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This is another episode of Ask Ruwando.
I’m Ruwando on behalf of Gotham club.
And today I want to answer a question I get a lot:
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How do you hook up with strippers and sex workers without paying?”
And I think there are some misconceptions surrounding this whole question. I want to dig into it, because I’ve dated quite a few strippers and sex workers.
And I think a lot of guys make it more complicated or more outlandish than it has to be.
I’m going to show you the truth below:
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A lot of us have fantasized about these women right there.
They’re obviously beautiful, they obviously have a lot of opportunities for men and sex, and they’re getting paid for things like this.
But you can actually make it a lot simpler.
I’m going to share some perspectives to make connecting with these women a lot easier.
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1) Understand That They Are Normal Women
So the first thing for you to understand is that they are regular women.
A lot of guys treat them like some strange other creature, because a lot of us have sexual shame.
A lot of men are intimidated by beauty.
Obviously, any woman who strips for money or escorts for money is probably a very beautiful woman.
And if you have this mindset of like either putting her on a pedestal or “slut-shaming” her because she does something sexual for money, it’s gonna be very hard for you to connect with her.
You have to understand she’s a regular woman, most likely.
I mean, there are a lot of cultural misconceptions that, you know, strippers are damaged goods.
People say they have daddy issues or something like that–and I’m sure that exists.
But you know, most of the strippers and sex workers I know are regular girls.
I mean, it’s hard for some guys to understand.
Just think of it this way:
If you’re a beautiful young woman, maybe still in college or whatever… then you have a few options:
I mean, you can work in Starbucks for 15 bucks an hour, or you can take off your clothes and have a lot more fun for 300 an hour, or escort for way more than that.
If you understand this, you can see like they’re just regular women who happen to not have shame about something and want to make
great money in a fun way.
So that’s the first thing for you understand.
2) The One Thing That IS DIfferent About Strippers & Sex Workers…
The second thing to understand, which is maybe a little bit of a counterpoint is that what is different about them is that a woman who does strips or escorts or something has a lot of experience with men.
This is most likely true, even if she’s new to it.
And as a result she’s seen men at their worst, she’s seen manager-bashing behavior, she’s gotten private time with rich guys.
She has been with all sorts of men.
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So like, a lot of like the dating techniques that might work on other women probably won’t work with such a woman.
Because most women who were able to do that stuff like that for money have to be confident. They have to be savvy, and they have to be strong.
So anything like B.S. “lines,” or trying to posture as an “alpha”… these women know how to smell bulls**t potentially.
You’re doing yourself no favors by trying to run some special game on her.
3) Be “Real”
Actually, what I’ve heard from a lot of my stripper friends and escort friends is they really appreciate–more than most women–when a guy can be real.
Because they can see through it anyway, you’re wasting your time, if you’re trying to be something you’re not.
Now, the hard part with this is that you can’t really mask your insecurities.
A woman like this could probably read a man really well. So you actually have to bring your security.
It doesn’t mean you have to be perfect.
There’s no benefit to not being vulnerable around these women, so you might as well be vulnerable.
You might as well be upfront, because anything to hide yourself or posture, it’s just not going to work with an experienced woman like this.
And that includes your view of sexuality.
Because another difference with these kinds of women is that they’re exposed to sex a lot.
They’re probably very comfortable with their sexuality.
And that means if you in any way disapprove of what they do–if you shame them, if you think they’re a bad person for sleeping with lots of guys, or if you make fun of them for dancing–there’s almost no chance you’re going to be able to sleep with them.
They want to be treated like regular women, because so many guys put them on a pedestal, or shame them, or some combination of both.
4) Lead Her!
And that comes to the final point, which is really important:
They want you to lead!
Any woman who does something sexual for work is used to being in a very feminine role, which means she also has a very high bar for masculinity.
She doesn’t want to be with the guy that she has to mother, or take care of.
And I would say with sex workers, like their tolerance for that stuff is even lower.
Because, you know, if you ever speak to a sex worker, a lot of what they do is naturally sex–like when a woman’s giving a lap dance, or even escorts.
A lot of what they’re doing is emotional support for men.
And even if they’re, you know, giving a girlfriend experience, or doing submissive play, she’s actually supporting the guy.
Because that’s what he’s paying for–some sort of emotional experience, ultimately, other than just getting off or whatever it is.
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So if she has to take care of you, she’s not gonna want to do it for free.
She wants to be with a guy who can lead, be secure and be masculine.
And you know, treat her like a regular woman and treat her like the beauty she is–without putting her on a pedestal or obviously shaming her in any way.
But the most important thing is that these are regular women, they want to be seen as regular women, and if anything, they just have a little bit of a higher standard for masculinity.
Which brings me to the final step… and it’s the most important one, by far:
5) Use These 3 “Friendly” Touches When You’re With Her
You can’t just walk up to a stripper in a club, grab her a**, and ask her… “Hey babe, wanna come back to my place when you’re off?”
It doesn’t work… no matter HOW many dollar bills you throw at her, or drinks you offer to buy.
So instead, casually touch her like this.
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Even if she’s giving you the raunchiest lapdance of your life, and is physically putting her hands and body all over your junk…
… I’m telling you right now, if you resist the urge to feel her up juuuuust a little… and use these kinda “friendly” touches instead…
… she’s gonna notice… (because few guys are so cool and subtle)…
And it’s gonna drive her INSANE.
I mean, strippers are used to men desiring them. They’re used to being treated like a piece of meat.
So when you break the norm… and don’t do what she expects you to do…
Not only is it going to set you apart from every other paying customer in the club… but it’s going to make her curious about you… to the point that she may even pursue you.
One of my ex-girlfriends, who used to strip at this place called Pumps in Brooklyn, even told me she “knew” I had a girlfriend when she met me… because I wasn’t ogling and groping her all night.
And yet she still flirted with me, gave me free drinks, put her number in my phone and told me she’d text me when she was off later that night… why?
Because these casual touches aren’t just kinda “friendly”… they’re also scientifically proven to make women dripping wet, and excited to have sex with you.
So before you know it, her shift will be up, her panties will be soaked… and she’ll be feeling you up in an Uber straight back to your place (hell yeah):
