How To Get the Most Out of Web Cam Girls & Even Get Them to Meet Up With You In Person (Straight From the Mouth of a Former Cam Girl)…
The internet has harkened a new age of, well, everything.
With just a click, we can have things delivered to us instantly:
Music, media, and even physical objects of all sorts can be at our doors within hours.
It’s also opened the doors of sexual exploration, the likes of which have been unprecedented until now.
Camming, the slang term for a form of sex work in which a model broadcasts herself via the internet using her webcam, for example, has been compared to prostitution in the digital age.
It’s not a bad description, necessarily–you’re still entering into a transaction with someone in exchange for sexual services, but the interaction is purely digital.
Camming is a unique experience, and it separates itself very distinctly from both phone sex and full-service sex work.
But let me level with you for a sec. I don’t talk about myself a lot because it’s not relevant.
You want to learn how to take your relationships to the next level, or any level; you don’t need to know about the woman typing behind the screen.
But this topic, in particular, resonates with me. It hits close to home.
I used to be a camming model, or a camgirl, as the slang term is known.
And so today, I want to show you what every guy should know about making the most of his camming experience… and why camming can be a great outlet for any type of guy.
What Every Guy Should Know About Camgirls…
Camming can be a fantastic, innovative way to up your sexual confidence and explore kinks and aspects that you may have never thought of before.
Without an outlet or a chance to explore these new sexual interests, it’s hard to be confident about what you truly desire in bed.
Camming offers you the chance to hoist that flag and let it fly with relatively low pressure (other than payment, of course).
Think about it:
Some people have anxiety regarding phones, and strictly verbal communication can be weirder than text when it comes to sex talk.
There’s still a stigma against meeting with full-service sex workers, though there shouldn’t be (but that’s a story for another time).
So when it comes to camming, you can think of it as your own personal, custom porn.
You can talk to the woman on the other end, but you don’t have to, and she doesn’t even have to see you if you don’t want her to.
You don’t have anyone to impress, and you can remain as anonymous as you do or don’t want.
The hardest part is finding a site and finding the virtual girl of your dreams.
So which one should you choose?
Finding a site itself is pretty easy. The big ones out there, My Free Cams, Streammate, and others, all have different variations on similar systems.
You can expect to find women broadcasting live videos of themselves doing sexual acts, but depending on the site, this comes with varying levels of privacy. And there are varying levels of payments as well.
How to Make the Most of Your Camming Experience (Without Spending $$$)
Some websites allow sexual content out in the open–what’s referred to as “public chat.”
On these kinds of websites, you can find women running games and other schemes in order to gather tips.
What’s your prize for winning, or your “thank you” for tipping?
It depends on the amount! For example, $10 might get you a flash of breasts, $20 might get her to spank herself for you, and more might earn you a little striptease (and so on).
Other websites (such as Streammate, where I have most of my experience) don’t allow any sexuality in public chat.
Even if you tip, you’re probably not going to get much more than a thank you.
It’s genuine, but it’s not gonna do the job you’re most likely looking for.
So in cases like this, you’ll have to take your woman of choice to a private or exclusive chat, which you can do with the touch of a button.
Once you’re there, you can make requests regarding exactly what you want her to do.
You can even think of it as directing your own porn!
At the end of the day, it’s up to you to figure out which method and site format you prefer.
Can You Get a Relationship With A Camgirl?
It’s time to be blunt. If you’re looking for a relationship, you’re not going to get it from a camgirl. At all. Ever.
You may have a preconceived idea surrounding the attitudes of web cam girls (and all sex workers, for that matter):
They’re taking their clothes off for money, so they must be desperate for attention, and they must be really, really horny literally all the time, right?
Of course, it’s true that many camgirls enjoy their jobs.
The hours are fantastic. You get to set them yourself, and the amount of money you can make per shift is phenomenal.
Some women are even coming at this with experience in other forms of sex work, like phone sex, stripping, or even porn.
It’s not completely ridiculous to assume that this is their calling.
However, in my experience, those women are looking at this from a position of privilege.
They have the money, the prowess, and the clout to make this job work for them rather than working for the job itself.
That’s Not All…
There are many, many other women who are jumping into this because they have no other options–because it’s good money that they can make themselves.
This was the mindset that I took.
It doesn’t mean that I disliked the job. Quite the contrary.
The pros absolutely outweighed the cons for me, but I also didn’t have the monetary privilege of being able to deny all the men who wanted to cross my boundaries.
Regardless of what “level” your favorite camgirl is at, don’t hound her for a relationship.
Don’t tell her that, if you were her boyfriend, you’d make sure she never had to do this. Trust me–she doesn’t care. She’s there to do her job.
And sometimes, that job can feel like it’s crossing lines.
Sex is tied to emotion in our culture, and when you have a camgirl whom you see regularly, it’s understandable why the boundaries may start to blur.
It’s moments like these when it’s imperative that you take a step back and reevaluate.
Is she acting like this because she genuinely wants to be with you, or is she doing it because it’s her job?
(Hint: It’s almost always going to be the latter.)
Besides–if you’re too infatuated with a camgirl, you’re missing out on making a genuine connection with a “real life” woman. 🙂
The #1 Thing You’ll Gain From Your Cam Girl Experience…
Still, something doesn't quite add up.
Why would I waste your time going on about the pros of using camgirls to take yourself to a land of sexual confidence… only to tell you that interacting with them on an emotional level is a bad thing?
Here’s the thing:
Web cam girls are and will remain an amazing, one-of-a-kind way to explore your kinks and sexuality.
What’s that crazy thing you’ve always wanted to try?
Whatever it is, no matter how crazy it is, you can probably find a camgirl willing to satisfy that desire.
Camgirls often separate themselves into niches as a business scheme, which makes things easier on you.
Want to explore BDSM or dom/sub dynamics, but don’t have a partner?
There are dom women, there are sub women, and there are women who span that entire spectrum on these camgirl sites.
With their help, you can figure out how to use these kinks in a safe and healthy way, which can give you more confidence in your real-world bedroom!
When you reach that level of confidence, you can take your knowledge out into the real world and wow your new, real-life partner into ecstasy.
But what if you don't have a real-life partner?
Well then, you might be using online dating sites and apps to try and meet women. And many times, getting these women out on dates can seem really difficult.
So if that's the case, then here's something I found that can help get these women out on dates with you (and more):
How To Get Almost Any Girl Online to Meet Up With You In Person…
When I’m talking to a guy online… like on Tinder, Bumble and even Facebook… I can be a little reluctant to meet up with him in real life.
(Most girls I know are the same way too)
However, in my experience… there’s one easy way to get a girl you’re talking to online to meet up with you, WAY faster than she otherwise would:
Make her feel excited to see you face-to-face!
And in fact you can do this simply by using certain “trigger words” and phrases in your messages.
It has NOTHING to do with offering her dinner, or implying you'll take her out on a fancy date…
… yet it's proven to make girls message you back almost 30% faster...
… and in fact some guys say it gets girls to sleep with you faster too. 😉
Think you can guess what it is?
[Note: This post was updated by Gotham Club on May 4, 2020.]