Many guys in our community are interested in improving their sex lives, or they just want to keep the women in their lives begging for more in bed.
I understand that desire… which is why I want to show you an easy solution today:
The answer lies in a technique called “tantra.”
The benefits of tantra are endless, and incorporating tantra into your sex life can open doors you never imagined. Not only for you, but for her as well!
So that's what I want to talk to you about today.
Hi, I'm Lawrence Lanoff.
As a tantric sex expert, it's safe to say I know a lot about sex and improving your sex life.
So every week, I'll be answering your most difficult, burning questions you have about sex…
And this week, I'm answering this one:
“What is tantra, and how can it help me?”
Catch The Full Video Transcript Below…
As a well-known tantric master, I've had hundreds of men ask me the best way to begin to use tantra in their lives.
I've also had guys ask me about the best resources to ease yourself into tantric sex.
Well, the most important thing I can tell you is what I would describe as “awareness.”
You have to be aware that the sex you see in porn is not the only sex there is.
For most of us (especially men), we learn about, understand, and sexualize sex through porn…
And so, as a result, we come to think that the sex we have should be like what we see in porn.
And that's all wrong.
What's The Right Speed for My Sex Life?
In order to start thinking about tantra, it's important to think about the different speeds of sex.
I was speaking with a friend last night, and she was saying that guys, for the most part, just:
… at some point, flip me over and just go a**-slapping, just pounding…”
I think she called it the “a**-pop”–the pounding of flesh for the guy to get off.
And that's truly a phenomenon you should only see in porn, to be honest.
So what we have to do is realize that this “a**-pounding” is only one way to have sex. If you were to just randomly sample heterosexual porn, you would find that there is a lot of pounding.
You may think, “Oh, well, that's just how you have sex.”
However, what we really want to do is understand that there's an infinite number of speeds at which you can have sex.
If tantra is anything at all, it's understanding that there's this big space of different sexual speeds, and that this space is largely unexplored by most men.
And because it's so unexplored, it turns out women are very hungry for those experiences.
What Happens When You Start Using Tantra During Sex?
Men who figure out that women are hungry for these experiences end up realizing that most women are sexually starved.
So the most important things you can do now are:
1) Realize that there are multiple speeds, and assess your own speed as such. And…
2) Find the best resource for tantra to help incorporate it into your life.
That's where I come in!
I honestly believe that the best resource about tantra is my own course. That course is basically a download of my brain directly into a program, so that regular guys can start to understand what I studied for over 20 years.
It's like this world opens up, and if you realize what is possible, it makes sex SO much better for both you and the women you sleep with.
Tantra begins to open a doorway that men and women never knew was even possible, and it’s not our fault we do not know. So you can't be blamed for that.
Here's a little taste in case you're interested to find out more:
How to Give Her the Kind of Orgasms She'll Never Forget…
Personally, I think porn is great. I love porn. However…
I've got a little beef with it. Just a little, but it's there. Here's my issue:
I personally came to believe 3 things that I’ve now realized are false. They were:
- I need to have an 8 or 9-inch dong to sexually please a woman…
- I need marathon-level stamina…
- And I need to pound her until she has a banshee screaming-level orgasm.
And I’ve now realized there was only ONE thing I needed to know all along:
I needed to know a woman's “spots”… basically, her sexual pleasure points inside her:
How to hit them… the angle to hit them from… the pressure to hit them, and the pace.
So since I studied tantra for over two decades, I invested a lot of time focusing exclusively on these sexual pleasure points… and I got a lot better at stimulating them.
And in fact, one of these “spots” is far more important than the others.
Sure, the C-spot is great, and so is the G-spot…
But it's what us guys in our community have come to call the “Deep Spot” that's the most important of all.
Man, let me tell you… since learning how to work a woman's “Deep Spot,” I've had more women come back to me for repeat sex… tell me that they “can't get enough of me” in bed… and basically, everything is so much better now.
This video will show you where it is & how to hit it–I think you're really gonna like this a lot: