The Female Orgasm Can Seem Complicated & Confusing, But With These Tricks it Doesn’t Have To Be–Which One Will You Use First?
When it comes to the female orgasm, there’s so much contradicting information out there, that it’s no wonder most guys aren’t sure just what to do.
You may have been told to touch her a certain way or try certain positions that basically guarantee she’ll orgasm.
Yet, if you’ve been with other women, you may notice these techniques fall short.
Or worse… she fakes it.
Well, if that's the case for you, then don’t worry:
We finally have the answers revealing exactly how to make her moan with pleasure.
Is There a “One-Size-Fits-All” Technique to Give Her An Orgasm?
A recent study found that, generally speaking, most men truly don't know how to give a woman an orgasm.
However, it's not their fault.
The study explored the idea that many sex therapists recommend certain techniques or pleasure zones to target, which lead men to think that there's one clear way to make a woman orgasm…
But it's unfortunately not that simple.
If it were, then there wouldn't be so many articles floating around about a promising technique to get a woman to orgasm.
And that means that no, there is not a “one-size-fits-all” technique to give every woman an orgasm. In fact, the study reported that only 18% of women say that vaginal stimulation alone can make them orgasm.
Another 37% say they need clitoral stimulation as well.
A lot of women are also very partial to only a specific way of being touched, with this method varying in pressure…
And several other factors.
So what can we conclude?
Well, clearly, different women experience the female orgasm in different ways. And of course, there's no surefire way to make a woman orgasm.
But don't worry–the good news is, we can use this information for your (and her) benefit.
Here are 5 actual ways to make her orgasm way more likely during sex:
1) Don’t Skip Foreplay
Even if the girl you're with can climax during intercourse, foreplay is a great way to prime her for the main event.
So don't skimp on it!
Women generally require a bit more time than men to get turned on, and foreplay allows her the time she needs.
Psychology Today warns never to skip foreplay if you want to have amazing sex–and I have to say, as a woman I agree 100%.
Keep in mind, though, that foreplay doesn't always have to mean oral sex.
It can be as simple as making out with her for five minutes while you run your hands all over her body.
Ultimately, foreplay allows time for the two of you to connect before you really get down to business.
And for most women, this is a huge turn-on.
2) Experiment With Different Touches
Because many women require clitoral stimulation to orgasm, it's important to figure out the best way to touch her.
Some women like it rough…
While other women's bodies are much more sensitive to touch.
So trying out different touches is a great way to gauge what she likes and what she doesn't in bed.
It's generally best to start out slow and soft–and then you can build up from there.
If she grabs you hard, it's also OK to mirror the way she touches you.
Personally, if a guy touches me too softly, it can actually tickle. And that is not the sensation I'm looking for.
I may grab him harder to indicate he can apply more pressure, and this generally does the trick.
Also, keep in mind that just because she enjoyed being touched roughly one day… does not mean she won't enjoy other kinds of touching another day.
So keep her guessing as to what's coming next by mixing and matching different touches–just be sure you're always paying attention to how she's responding. 🙂
3) Ask Her What She Likes
This may seem like an obvious one…
But asking a girl to tell you what she likes in bed is something most guys simply don't consider.
So how should you do it?
One easy way is to tell her that the way she touches you drives you crazy.
Then you can offer to return the favor by asking how she likes to be touched.
You can also make a game out of it in the bedroom by experimenting with different touches and asking her what feels good.
Or, you can put her in the driver's seat and tell her to tell you what to do in bed.
You could even incorporate roleplay!
This allows her to open up about her favorite positions, touches, and fantasies… without feeling awkward.
4) Put Your Mouth to The Test
One recent article found that 80% of women find it easiest to orgasm through oral sex.
There’s also the thrill of driving your woman crazy using only your tongue.
So if you’re finding it difficult to bring her to orgasm during sex, try going down on her.
When she’s close to coming, you have a few choices. You can keep the sensation going during sex by using your fingers to stimulate her clit…
You can finish the deed…
Or you can let her settle down and bring her back to orgasm again, for a much more powerful sensation…
At the end of the day, the key to keeping her satisfied in bed is to know her body as well as you can.
So if you still feel a little confused about how to navigate *down there*… then I highly recommend you check this out:
5) Discover Her “Pleasure Points” *Down There*
Here’s the truth:
You can know every sexual technique in the book… but if you use the technique in the wrong place *down there*… then it’s not gonna feel as good.
Like you probably know where the clitoris is… but did you know that there are lots of pleasurable nerve-endings in a woman’s mons? And that stimulating it in a certain way can lead to a mega-powerful orgasm?
And of course, a woman’s vagina may seem like her most obvious “pleasure point”… but one recent study found that 1 out of every 2 guys couldn’t find it on this diagram!
That’s why we made this quiz… so you can test your current knowledge of a woman’s sexual anatomy, and give yourself a refresher if you need it. 🙂
It only takes about 60 seconds from start to finish… so once you’re done, you’ll have a detailed diagram of her “pleasure points”… not to mention a huge advantage over the average man…
…plus, most guys in our community have said this quiz has helped them give women orgasms a LOT faster… like in under 15 minutes, as opposed to 30-45…
As a woman, I honestly believe every guy needs to know this diagram if he wants to be good in bed… so you can check it out for yourself right here: