Discover The Best Texts to Send a Girl Who Ghosted So You Get A Response (Even If It's Been Days, Weeks Or Longer Since You've Heard From Her)…
We've all been there:
You meet a cute girl…
You text back and forth…
Maybe you meet up, or maybe you make plans to meet up…
And you think, “Maybe this could be going somewhere!”
And then a day goes by… and you don't hear from her.
Then another day. And another.
You try to reach out to her, and if you're lucky, you get a one or two-word response. Maybe a quick apology, or a, “Sorry, things are super crazy right now.”
And if you're not so lucky… (and this seems to be the case for most of us)… you don't get any response. It's like she's vanished from the face of the earth.
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Ghosting may not be a strictly new phenomenon, but technology has made it much easier for people to ghost.
Recent research published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships estimates that about 1 in 4 people have been ghosted by someone else.
And as a result, it's become easier than ever to get discouraged and give up.
But today, I want to tell you:
Don't give up!
Because there are some texts you can send a girl which make a response way more likely. And today, I'm going to show you what they are.
But first, a little background on why girls “ghost” in the first place:
Why Do Girls “Ghost”? Here’s What Ghostbusters Didn’t Tell You…
I’ll give you the bad news first:
There’s not really a surefire way to stop a girl from “ghosting.”
It's her decision–or lack thereof–and you can't quite control what's going on inside her head.
And the truth is, women do this for a number of reasons.
Maybe she only feels “lukewarm” toward you…
Or perhaps she met someone else and is getting serious with him…
And hey, it is possible that she really is that busy with work.
Yes, it's pretty crappy. And yeah, it's cowardly too. But it happens.
So what should your next move be?
First off, don't hound her with questions. Yes, you can text her–and I'll show you how in just a minute–but you don't want to make her feel like you're “stalking” her.
That’s Not All…
Don’t blow up her phone. Don’t message her directly on social media, and don't track her down for an explanation.
The key is to think of ghosting as you would any other breakup.
That doesn’t mean it will be easy–usually, it’s quite the contrary. But at least that gives you some ground rules to play by.
Ultimately, if you’ve been ghosted, you have to find your own closure.
Remember that being ghosted isn’t a reflection of you or your character.
Instead, it's a reflection of her and her character (or lack thereof).
There's nothing stopping you from bouncing back into the game.
However, if you want to give it one more shot with her… then I do have something for you to try.
3 Texts to Send a Girl Who’s “Ghosting” You (So She Responds)…
So a girl has “ghosted” you… and you want to know what's up.
While I can't guarantee that these texts will work to get her out on a date with you, they can help bring you closure.
The key is to be honest in your delivery and to make her feel safe.
That way she won't worry you're going to blow up at her if she tells you she's just not “that interested.”
And yes, this means you need to be prepared to get that response. But hey–it's a response!
So with that in mind, here are 3 texts you can send to get a girl who “ghosted” you to respond:
Text #1: “Hey, haven't heard from you in a while… everything OK? If you're not interested or too busy, just let me know. I'd really appreciate it.”
Text #2: “My buddy just bailed on me for happy hour. You in? Name a place and I'll meet you there.”
Text #3: “Important question… are you pro or anti-pumpkin spice latte?”
The first text shows your honesty and is also direct, which works if it fits with your personality.
The second text, on the other hand, gets straight to the point if you feel like your previous conversation was a little “wishy-washy.”
And finally, the third text works if you just want a response. It may not rekindle the conversation or solidify a date, but it gives you the best odds of getting a response.
And if you do land a date with her?
Then just try this:
The “Sexual Fast Track”: How To End Your Date With Some Action (Every Time)
If she agrees to meet up with you… then that’s a really good sign! 🙂
However, because women who “ghost” can be kinda “flighty”… and easily distracted… it’s important to escalate as quickly as possible on your date.
And the most powerful way I know how to do that… is to follow what’s called the “Sexual Fast Track.”
It’s a road map which covers the full spectrum of date-related topics… most importantly, the topics which can either MAKE or BREAK your chances of hooking up with her on the date… like:
- Where to take her that makes her see you as the “high-value” guy she wants…
- What to say so she thinks about sex with you more & more throughout the evening…
- Plus, some super-easy, seemingly “normal” things you can do to make same-night sex WAY more likely.
(Like did you know that if you do THIS at the end of the date, it’s a huge turn-on for her?)
What’s great about the “Sexual Fast Track” is that it goes beyond a lot of the typical advice you’ll see online… and breaks down each part of the date for you, step-by-step… so you can walk into your date with a solid game-plan… and feel truly confident about your chances.
And as a woman, I have to say… there’s nothing sexier than a man with a plan… so try this one before your next date 😉 :
[Note: This post was updated by Gotham Club on October 7, 2019.]