Follow The Steps Below & Get a Gorgeous Woman in Your Bed ASAP (No Matter How Long It’s Been)…
Dating is a wild world.
Honestly, if you’ve spent any time as a single adult, you really don’t need to go on an African safari.
From mixed signals from women, to a bunch of different advice from friends, what’s a guy to do?
Especially if you throw online dating into the mix. One recent study found that in 2019, Tinder users in the United States are 73% men and 27% female. That’s pretty low odds for guys if you ask me.
Why not take some tips from the pros?
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Cher Gopman is known as “NYC’s Wingwoman.” She’s a life and dating coach for men, and an expert in “the art of dating.”
What’s she got to say?
Read on to learn exclusive expert advice for landing the woman of your dreams in 2019.
1) Making A Cold-Call? Stay Strong.
The in-person cold call is a scary thing.
You know what I mean. When you gather all your courage and approach a woman out of nowhere.
It’s already super intimidating, right? I mean, you’re only human.
(If you don’t find this scary, you’d better patent your confidence recipe.)
If you’re like most guys and find the cold-call a little nerve-wracking—whether you’re at a bar, a cafe, on the bus, in the library—never fear.
New York’s top dating guru has you covered.
To improve your success rate when cold calling, she says, you have to choose one method and stick with it.
There are two approaches you can take.
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First? The direct approach.
That’s something like, “Hey, I know this is random, but I just couldn’t resist telling you I think you’re gorgeous.”
The direct approach doesn’t leave any questions in a lady’s mind about your intention.
Second option? The indirect approach.
For example: “What are you reading? Oh, I love that book.” Or: “What are you drinking? Do you come here often?”
Both of these approaches have been shown to work! But there are several ways you can make both of them more effective.
Most important: stay strong. Commit to one method—direct or indirect—and don’t waffle.
According to New York’s greatest wingwoman, a lady is likely to be put off if you seem confused about what you want from her.
Something like, “Oh, I love the wallpaper in here, don’t you? By the way, you’ve got a great behind…” might not go over too well.
Also: come up with a good follow-up line. What you say at first isn’t that important, as long as you can keep the conversation rolling and stay consistent.
Make sure you plan beyond your opener, no matter which approach you take.
Finally, smile. Don’t try to play it cool. Act friendly and open, and she’s likely to act friendly and open, too.
If you make yourself hard to read, she’s more likely to feel uncomfortable and end the conversation.
So be yourself and try to relax!
2) Eyes On The Prize
In this case, you are the prize.
If you focus on making yourself an excellent catch, you’ll eventually get…well, caught!
Dating guru Gopman is here to fill you in on which traits women are most likely to admire.
This is not to say you should change yourself—just make sure to put some effort into your biggest selling points.
First, Gopman says, women like a man who treats them (and others) with respect. (I second that!)
Make respectful behavior towards all people your M.O.—you never know who’s watching and developing a crush on you, just for being yourself.
Next: good hygiene. This one’s easy. The shower’s right over there!
You don’t have to do anything crazy, like spend an hour on your hair or bathe in cologne.
What else?
Women like men who can make them laugh.
This one’s a little trickier, because sometimes trying to be funny falls flat.
Humor is so complicated.
What’s one rule of thumb? Keep it positive.
This is especially important before you understand a woman’s unique sense of humor.
Avoid making negative jokes, saying negative things about others, or using too much sarcasm.
This way, if a line falls flat, it’s no big deal, and no one will get their feelings hurt.
What next?
Ambition is another quality that is really attractive to women.
This one is similar to respectfulness. Approach your life with ambition—work hard and go after your goals—and the ladies will take notice, I promise!
3) Master Confidence (But Not How You Think)
Gopman is really clear about this: women are wild for confidence.
But let’s break it down. What exactly is confidence?
A confident person loves himself.
He’s at ease in his own skin. He doesn’t beat himself up about little stuff.
He takes things in stride. He acknowledges his mistakes, and then works on doing better.
He doesn’t necessarily have the fanciest job/apartment/car/haircut.
He doesn’t necessarily have a six pack, either.
He’s a guy who recognizes his worth.
A confident guy is also engaging.
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He’s able to really see and listen to others.
To show confidence, ask questions!
If you talk about yourself all the time, that might actually come across as a lack of confidence.
Confidence doesn’t need a neon sign to declare its presence.
It’s just quiet, cool, and there.
If you feel comfortable being quiet and listening, your confidence will come across.
Confident–versus cocky–people are genuinely interested in others.
The woman you want will be impressed, since listening skills are a challenge for a lot of guys—work on these, and you’ll be ahead of the pack!
4) Be A “Body Reader”
You heard me right! For maximum dating success, Gopman says, learn to read body language.
No, that doesn’t mean giving a woman a thorough once-over.
It means looking for social clues in the way she moves and talks.
If she seems eager to answer your questions, great job! You’re on the right track.
Is she standing close to you or leaning into you? Even better! Stay the course! You’re obviously doing something right.
But what if she’s standing a little farther away, giving short answers, and looking around, avoiding eye contact?
Maybe she’s checking her phone a lot?
This type of body language might mean she’s feeling unsure.
Maybe she’s shy, nervous, or not interested.
Regardless, don’t despair!
If you read these body signs, try changing the subject.
You can even give the conversation a break, excuse yourself, and try talking to her again a little later.
This way, you’ll seem casually confident—like you’ve got lots of other beautiful women to talk to, and you’re just having fun!
Remember, she’s reading your body language too, so make eye contact, smile, and be friendly and open for maximum success.
5) Practice Good Dating Etiquette
Just like the good old days, good dating etiquette can go a long way!
We might live in a less formal society these days, but some things never change.
Gopman recommends the following actions to seal the deal:
First, text your new love interest right away.
You might feel like this is desperate, but Gopman assures you: it’s the best move!
Reference something from your conversation, and you’ll stay fresh in your future lover’s mind.
What else?
Be on time. Forget about fashionably late.
Show your date you take her seriously and are dependable by being on time. This is especially important for your first date.
Whether you’re hoping for a relationship or a hookup, you want to show her you’re someone she can count on.
Another thing? Don’t complain!
Save rant and whine-fests (we all do it, I know!) for a buddy whose bedroom you are not hoping to share.
By keeping it positive on dates, and in your early conversations, you’ll make sure she has a good time.
And finally, if you’re looking to “seal the deal” with a woman at the end of the night…
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When I say “good dating etiquette goes a long way”… it doesn’t ALWAYS mean dress nicely, pull out her chair, and otherwise treat her like a lady.
I mean… yeah, do all those things, they’ll work in your favor….
… though there’s a reason why guys who seem a little TOO nice never get laid.
Next time you’re out with a girl, try doing these 3 things instead ←
They’re real, actionable steps practiced by guys who get laid on dates… a LOT!
As a matter of fact… these steps are based on data from a massive meta analysis of the messaging and internet browsing patterns of women.
(For example, did you know 62% of women won’t sleep with you on the first date unless you do THIS?)
And honestly, I’m a little ashamed to admit it…
But I almost ALWAYS have sex on the first date when a guy does step #3 ;-):
