How To Spank Any Woman Into a Mindblowing Orgasm (Even If She Seems Like a “Good Girl”)…
So, you’re interested in getting a little naughty between the sheets?
The good news is, you’re not alone. 😉
And if you’d like to explore spanking during sex, then you’re in luck.
Because that’s what I’m going to show you today!
Hundreds of experts have weighed in on this topic, and a surprising number of women are secretly into being spanked during sex. (Or doing the spanking, if that’s your thing.)
And if you follow the right steps, this kind of erotic spanking can take your sex life to the next level.
So with that in mind, here are 5 surprising reasons most women love spanking during sex, and how you can use it for maximum pleasure in your bedroom.
1) There Is No Specific Reason!
There are several reasons why some women love to be spanked during sex.
And for some, the sensation alone is amazing.
Other women find that the subversive nature of spanking is very, very pleasurable–and a huge turn-on.
According to dominatrix Goddess Lola Jean, the “naughty factor” draws many women to this taboo.
Of course, this isn’t exactly breaking news… though there are still those people who think spanking is a little bit “weird.”
But ultimately, for a lot of women, spanking can feel like a mild form of roleplay.
And it’s this aspect of it that can make it super hot during sex. 😉
Which brings me to reason number two…
2) Strong & Submissive?
So you’re with a woman who has a college degree, pays her way, and has a good job…
Why would she want to be dominated and spanked?
Why would she be into BDSM at all?
Here’s what psychologists have to say:
Basically, women enjoy the idea of being forcefully “taken.”
To them, this concept is associated with passion and deep desire–and this fulfill’s a woman’s sexual needs.
Personally, as a woman who is very strong, I love to be spanked during sex. 🙂
Forceful sexual play that doesn’t get too extreme is a major turn-on to me–and I know many women like myself too.
So, if you’re with a bold, modern, and independent woman… spanking may be in her arsenal of sexual tools.
Just set the rules and a “safe” word before you get started.
3) Curiosity Doesn’t Always Kill The Cat
Technically speaking, spanking is a “kink.”
This makes the whole act seem a bit taboo.
(Then again, so was the idea of women wearing pants and smoking cigarettes a mere 100 years ago.)
The truth is, according to psychologists, many women are naturally curious and open-minded. And this means they like to experience new things.
So whether you want to be spanked–or do the spanking yourself–being curious about it is totally natural.
4) The “Ahhh” Factor
A lot of women find that physically, the experience of being slightly hurt is pleasurable.
This is because pain can make the skin more sensitive.
Spanking draws blood to a woman’s butt, which makes it more responsive to a naughty kiss or caress.
Pro Tip: If you want to increase her pleasure even more, try rubbing her breasts or her back while you spank her.
After a few spanks, feel her *down there.* You’ll probably find that she’s very, very wet. 😉
Basically, this happens because when you increase the sensitivity in her butt, other parts of her body will get way more sensitive too.
5) It’s All About Dynamics
Some couples like to exchange power roles in the bedroom…
And it has to do with more than just being kinky.
This kind of taboo sexual act can quickly build trust and intense intimacy between two people.
And if you’re curious about getting spanked, as opposed to doing the spanking, then you’re not alone either.
Maybe you trust the woman you’re with enough to “take” you in the same way she sometimes enjoys being taken. And that’s perfectly fine!
At the end of the day, spanking can be a lot of fun.
The key is to communicate, and always check in to make sure she’s enjoying it.
And from there… if you really want to spice things up in the bedroom…
Then you’re going to want to try this:
Beyond Spanking: 2 More Rough Sex Moves to Unleash Her Inner Nympho…
If you spank a girl and she likes it…
… then chances are she’s gonna be into some “rougher” stuff as well. 😉
Even if she won’t admit it to you out loud (and most girls probably won’t)…
… the truth is, a lot of hot girls secretly LOVE when a guy gets rough like this in bed.
(Which probably explains why movies like 50 Shades of Grey are so popular with women lol…)
And because most men are too timid to try this stuff…
… if you get a little rough with a hot girl, she’s way more likely to keep coming back to you for sex again and again…
… so here are 2 more simple rough sex moves that should get her “addicted” to you in bed 😉
2) The “Goldilocks Choke”–It might sound weird, but a LOT of hot girls love to be choked during sex. The lack of oxygen can make sex feel more intense, and her orgasms more powerful. Click here to see how it’s done.
P.S. If she’s really into spanking, here’s a somewhat advanced spanking move that hot girls go crazy for…