“She Flaked…But Now She Can’t Stop Calling Me! Here’s My Trick…”

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The Truth About Why Women Flake (And How to Get Around It)…

Here’s a scenario that might sound familiar:

You like a girl. She probably knows it (but you aren’t quite sure).

When you make plans, you always show up on time — 100% of the time, no questions asked.

And when she asks you for some company or needs someone to talk to on the spot…you’re there in a flash.

But for whatever reason, she almost always has to reschedule. And sometimes, she doesn’t even show up (and it takes her hours to text you back when it happens).

Why is she doing this? And how can you get back in control of your relationship?

The #1 Reason Why Women Flake

You’ve heard her excuses time and time again…

“I’m not going to leave here to go all the way downtown now.”

Or…

“Hey – I’m still tired. I’m not going to join you guys. I’ll see you on the weekend.”

You put all the work into organizing the plans…

And yet, she always seems to cancels out of thin air. To her, it’s nothing.

And the truth is that if you never reached out to her…you’d probably never hear from her again.

This kind of one-sided relationship is far too common. You’re hoping things develop into something romantic, so you hold on. And I can’t blame you.

But here’s the thing:

When you continue to let her reschedule…

And you just “let it go” every time she flakes on you…

You become her enabler. You’re subconsciously telling her it’s “acceptable” when she does this to you.

And that is the #1 reason women flake out on men: Because they know they can get away with it.

It’s easy to just “give up” when a woman continues to flake on you…

But it’s also easy to just let it continue (especially if she’s really attractive).

And that’s where things begin to get dangerous. Because when you allow her to flake on you over and over and over…

You’re jumping head-first into the dreaded friend zone.

Why?

A woman who knows she can flake without any consequences has the upper-hand in the relationship. And she damn well knows it.

Think about the type of men these chronically flaky women date:

They treat her like crap…

She complains about them to you constantly…

And you see them as total “jerks” or “douchebags.”

But guess who’s going to bed with her every night?

That “jerk.” That “douchebag.” That guy you swore you’d never be.

Now, I’m not telling you to turn into an a–hole to combat her flakiness…

But here’s what I am telling you to do:

My “100% Flake” Technique to Snap Her Out of Her Bad Habit and Into Your Bedroom

This is a drastic technique that I do NOT recommend for everybody.

I only recommend you use this if you’ve been hanging out with this woman for a few months, thinking things might be going somewhere…

And she’s flat out stood you up multiple times. You often end up buying her drinks, but she won’t acknowledge you as more than a friend. And she never suggests something for the two of you to do together.

Enter: The 100% Flake.

Suggest a plan like you usually would. It doesn’t have to be specific.

Something as simple as, “Hey, a group of us are going to the local pub…you should come” works fine.

And when she responds, give her the time and the place…

Then, simply don’t show up.

Yup.

Just don’t show up.

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Why The 100% Flake Works Like Magic

Listen: I know how it sounds.

“Won’t she think I’m a jerk…?”

“She won’t text me ever again…”

“This is just so…rude.”

Shut down those voices in your head. Hit the “off” switch for a second.

Here is a woman who’s flaked on you multiple times. And while it’s not always best to give her a “taste of her own medicine”…

In this case, it’s the only thing you can do to get out of the situation you’re currently in. You have to make her initiate the interaction.

So when (not if — when) she texts you later that night…or the next day…

You have 2 options:

1) Explain as little as possible. 

If she’s unclear about why you stood her up, you’re forcing her to come up with her own reasons. She might think you forgot, but since you’re always on time, and you never flake out…

She’ll automatically assume you were doing something more important. And that will pique her interest, because in her mind, up until now…

Nothing has been more important to you than her.

So you’re showing her that she’s not the only thing you think about…that you have better things to do.

That brings me to the second, more effective option, that when done correctly, is incredibly powerful:

2) Imply you were with another woman

Now, I’m not advising you to tell her, “I had another woman in my bed, that’s why I couldn’t see you.” But if you can make her think that maybe you were with another woman…

That maybe the reason you flaked had to do with going on another date…

Then if she cares about you at all, she’ll make every possible effort to make new plans with you.

And that’s because deep down, it’ll make her jealous — if she’s at least a little bit attracted to you.

That’s your goal with the 100% Flake: To identify whether or not this kernel of attraction is actually there.

So when she texts you and asks where you were, you could say,

“Oh, I’m so sorry, one of my old friends from college dropped in…and she distracted me.”

Then don’t say anything else. Give her dead air until the next day. Let her think about what you were maybe doing…

Because once you identify that small kernel of attraction, you know you can get out of the “flaky friend zone” for good.

And here’s how to do it:

How to Activate Her Desire Using This “Sexual Trigger Touch”…

The first time my buddy Al used the “100% Flake” on a woman, he rang my doorbell the next day:

“She texted me 5 times last night and wants to see me today! What do I do, David?!”

My brow furrowed…the “5 texts” was actually a huge red flag…

Al was in grave danger of falling into the friend zone and becoming her “text buddy”…

He was too “in the weeds” and couldn’t see it…but all of the warning signs were there…

I took a deep breath and steadied myself. “Look Al, here’s what you should do…this is the easiest way I’ve found to keep you from walking into this big land mine that’s waiting for you…”

I told him about the easiest way to activate her desire for him and keep him out of the friend zone for good:

I call it the “Sexual Trigger Touch”…yeahhh buddy!

When I told him about it he rolled his eyes…and true, it doesn’t work 100% of the time…

…but for a woman who responds to my “100% Flake” technique, this touch is like heroin to a junkie.

And believe it or not, Al took her home that same night…and now they’ve been together for 6 whole months.

All it took was a little magic from the Sexual Trigger Touch…

So check it out — you’ll love it:

Activate Her Desire for YOU With This “Sexual Trigger Touch”…

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