Discover if You Have the 3 Signs of Compatibility With Her…
We live in an era where dating successfully is harder than ever in human history.
Relationships — or should I say lasting relationships — are on a decline like never before. Divorce rates are 75%…
Cheating on your partner is glorified through the media…
Settling down is frowned upon by society more and more, and it’s harder to meet women despite there being 1,000+ different ways you can.
So it’s more important than ever to figure out fast whether or not you have a future…especially if you want to avoid something messy down the road.
And today, I’m going to show you exactly how to do that:
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Why the Only Thing That Matters Is What YOU Want…
Can you picture your “perfect” girlfriend or wife? There may be 1 or 2 of you out there that have a definite idea and clear image of her, but most men do not.
Why does this matter? Because if you aren’t sure what you want, you’re way more likely to end up settling for less down the road. (And that will only lead to bad breakups, pain, and possibly even divorce!)
Here’s the truth: What matters right now is you and only yourself. This is your life, your future and your happiness we’re referring to.
So it’s more important than ever to have a clear image of what you want.
In my experience with coaching men, this kind of “clear image” is very rare. It’s always the same old story:
- “I think I’d like this type of woman…”
- “Maybe she’d look like this…”
- “I’m not sure if a sense of humor is imperatively important…”
- “I really don’t know how she’d look…”
On and on…
This flies in the face of what men used to do: Men of olden days were the hunters and gatherers!
Men went out and took what they wanted. They didn’t sit around at home hoping their lusts would come to them…and in eras of past, men knew what they wanted and wouldn’t settle for less.
Having a clear image of the exact type of woman or women in your life is more important than you’d ever imagine. Why?
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The #1 Predictor of Success in Your Relationship
Because of compatibility! Compatibility is the #1 predictor of success in your relationship, and if you aren’t sure what you want…
It’s nearly impossible to tell who you’ll be compatible with.
When two people are incompatible, there’s going to disharmony! Oil and water will never mix. Why? They’re not compatible.
So when you don’t have a very clear image of what your personal and dating life will look like, there are bound to incompatibility issues. No matter how you look at, you’re “settling” if you don’t know exactly what you want.
And because most men today don’t do the choosing, they end up settling.
Most men allow the women to pick them. They allow the women to define the terms and dynamic of the relationship. And this causes a lot of men to be unhappy with their lives and relationships.
So before you take my quiz to determine if you have a future with her, you need to understand what your “perfect,” peak-compatibility level woman is like.
And here’s a way to do that:
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How to Visualize Your “Perfect Woman”…
This is an exercise I’ve done myself — grab a pen and a piece of paper, and write down EXACTLY what you want in a woman.
Be as detailed as possible:
The color of her hair…
What time of day she likes to shower…
The color of her eyes…
The size of her breasts…
Her hobbies…
Her ideologies…
Leave nothing out. Go for broke with this! Trust me — it’ll pay off in the long run.
Just have fun and allow yourself to dream. I personally have filled up countless pages in my notebook and even to this day, I’m still adding to it.
So have I found my perfect woman? Yes! Have I found her a dozen or so times? Yes!
Will I find her again, and again, and again? Yes!
At this stage in my life, I don’t want a serious single relationship…but what I do want is a serious relationship with multiple women, and I have this for myself whenever I want. My dating life and relationships are defined, and I never settle for anything less.
Now, chances are if you’re reading this, you haven’t found your perfect woman yet.
But now that you can visualize what she’s like, it’ll be much easier for you to tell whether or not the women who are currently in your life will be compatible with you.
Just ask yourself these 4 questions:
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1) Are Your Personalities Compatible?
The first step to determining whether or not you have a future with her is to figure out how your personalities mesh.
Is she shy and introverted, or open and extroverted? Does that match up with the “perfect woman” you visualized?
Is she aggressive, or more passive? Again, compare this to your “perfect woman.”
Does she think before she acts, or is she more impulsive?
Do your communication styles match up?
Keep asking yourself questions like this, and compare your answers to your “perfect woman.” If they match up, then chances are your personalities are compatible.
Which brings me to the next question…
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2) Are Your Lifestyles Compatible?
Every successful long-term relationship requires compromise — and the easiest way to compromise without making too many sacrifices is to date a woman who has a similar lifestyle to yours.
Do you work a 9-5? Does she?
Will your schedules allow enough time to spend together? Is she willing to have a “date night”? Is that something you want?
Does she smoke and drink? Is that something you want?
Observe her behavior and how she lives on a day-to-day basis. If this matches up with your “perfect woman,” great! Your lifestyles are compatible.
If not, it’s not the end of the world — it’s possible you can still reach a compromise that works. But the truth is that most successful couples lead lifestyles that mesh together.
And there’s one more important question you need to ask yourself to determine whether or not you have a future with her:
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3) Are You Sexually Compatible?
Sexual compatibility is perhaps the most important — and hardest to determine — factor that will tell you whether or not you have a future with a woman.
Why?
If there’s no chemistry in bed, then basically you’re dating your friend. You won’t want to have sex, and neither will she — and that’s not good for either of you.
So what does it mean to be sexually compatible?
You both like the same things in bed…
You want to have similar amounts of sex…
You feel “in sync” with each other…
Basically, if you keep wanting to have sex with her, it means you’re sexually compatible. Though that’s not something you can determine just from looking at a woman.
It takes a little more effort…but it is possible to tell what she’s like before you sleep together. Just ask yourself this final question:
4) Is She Giving You Her 7 “Compatibility Clues”?
I couldn’t ask her “Hey, how do you feel about BJs and girl on top?” We were in a Michelin-starred restaurant sipping red wine after all…
But I needed to know before I invited her back to my place…if she won’t do those, it’s kiiiind of a deal-breaker for me.
(And I’m no spring chicken — I don’t have time to waste on women who aren’t “long-term material”.)
Instead, I had to look for the subtle signs we’d be a match…I call them her “Compatibility Clues“…and there are 7 of them. (Though in my experience, you only need to spot 2 or 3 of them to know for sure if she’ll be right for you.)
She stood up to use the ladies’ room…her legs showed me signs #1 and #2. Score.
Over our creme brulee, she did this thing with her neck…yup, that was clue #3…I gave her the ol’ “Wanna have a drink back at my place?” And it was on.
I won’t lie…the sparks between the sheets were wild…but the real kicker? We ended up going out for almost 2 years.
These Compatibility Clues are my life-saver. And they can be yours too — so check them out, you’ll love them:
Discover My 7 “Compatibility Clues” to Get the Girlfriend You Deserve…
