What’s The Secret to Getting Repeat Sex? Avoid THIS Common Behavior That Most Men Don’t Even Realize They’re Doing…
Have you ever dated a girl who wasn’t really “hot enough” for you?
When you met her though, how’d you feel about her then? Think back.
“I thought she was OK, but I didn’t think she was special then, either.”
You sure, or is that revisionist history?
You probably felt good about your charms working. I’d bet even more that you’ve seen women that were not “good enough” for you… and yet you couldn’t get through to them and wished you could.
Speaking from experience I definitely remember hitting on women that were “just there.” Or maybe they were the best thing at their table, or the best thing in the bar or the best thing within the range of my voice.
Once I started though, it was not routine, not academic. I wanted to win.
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That’s what I want to talk about today–the idea of “winning” a woman.
Because for a lot of guys, their attitude changes once they’ve “won” her–or once they’ve started sleeping with her.
And how you act once you’ve gotten this far with a woman can make or break your chances of sleeping with her again.
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If you’ve never hit on a woman who’s lower than your “standard”… then you may not realize that these women are generally HARDER to land.
In my experience, when this happens, you still push through to win her though. And before you’re through you’ve become at least somewhat attracted to her.
Maybe your head has fooled you into thinking you like her so you can push ahead–I don’t know.
The truth, though, is that there’s something that happens after you’ve started dating a woman.
It’s kind of captured in that phrase from Groucho Marx:
“I wouldn’t want to be part of any club that would have me as a member.”
In fact, the same girl that you saw as OUT of your league, if you’ve started dating her… well, you’ll probably “realize” that there are a lot of flaws in what you thought was her perfection.
Now, let me digress to admit right up front that this doesn’t happen to everyone.
In fact, being “in love” is probably when you don’t find these inevitable flaws, or when the flaws you find have nothing to do with your attraction strategy.
The point is, for most guys there’s a shift in behavior once you start noticing these flaws.
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You might be wondering what I mean when I write, “flaws you find have nothing to do with your attraction strategy.”
Here’s an example from my own life:
Sometimes I’ll realize that the woman I’m so interested in has kind of small ears, or a strong chin.
These are not my preferences to be sure.
I prefer an oval face to a face with a slightly jutting chin or strong jaw… and there’s a size of ears that’s kind of perfect with a face.
Nevertheless, being attracted to a woman–for me–is not caused by a desirable set of ears. And so it’s usually not destroyed when I realize that her ears are smaller or larger than ideal.
Sometimes, in fact, a strong jaw can fit a strong woman.
And if she’s very feminine in other ways (I’m thinking of a delicious flat-chested ballerina I knew whose jaw looks like a male model, but whose every-single-thing-else is 100% standard issue hot-chick)…
Well then yeah, it can work.
On the other hand, realizing that a woman has wrinkly skin from liposuction, or her backside is wide and flat instead of tight and round like a bowling ball… there are certain things you can’t compromise on. It’s different for every guy.
But back to my point…
Very often, sometimes as soon as a woman has “given up the goods” so to speak, she can seem less attractive.
Sometimes you’re laying in bed with the sweat glistening and the delicious smell of love still hanging like steam in the air, and already your arousal and ardor have followed the same path–doused like a grease fire by the wet blanket of foam.
That which fanned the flames now only cools the embers.
Now, I’m not saying you don’t like her after–and probably after your refractory period you like her just fine.
But if you’ve had any experience in this department then you know what I mean.
And it’s this behavior that can not only cause you to want her less… but it can eventually lead to her wanting you less as well.
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That’s Not All…
What I’m getting at is this:
After you sleep with a woman once, you tend to be somewhat more realistic about her than you were before.
If you’ve been with her for longer–let’s say a couple months–the contrast of before to after increases more.
Now you’ve seen her angry…
She’s insulted or embarrassed you…
You’ve seen her apathetic, or even worse: unimpressed.
And you’ve dealt with a barrage of requests and complaints and demands, not to mention jealous questions or accusations.
Maybe–knowing how much you like her–she’s even tried to control you.
Perhaps she tried to take away your favorite toys (her, to start with, and those magical parts of her delicious self, too).
“Ouch, David! You’re bringing up some very painful memories, thank you very much!” What’s your point?” You might be thinking…
Sorry.
What I’m trying to help you understand is that you probably will not worship this “goddess” two months after you’ve gotten past the first, second, and third meetup.
But what about when you first started seeing her?
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I’m trying to help you tone down your worship now.
The truth is that when you beg her, she generally feels revulsion, or at best pity.
I’d like you to keep that in mind when you first meet her.
Keep things in perspective.
When you first start seeing a woman, that feeling of bonding and connection sometimes comes with an increased attraction–and even mild obsession.
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In that case, we call it love. And we find even the things that are not favored–the strong jaw or large ears–become things that make her special and different.
And if you’re lucky, you’ll get that joyful cupid arrow through the heart and be completely smitten.
Remember, though–and some of you, like Sean Mendes in “I Know I Can Treat You Better” have heard it directly from her–that some other guy has gone through that same cooling off with her.
She’s just a woman.
Do NOT tie your self-esteem to her opinion. Never, ever.
Because once you do that, then that’s when you start showing her that “begging” behavior… and that’s when she stops wanting you as badly as you want her.
So what should you do, then?
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When you start sleeping with a girl, and you want to keep sleeping with her… here’s what you do:
You act normal.
Because the thing is… when a girl really likes you, you don’t need to go out of your way to please her…
And in fact this “pleasing” attitude is a huge turn-off for most women.
So when you act normal, it will make her want to sleep with you even MORE…
… and the best part is, the more she likes you, the less effort you need to put in to keep her around.
That’s the key to getting a girl “hooked” on you in bed without going out on expensive dates, or buying her a bunch of things she doesn’t need:
And you know what?
There are a few subtle clues that reveal when a girl is head-over-heels crazy about you…
And while most men aren’t trained to spot these signs…
… once you know what they are, I think you’ll be surprised to see how many hot girls secretly want to bang your brains out:
