What Turns a Girl On? Here’s How to Get Her So Hot & Bothered She Practically BEGS to Come Home With You…
In my last couple of articles, I showed you how to appeal to a woman’s senses.
This will get her interested in you, and it will also keep her interested in you… to a point.
Now, here’s where the rubber meets the road in terms of appealing to her senses:
Because while a man’s initial sex organ is his eyes… a woman’s initial sex organ is her ears.
So today, I’m going to show you why the main way into a woman’s romance “lockbox” is through what she hears (both subconsciously and otherwise)…
And how to use this information to get hot girls to hookup with you.
The Bizarre Reason Why Women Hold Out On Sex (Even When They Really Want It)…
Unlike men, most women start off looking for a relationship and a romantic partner.
Most girls have a romantic fantasy that they are looking to fulfill.
However, despite this plan…
You’ve probably discovered that–at least until they turn 35 or so, when the biological clock is pounding away and desperation starts to creep in–women seem to want to both:
a) Complain about how hard it is to find a guy… and:
b) Push every potential guy as far away from themselves and as close to the curb as they possibly can.
She can’t help it.
While a woman wants a mate… her “desire for safety” (AKA fear) and “need for control” (also fear) mean that she is constantly looking for what can go wrong.
As a result, her conscious plan to meet a man is constantly sabotaged by her conscious search for problems and dangers.
She says she wants to meet someone–and she means it–but she also wants to avoid the problems she’s had in the past.
She wants to meet someone, but the guys she likes just want one thing… she learned that by the time she was 17.
And that would be fine because she wants to give it up too, but she can’t seem to get them to stay once they’ve gotten it.
And yadda yadda yadda … the point is that the more a woman likes you, the more complicated she will try to be about giving up what she mistakenly assumes to be her only asset…
We’ve been talking about what they try to do and what they are aware of.
That’s not all there is though.
How To Tap Into Her Subconscious & Unleash Her Primal Sexual Desire…
There’s a way around the blocks and locks and clocks and difficulties of seducing a woman.
If you approach her conscious mind, you are approaching the gatekeepers.
As long as you look and seem like what she’s looking for, no problem.
You don’t know what that is, though, do you?
It also changes constantly as soon as another danger has been discovered, “to avoid that ever happening again.”
If you approach the unconscious mind, however, she doesn’t “know” what’s going on, so she can’t defend against it.
Her unconscious mind knows what she wants and is not focused in the same way. It’s not afraid of the same things and it’s focused on her needs first.
Her unconscious mind is on your side, if you are out to please her.
So how do you approach the unconscious and slip past the gatekeepers?
Through the senses.
It All Starts With Your Eyes…
Obviously, you want to do your best work to present a woman you are interested in with an attractive image.
I won’t spend too much time on that here, because you’ve probably heard it over and over and over again.
In the simplest terms possible, you’re aiming for symmetrical and clean.
Good posture will help you look neat too–your gut is more attractive when your back is straight, for example.
Your goal–and it starts during your first interaction (or “date”)–is to fulfill as many criteria for either this woman’s specific type of man, or most women’s general type of attractive man.
In other words, if you can’t be Brad Pitt, you should be aiming for Chris Pratt or Philip Seymour Hoffman (R.I.P.).
During this time, you should begin the seduction with your eye contact.
You should constantly be reading her to see if she’s uncomfortable, but also try to lock eyes with her as she talks to you.
When she’s bold enough to lock eyes with you, smile very slowly so she feels it.
If you’re sometimes thinking of sex when you look at her, she will also feel that. In fact, she will “hear” it subconsciously.
And as long as you don’t say it or make some rude remark, she’ll feel like her ideas are her own–or at least mutual.
In other words, if you think it while you’re looking at her, you will communicate the thought, “think of THIS,” without doing anything that could be rejected.
And here’s how this will cause her to want sex so badly with you, that most of the time, it “just happens”:
The Easiest Way to Speed Up the Seduction Process & Get Her in Bed on Night #1…
Your eye contact is a great way to get a hot girl subconsciously attracted to you…
But if you want her to jump into bed with you on night #1… then you have to do one more thing:
And in fact you can do this subconsciously as well… using these 3 revolutionary under-the-radar touches.
They’re subtle enough to use in public, without anyone around you knowing… (it’s actually pretty fun haha)…
And because they target a woman’s “secret erogenous zones”… they seem “friendly,” but get her turned on REALLY fast.
So before you know it, her panties will be soaked and she’ll be begging to come over and “watch Netflix”:
[Note: This post was updated by Gotham Club on September 9, 2019.]