Discover How to Tie Her Up Into a Mindblowing Orgasm–Today We Answer: What Is Bondage, & How Can You Use it to Have Hotter Sex?
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If you’ve been thinking about adding a little something extra to your sex life, bondage may be one of the sexually adventurous avenues you’ve been looking to explore. But how common is this kink?
A recent survey reveals that 36 percent of adults in the United States use masks, blindfolds, and bondage tools during sex, compared to 20 percent worldwide
You may have seen bondage — or more specifically, rope bondage — in porn…
Or maybe you’ve heard stories from friends…
Perhaps you think it’s as simple as tying one person up while having sex…
But the truth is, while rope bondage can be an extremely fun and playful element to add to your sex life, it’s also important to understand how to safely and properly tie a woman up.
Especially in the wake of this recent study, which found that being tied up is one of women’s most common sexual fantasies — it’s important now, more than ever, to learn the “ropes” of light bondage.
Keep reading to learn more about this sexy form of bondage and how to make sure you get it right.
What Exactly Is “Rope Bondage”?
Here’s a rough definition of rope bondage:
“The use of rope to restrict movement, wrap, suspend, or restrain a person, as part of BDSM activities.”
Basically, when you incorporate rope bondage into your sexual play, you use rope to restrain your partner during foreplay or while having sex.
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This helps to heighten the sexual experience for both you and the woman you’re with.
Especially if you and your partner are looking to experiment with the dominant/submissive relationship, rope bondage is a great place to start.
How Does Rope Bondage Enhance Sex?
If you’ve never tried bondage before, you might be curious about what all of the fuss is about. Can tying one partner up really make sex more exciting?
For many women, the answer is “Yes”… but only if they fully trust their partner.
Rope bondage can enhance sex by adding an extra layer of excitement into the mix. If you tie your girlfriend down, she instantly gets a rush of adrenaline from knowing she can’t move and that you’re in control of what she does.
For you, the pleasure is pretty obvious. Knowing that you’re in control of your girlfriend’s sexual experience and orgasm heightens the experience for many men.
Thought Catalog recently published an article on bondage, and many women came clean about why they enjoy bondage. Interestingly, a few key reasons stuck out the most:
- Role Reversals: Some women claimed they enjoyed bondage and being tied down because they spent so much time outside of the bedroom being in control and independent. Having someone else take control and allowing them to be vulnerable really turns them on.
- Oral Fixations: Other women who weren’t into bondage during sex did admit that being tied down when their guys went down on them was a real turn-on. They said it keeps the guy in control so he can fully focus on their needs.
- Special Occasions: Finally, some women said that they love the excitement of bondage, but want to reserve it for special occasions. They like to keep sex interesting and think the novelty wears off when bondage becomes repetitive.
Of course, some men also enjoy being tied down while their girlfriends enjoy being the dominant ones.
At the end of the day, it’s important to do what feels right for you — feel free to experiment with being both submissive and dominant until you find the right fit.
How Do I Know if a Woman is Into Bondage?
A recent poll revealed that 65 percent of university students dream about being tied up. But how can you tell if she’s really into it?
Initially, it can be difficult to tell if a woman is into bondage. However, there are a few things you can look for to help you figure it out.
For example, if she often agrees to experiment in bed or tries to experiment with you in bed, she might be curious about bondage.
You could also be straightforward with her to figure it out — if she seems open to talking about sex, just ask her if she’d be interested in trying it.
Or if she’s shy or reserved, you may need to take a different approach — try holding her hands down the next time you’re in bed and see if you get a good response.
You could even send her a flirty text telling her much you want to “tie her down and devour every inch” of her body. 😉
Ultimately, it’s important to make sure she’s 100% willing to try before you attempt to experiment with rope bondage. Remember, trust is a key part of making sure both you and the woman you’re with have a great time.
How To Start Experimenting with Rope Bondage
OK, so you know why a lot of women are wild about bondage — so where do you start?
Baby steps are the key for this kink, especially if you aren’t certain if the woman you’re with will enjoy it.
So start slowly — follow these 5 steps:
1) Start With Cuffs
Before you start playing with ropes and knots, try using handcuffs to tie her hands or ankles to the bed.
This is an easy way to gauge how you both feel about bondage without having to learn any complicated techniques.
Restraining just one body part will also help ease her into the idea while allowing you both to still enjoy a mild form of bondage.
2) Learn the “Ropes” of Knot-Tying
Sure, you’ve mastered knotting your tie, but bondage is likely new territory.
In order to ensure it’s safe for the woman you’re tying up, make sure to tie solid knots that won’t slip and loosen or tighten on their own.
There are a lot of great articles about this — the BDSM wiki has a great tutorial on tying knots for beginners.
3) Communicate as Often as Possible
Next, you want to make sure the woman you’re with is safe during this process, so make sure you ask her if the knot feels too tight.
You don’t want to accidentally cut off her circulation or cause any serious injuries, so be sure to communicate maybe a little more than what feels “normal.”
It’s also important to keep communicating while you’re having sex, particularly if her mouth is tied or gagged.
Be sure to have a sign she can give you (such as winking twice or turning her head) to indicate if something is wrong.
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If her mouth isn’t bound, this is where a “safe word” would come into play.
So make sure you have one, even if it’s something as simple as “stop.”
4) Get Experimental
What else do you need to know?
Well, rope bondage can offer an intense sexual experience, so the sky is truly your limit!
Here are a few more advanced tips if you’re feeling comfortable with bondage and want to start experimenting further:
a) If you’re tying most of her body down, remember to keep her interested in the act. After you tie one wrist, lick your way over to the other to keep her excited while you finish the setup.
b) Try out different positions. Missionary is the most common, but you can have a lot of fun with her laying on her stomach, kneeling, or tied with her feet and wrists together.
c) For added pleasure, blindfold her after you tie her up so she never knows where to expect the next sensation. It can be an absolutely mindblowing feeling. 😉
d) Occasionally, tie her up and only go down on her. This will leave her never knowing what to expect and craving your next bondage session.
And if you really want to blow her mind with bondage, & be the best she’s ever had… then you should try this:
5) Take Her Over the Edge With the “Tie & Twist” Technique…
Was Ben really asking if he could tie me up during sex… and before the end of our second date??
I’ll admit I had always fantasized about being tied down during sex… feeling powerless at the hands of a man… giving me sooo much sexual pleasure…
But I barely knew Ben! I was afraid he’d think I was super “kinky”… or even “slutty”.. though after a little reassuring, I said “OK, why not?”
When we got back to his place, things started out hot & heavy on his couch… but when he led me into his bedroom… pulled out a pair of fuzzy handcuffs from his nightstand… and cuffed my wrists to either end of his headboard…
Something about the whole experience seemed “off.”
I dunno if it’s because he wasn’t aggressive enough… or maybe the handcuffs were chafing against my wrists too much?… but afterward, it felt like a major let down.
Ben must have sensed my disappointment… because he didn’t bring it up again the rest of the night…
Though at the end of our next date, he said, “Hey, I know things didn’t go that great last time… but let me try tying you up again… I’ve got a little something new up my sleeve.”
Well… when we got back to his place, things started out the same… though after he pushed me down, & tied me up… it was like he was a completely new man… the way he took control, it was just… idk if I can even put it into words, it was THAT good.
“OMG, being tied up and touched like that was SO hot!!! Where’d you learn how to do that?” I asked him afterward…
Without saying one word, he pulled out his phone… smiled, & showed me this:
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[Note: This post was updated by Gotham Club on May 11, 2020.]
