Dating Expert: “The REAL Reason Women Cheat on Good, Solid Guys”

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Discover The Bizarre Reason Why Women Cheat on Good Men–Can You Recognize the Signs She’s Going To Leave?

Something’s really been pissing me off. Making me angry. It’s frustrating me, and I’ve had enough — I’m not gonna take it anymore.

Client after client has come to me, wondering:

“My girlfriend cheated on me… and I didn’t do anything to deserve it! What happened?”

Every time, it’s the same old story. My client was “so good” to her and “paid attention to all of her needs”…

And yet, she walked out on him. No explanation. Completely unexpected.

Well, today I’m going to tell you why women do this — and give you the tools you need to make sure it never happens to you.

It all begins with the concept of “Quality Time.”

Dating Expert: "The REAL Reason Women Cheat on Good, Solid Guys"

What Is Quality Time, And Why Does It Matter?

You’ve probably at least heard of “Quality Time” before… but what is it, really?

Here’s my quick and dirty definition: Quality Time is basically when you share a mutual connection with a woman.

So what does it look like? And taking it one step further, how do you know when you’re having Quality Time?

Essentially, Quality Time is the part of an event — say a BBQ, or dinner in a nice restaurant — where the feelings of enjoyment peak. Something tastes great, or everyone’s having a great time… and the vibe just feels “right.”

When you’re having Quality Time, you aren’t distracted by anything else, and you don’t have to make an effort to look “interested.” The moment when you’re having the most Quality Time is usually going to be the most memorable moment of your evening.

So what? What the hell does this have to do with women and cheating?

It’s all about to become perfectly clear.

The Truth About Why Women Cheat on Good Men

Here’s the real reason a woman will choose to walk out on her man, betray him, and leave him for good:

It’s because she’s not getting enough Quality Time.

Quality Time is something a woman feels. It’s often how women describe having “sexual chemistry” or “a spark”… and it’s a huge motivating force for her.

So if you’re dating a woman, and she’s not getting the Quality Time she needs — trust me, she’ll get it somewhere else. And that “somewhere else” is almost always another man.

It could start as something that seems innocent. “I’m just going to get coffee with Sam,” she might say.

But here’s the thing: If she’s getting the Quality Time she needs from Sam, then eventually she’s going to stop wishing she’d get it from you.

And often, this ends with her being sexually attracted to Sam, and ultimately acting on that attraction.

Quality Time is why women cheat, leave and make bad decisions. In fact, most women would rather have Quality Time with a low-quality man, than no Quality Time with a good, solid guy. It’s the meat and potatoes of a relationship, and it’s absolutely necessary.

Which brings me to the next step…

Dating Expert: "The REAL Reason Women Cheat on Good, Solid Guys"

How To Make Your Quality Time Count With the Woman You Want

So how do you make it happen? How do you find Quality Time?

The problem here isn’t really about “finding” Quality Time… it’s about recognizing what it looks like.

Because the truth is, you cannot make Quality Time… you can only spend time. The Quality comes by itself.

Quality Time cannot be forced or manufactured. And of course, it’s possible to spend time without getting any Quality (like if you accompany a woman to a baby shower, and say two words to her the entire time).

So how do you maximize the Quality when you’re spending time with a woman?

Here are my 5 favorite methods:

1) Make Eye Contact

I debated whether or not to put this first, since it’s the easiest to do… but the truth is that it’s also maybe the most effective.

It’s simple: Look into her eyes when she’s saying something to you, and also look into her eyes when you’re saying something to her.

While you look at her, imagine what she’s feeling, and try and match that feeling with your facial expression.

For example, if she’s telling a story about how much she loves her cat, then a warm smile is the appropriate facial expression to have.

Which brings me to the next step…

Dating Expert: "The REAL Reason Women Cheat on Good, Solid Guys"

2) Be Accessible

If matching your facial expressions to her emotions sounds difficult, then you can use your words to connect with her as well.

Basically, all you have to do is echo what she’s saying, only in different words.

So if she says, “I’m so glad my boss, Brian, finally acknowledge my contribution at work”… then you could say:

“You work so hard, he should be making a big deal about it. You really deserve it.”

On top of showing her you understand, this is also an opportunity to compliment her. And what better way to get her to feel that special spark?

3) Be Present

If you’ve read any of my other articles, then you probably guessed this would be on the list.

It seems kinda obvious, but if you want the time you spend with a woman to count as “Quality Time,” then you have to remove all other distractions from your environment.

Don’t look at your phone — or even better, turn it off and put it away.

I’m not saying you need to pay full attention to her 100% of the time… but when it comes to Quality Time, giving her 80% of your attention over a period of two hours is far better than giving her 20% of your attention over a period of eight hours.

So focus on her, and make your time count. If you show her that the time you spend with her matters, she’s much more likely to count it as Quality Time.

Dating Expert: "The REAL Reason Women Cheat on Good, Solid Guys"

4) Relax

Seriously! When it comes to a “high-level” concept like Quality Time, it’s really easy to get stuck in your head:

  • Is this meaningful enough for her?
  • I think this counts as Quality Time… but does she think so too?
  • Is she secretly wishing she was with someone else?
  • I wonder if I’m too boring…

Forget all of this! I mean it.

Don’t try and force Quality Time to happen — focus on making a meaningful connection with her. In fact, avoid saying the phrase “Quality Time” to her altogether.

Pressure, expectation, and anticipation can make it impossible to fully relax enough to truly enjoy your time with her.

And the last step of ensuring the time you spend with her is Quality Time is my favorite… it all boils down to using the power of touch:

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5) Use This “Touch Trick”

Spain. A steamy salsa dancing club. And the opportunity to seduce Maria, a much younger woman.

Though I had my work cut out for me… because “Yo no hablo Ingles, papiiiii” she said… and the only Spanish I knew was “Hola.” How was I going to pull this off?

Then it hit me… I had to use the “Touch Trick.”

It’s something new I learned from a bachelor, who has spent the last decade traveling the world… he meets many women who don’t speak English… so he’s come to rely on this “Touch Trick” as a way to turn a woman on, within seconds… and without saying one word.

I’ll admit I wasn’t sure what to expect when I used it on Maria… though a few minutes later, when she bit her lip, looked into my eyes, and pulled me into a dark, secluded corner… I knew the “Touch Trick” had worked its magic. 😉

Check this out to see exactly how to use the “Touch Trick” on the next woman you want–you’re gonna love it:

Discover How to Use the “Touch Trick” to Turn a Woman on Within Seconds (Even if You Haven’t Said Anything to Her At All!)…

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