
1) Test The Waters
Unless you’re in a pretty long-term relationship, then you’re probably not going to feel comfortable just asking a woman to be “rougher” in bed.
And that’s perfectly OK!
There are a lot of ways to sort of “test the waters,” and figure out what your woman enjoys–so that you both get the most out of your hardcore sex experience.
First, start off by really setting the mood for the night.
You can play around with music…
Candles…
And even some nice mood lighting. Show her that you want to make this experience special.
From there, take your time and really “ease” her into it.
Make lots of eye contact–that’s really important. Hardcore sex can be absolutely earth-shattering with the right amount of eye contact.
And once you can tell she’s really into it, start increasing your speed and pressure.
Pay close attention to her reactions so you can know if you should go harder or not.
(For example, a lot of women are secretly into being spanked like THIS… you’ll know it’s working if she responds with “Yes, more!” Or something along those lines.)
When you first start off, it may not be the ultimate hardcore fantasy you’ve been envisioning… but it’ll feel real.
And on top of that, it will help her get more comfortable with the idea, so you can take things up a notch the next time you try it.
2) Skip The Props (& Get Into Roleplay)
When you’re just starting out with hardcore sex, it’s best to focus on the intensity–not the accessories.
You don’t need to go crazy with toys and props. In fact, they may be overwhelming for the woman in the beginning.
Instead, try to get more comfortable with hardcore sex by using one of my fav techniques:
Roleplay, baby!!!
You can go as wild with roleplay as you want, and that’s what makes it great.
You could even get into “character” in the morning and send some dirty texts to really get her in the mood before the night’s “activities.” 😉
Then, when you’re both ready, bend her over a table and tell her exactly what you’re going to do to her.
Or you can hold her down to add an extra element of intensity.
The most important part is that you stay in character and make lots of eye contact. That way, she can still feel connected to you throughout the experience.
Because hardcore sex is so intense, it’s super important that she stays wet down there too–so always pay attention to that, and use some lube if necessary.
3) Make It All About Her
Generally speaking, there’s a certain dynamic used in hardcore sex where one person is more “dominant,” and the other person is more “submissive.”
This is why talking about hardcore sex can be a difficult subject for many women–however, one of the easiest ways to get around this is to just make the experience all about her.
When she gets home from work, for example, you can tell her that you want to “do something special” for her.
Kiss her on the way to the bedroom, and then tie her up (if you have rope handy) so she can’t move.
If you’re wary about the rope, just have her lay down and tell her not to move.
Take your time peeling off her clothes and kissing her all over.
Do whatever drives her crazy until she begs you for more–then you can really ramp up the intensity.
Speaking of intensity… hardcore sex can often last longer than more “vanilla” sex. So a lot of guys like to give themselves a little boost *down there* beforehand.
Here’s what I mean:
3 Rough Sex Moves to Take Things to the Next Level…
Just click on the move you wanna know more about below! 😉
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