If she’s faking it, she may start out with, “Well, you know…” And it can be a very edgy discussion.
But the truth is, many women fake orgasms because they simply don’t know how to communicate their pleasure yet.
So before you can get her to open up about it, it’s important to spot the signs she’s faking it.
How Can You Tell When She’s Having REAL Orgasms?
You can tell if there’s a real orgasm in the sense that there are uncontrollable contractions that happen inside her.
You’ll feel these “pulsations” in her vagina… deep muscle tissue… and her abdomen.
All of these are useful signs.
However, every woman is different, so it comes down to asking her and observing.
Let’s say you’re licking her clitoris for a minute, and she instantly comes, for example. It’s likely that she’s faking it, and doing what I call, “porn sex.”
She thinks that this is how women in porn behave, so if she doesn’t behave the same, then there’s something wrong with her.
That’s one of the big problems with porn.
In porn, the female orgasm is kind of a joke and can actually be hilarious!
It’s like, “I take this hard c**k and I’ll touch your vagina. And you’re like, ‘Oh my God, Oh my God!!!'”
Women see this, and they think this is how their vaginas should work. But the reality is quite different.
However, throughout my years of studying Tantra & its techniques… I’ve learned that once you know where to touch a woman *down there*… and how to stimulate her most sensitive areas… giving her this kind of pleasure becomes way easier.
One of these areas, known as“The Deep Spot,” has been a big hit among our community members… and some guys have even reported that stimulating her “Deep Spot” like this leads to super-fast squirting orgasms.
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