Have You Ever Wondered What Women Really Mean When They Say Certain Things? Here’s The Fastest Way to Find Out…
If there’s anyone guilty of this mistake, it is I.
This mistake is something that can trick you into sabotaging your relationship with a woman…
Doing something you never thought you could…
Or dumping a girl like you never thought you would.
What is it?
It’s simple:
Taking what a woman says seriously–at face value.
A woman is an emotional creature…
And her feelings are–often, if not always–at a higher priority for her than yours are for you.
Her feelings are also more important to her than being accurate, or taking responsibility.
What does this mean?
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It means that very often, the things that a woman says are not always 100% “true,” in the sense that you and I understand.
This is the biggest distinction I see in coaching men vs. coaching women:
For women, they break down and leave relationships because of how they feel, despite what the guy says.
Even though you say you love her and booked the ticket to Greece, she doesn’t feel like you really love her. If you really loved her, then blah blah blah… (for example).
For men, we break down because we can’t get over the fact that what a woman says and what she does are in direct contrast.
She said she never wants to speak to me again, but she keeps calling… should I answer? Is this a test? (For example.)
For most men, their word is their law. This is not the case with women.
You may be familiar with the phrases:
“My word is my bond.”
“Take him at his word.”
“…And the word was with God, and the word was God.”
This is part of the value of the wedding vows, and why women want a commitment from a man–because she can expect him to stick to it.
The accusation, “You said you would….” is effective on a man. He stands by his word.
That accusation doesn’t carry a lot of weight on women, though. They have the sense to know that what they said changes depending on how they feel.
Here’s how it caught me.
The Time a Hot Girl “Ghosted” Me & Then Called Me Nonstop 10 Minutes Later…
A girl I was seeing had just “ghosted” me.
So I called her one more time…
She responded, and I asked–somewhat early in the conversation–“Where are you?”
She said, “In Wisconsin. Avoiding you.”
Well, that’s all I needed to hear. It’s certainly never my intention to date a girl against her will.
And a few weeks later, a woman who I met in another country wanted to visit the city. She wondered if she could come to stay at my place.
“Of course. Be lovely to see you,” I replied.
Well, friend, you don’t need to read everything I’ve written to know that the woman coming to see me was gorgeous and my type. And you can probably guess what happened the first night of her visit.
At some point–about halfway through her stay at my place–I got a call from Wisconsin.
She pressed me about why I was acting distant… and eventually she told me, “Don’t ever speak to me again.”
I’m a guy, and I take words seriously.
I hung up, and tried not to take the accusatory texts too painfully (while not replying to them).
I was a little confused when she called back 10 or 15 minutes later.
It Doesn’t End There…
Why does a woman who never wants me to speak to her again calling me?
I ignored the call–I had company, anyway–and then was confused when she didn’t stop calling.
Huh???
It’s not that I didn’t want to pick up. Quite the opposite, in fact.
I suffered the loss of that woman very painfully.
I’ve learned my lesson somewhat since then… but I hope it’s obvious that, in this story, “Don’t ever speak to me again,” really means:
“I’m so mad at you right now, that I don’t ever want you to speak to me again.”
Have you ever played that childhood game of adding two words to the end of every sentence that makes it instantly funny–“in bed”?
If so, you’ll be familiar with what I’m about to show you next.
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In our “game,” we’ll be adding four words to a woman’s sentences.
And it’s these four words that reveal what she truly means.
Very often, women will give you ultimatums.
It’s stuff like:
“If you’re not going to give me gifts that my friends will admire, I don’t know if this is worth it.”
“This isn’t working, because _____ …”
And so on.
Whenever a woman does this, or whenever you are confused about how she feels about you… then just add “I feel right now” to the end of her sentences.
That’s really what makes a woman’s words extremely real–and honest.
Because while a woman will be very, very honest with you in the moment… her feelings are not permanent. Things change.
A woman’s feelings are like the weather.
And once you understand that, then using her emotions to your advantage becomes way, way easier.
Here’s what I mean:
Here’s How to Use Her Emotions To YOUR Advantage…
It’s not a secret…
Women make A LOT of decisions based on emotions.
It’s why every single girl I’ve ever dated has bought some article of clothing that she NEVER wore, just because it was on sale…
But it’s also why women will often reject a man for reasons that make no logical sense.
You’ve probably heard the most common ones like:
“I need a man who’s at least 6 feet tall…”
Or,
“I need a man with a job, someone who makes 6 figures.”
One time, and I kid you not, a woman told me she “only dates men who read The Economist.” (WTF?!)
But here’s the thing…
Because women act on their emotions, if you can make her feel sexual and turned on around you… then guess what?
All of her dumb excuses NOT to sleep with you will fly straight out the window…
And the only thing she’s gonna be thinking about is how she can’t wait for you to ravage her in bed. 😉
Here’s how it’s done:
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